Girl Dilemma

[Derfud]

OK, I have a bit of a dilemma when it comes to Girls here. I Am asking the opinion of the PSU of which of these possible girls I should devote my effort to.

Girl A: I dont know her too well, but I know that she is very nice and cute, I have talked to her a few times, but am waay too shy to say anything really. I seem to have an unfathomable, inexplicable attraction to her. She is very shy.

Girl B: I know her a little better than Girl A, and dont break down when trying to talk to her. She is very nice, and cute, but I do not feel as attracted to her. I am not sure what feelings she has towards me.

Girl C: Known her for a long time, used to really like her, but not the same extent anymore, she may be warming up more to me now. She is also very shy, but cute.

Girl D: I know she likes me, but she is a Stoner, but I am not. She is pretty hot, but not shy at all.

So please only respond with serious answers to my thread.

[Strygun]

I *really* doubt you should be asking a community of gaming geeks, who stay at home and play games instead of leave the house, for girl advice.

[firecrackerNC]

Hmm why not try girl #4,try that out,if it turns out you 2 arent right for each other then try one of the others and just keep going down the list

[Sentrosi]

My opinion is to go after girl A. Reasons why:

1) She's someone you don't know yet. The other three you do know. If you would have had strong feelings for them in the past, they should have popped up by now. They haven't, so I don't think they deserve your time.

2) the both of you are very shy. So, what better way to break the ice than to ask her to come along with you on a movie night with mutual friends.

3) The stoner chick is a definite NO. I don't waste time with ppl like that. I've never done drugs and never will. I still don't understand why ppl do it. I'm probably ignorant I guess.

and finally

4) If you have a strong attraction to a girl, that's a sign. you probably won't give her up easily and she may respect you for that.

[JonnyK]

you've, talked to a.......girl? fuck man, you better take a long shower, get rid of those damn cooties.

[Daeda1us]

Excuse me, I have a socal life and DO leave the house (and not just for food and toilet paper)... :p

GirlA : Unless you can break through her shell, you're pretty much gonna go no where. Verdict, not worth much effort unless there is some progress. I'm guessing the reason why you like her is because she is mysterious (and cute).

GirlB : If you aren't all that interested in her, then don't bother.

GirlC : I'm guessing the reason why you don't like her as much anymore is because she didn't reciprocate the same felling back to you. Don't count her out because she is slower to warm up to you than you were to her.

GirlD : Just do her in da butt.


I really don't see why you are choosing just ONE. I mean, you aren't going out with any of these girls. It's ok to be interested in multiple girls and try to get to know multiple girls better. Don't concentrate your efforts on one, spead the love. Test the waters and see how things develop.

I don't really know what else to tell you because I do not know you or the girls in question. Just hang out with them, have fun, and most of all be yourself!

[xuur]

a couple of things from a 22 years married gaming geek.

1) who says you have to choose any particular one? dont lie about seeing, knowing or talking to the others and theres no reason you cant hang with all of them. any one of them that cant accept the presence of other women in your life at this stage is too possesive and should be avoided.

2) you forgot one girl. Girl E. The one you havent met yet. dont pin yourself to the ones "in hand" without keeping your eyes open to other possibilities.

3) Be a friend to all of them. let the ride go where it will and you wont have to decide. it'll come to you all on its own.


and foremost of all.......keep this rule of thumb handy..it could save you.

"A man chases a woman until she catches him"

translation: its not for you to decide. they will.......trust me on this.

x

peace and good hunting

[Yuyi]

Originally posted by Strygun
I *really* doubt you should be asking a community of gaming geeks, who stay at home and play games instead of leave the house, for girl advice.

[Spider]

Stry I'm not a big comp geek ;).

hmk here we go!

girl D: Don't! forget about her don't make the same mistakes as me don't go for what you can get :D (plus if she does drugs and isnt shy at some times then she's easy :lol: )

Girl A: Definitly would be a good choice shy girls are great.

Girl B: hmmm I dunno really but would be less of a good choice then first.

Girl C: Would be my choice :nod: I have a great relationship with my best friend (yes a girl) and if it were to go to a higher level I would be the happiest man on earth but i'm happy as it is :D

So I think either A or C :nod:

[NCG JMan]

Well, I say that the girl you feel most comfortable with is the one you should choose to be with. I married my bestfriend (met in college). We have been together for 7 years now. If all you have is attraction(physical) then it probably won't work out. That's just my experience. Good luck, let us know how it turned out. :)

[Strygun]

my true answer?

What was your first answer? Seriously. Who do you WANT us to say?

[Lonehunter]

A, if not A then C.

(Dude you should really decide this for your self)

[Derfud]

Thanks for all the input guys. I really appreciate it :D I will take the comments made into consideration.

[Sputty]

Originally posted by Strygun
I *really* doubt you should be asking a community of gaming geeks, who stay at home and play games instead of leave the house, for girl advice.
:nod:
That about sums it up

In fact I'd say the stoner just for the hilarity value and the fact that *cough*sex*cough* is almost guaranteed(People will probably flame me for this but remember I mentioned hilarity value)

[Navaron]

Originally posted by xuur
a couple of things from a 22 years married gaming geek.

1) who says you have to choose any particular one? dont lie about seeing, knowing or talking to the others and theres no reason you cant hang with all of them. any one of them that cant accept the presence of other women in your life at this stage is too possesive and should be avoided.

2) you forgot one girl. Girl E. The one you havent met yet. dont pin yourself to the ones "in hand" without keeping your eyes open to other possibilities.

3) Be a friend to all of them. let the ride go where it will and you wont have to decide. it'll come to you all on its own.


and foremost of all.......keep this rule of thumb handy..it could save you.

"A man chases a woman until she catches him"

translation: its not for you to decide. they will.......trust me on this.

x

peace and good hunting

Bingo-

Some of us have played the dating game and won. That's almost verbatim what I was going to say, except I'd ditch girl #4- nothing good comes from druggies.

[Sputty]

I stay at home at talk on IRC. Want my advice? Squeeze a kitten!

[Ghost06]

Pick one, give the rest my address

[1024]

Originally posted by Sputty
:nod:
That about sums it up

In fact I'd say the stoner just for the hilarity value and the fact that *cough*sex*cough* is almost guaranteed(People will probably flame me for this but remember I mentioned hilarity value)

Sad, but true.

[Lexington_Steele]

Go with girl A

In addition to going after a girl who I think you like best, you are conquering your fear of picking up girls. This will help you down the road.

The way you reported girl B and girl C makes believe that you don't have much of a chance with them.

Stay away from girl D if you want to remain a non-smoker.

Again, go with girl A, although I think you had secretly picked her already.

[TheRegurgitator]

girl a

[EineBeBoP]

Originally posted by Ghost06
Pick one, give the rest my address

share the wealth man! share the wealth!

oh, and id hit B.

[Derfud]

OK, just remember they are all 15...

[eXoSloth]

I'd go with a.

Ha ha the ONE girl I like is a year older than me and next year we are going to different schools. It suxxors. We were both in our school's drumline, that's how I met her.

[Sentrosi]

Originally posted by Sputty
I stay at home at talk on IRC. Want my advice? Squeeze a kitten!

I think that's what he's trying to accomplish here Sputty.

"We spend 9 months trying to break out of it, and we spend the rest of our lives trying to get back into it."