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JetRaiden
2003-11-10, 10:06 PM
OK, this has been bothering me for a while now, and I figured who better to ask then a bunch of PlanetSide junkies.

Ok, Theres 2 of them. Girl A and Girl B. Me and Girl A have been really good friends since like 5th grade. I moved a 1 1/2 ago so our relationship hasnt been too great since. We still talked alot but lately I havent talked to her since June, and seen her in person last febuary. And its not like I moved very far, like 45 miles, but hey, its Rhode Island, where people wont drive for 10 minutes to eat out.
Girl B is more recent. I met her freshmen year and have been really good friends ever since. She was a bit of a....tramp last year, and did some drugs, well alot of drugs. Now shes clean, and just the way I liked her. She left my school at the end of last year, and claims to be coming back after christmas break.........help me...... :(

Im not nessecarily asking who should I go out with, but where and what I should do next.

Kikinchikin
2003-11-10, 10:28 PM
I have very very limited girl experience, but I would advise you to first ask the question- Am I willing to get into a "long distance" relationship. (I use long distance because you do not see her every day)

Vick
2003-11-10, 10:29 PM
Which one is hotter? Which one has a better personality?

And what happened to those other girls?

Squeeky
2003-11-10, 10:30 PM
I got some advice. Don't ask a forum inhabited by 80% Geeks who haven't gotten any action since they were breast fed :p

Vick
2003-11-10, 10:34 PM
Squeeky, stfu and die please, you dont know everyone here.

So please speak for yourself, or maybe let Hamma speak for you.

(because squeeks is hammas bitch, get it?)

AztecWarrior
2003-11-10, 10:35 PM
Zero experience. All I have to say is that you dug yourself into a bit of a hole there.

Kikinchikin
2003-11-10, 10:36 PM
Online forums are actually a good place to ask such questions. Mainly because the people you are asking are impartial. They don't know you or know the girls, so they will give advice to the best of what they think.

AztecWarrior
2003-11-10, 10:38 PM
The experience of the posters does vary, though. One-on-one real-life help is best. Anonymity of the Internet, combined with the "out of death threat range" factor means people can post fucked up advice and get away with it.

Vick
2003-11-10, 10:38 PM
Yeah, asking on forums is fine, though some details would help...

Kikinchikin
2003-11-10, 10:39 PM
Well yeah you're right there, but since Jet's been around a while, he probably knows who is being an idiot and who is genuinely trying to help.

r3d
2003-11-10, 10:40 PM
I got some advice. Don't ask a forum inhabited by 80% Geeks who haven't gotten any action since they were breast fed :p


Hell yeah, what I was going to say was something like this

"Well ask both of them if they want to cyb0r, then wichever one dews (LMAO GET IT DEWS/DOES) it the best ask out, then if she says no just pretend youre going out and tell everyone. and when she confronts you about it, NEVER talk to her in person, just wait till shes online then talk, and when she does say something just say "LOLOL!ol!ol WAHT ARE YOU TLAKIN BOUT'? QWWE R SO GOIN OUTZ0RS LMAOOL0L90"

Yeah...

Kikinchikin
2003-11-10, 10:42 PM
:rofl:

Sputty
2003-11-10, 10:42 PM
I got some advice. Don't ask a forum inhabited by 80% Geeks who haven't gotten any action since they were breast fed :p
:rolleyes:
Oh, yes, the wise 14 year old.

JetRaiden
2003-11-10, 10:49 PM
:lol:


ok girl A is kinda a sweet girl whos really nice but damn hot at the same time. Girl B is really hot too but shes a little...."lose" so to speak.

Hamma
2003-11-10, 10:50 PM
I got some advice. Don't ask a forum inhabited by 80% Geeks who haven't gotten any action since they were breast fed :p
i.e. Squeeky

Everay
2003-11-10, 10:54 PM
hold on, didnt i already answer this question over AIM?....i suppose its better to get a poll from all the geeks than just one

Zodiac
2003-11-11, 12:10 AM
OK, this has been bothering me for a while now, and I figured who better to ask then a bunch of PlanetSide junkies.

Ok, Theres 2 of them. Girl A and Girl B. Me and Girl A have been really good friends since like 5th grade. I moved a 1 1/2 ago so our relationship hasnt been too great since. We still talked alot but lately I havent talked to her since June, and seen her in person last febuary. And its not like I moved very far, like 45 miles, but hey, its Rhode Island, where people wont drive for 10 minutes to eat out.
Girl B is more recent. I met her freshmen year and have been really good friends ever since. She was a bit of a....tramp last year, and did some drugs, well alot of drugs. Now shes clean, and just the way I liked her. She left my school at the end of last year, and claims to be coming back after christmas break.........help me...... :(

Im not nessecarily asking who should I go out with, but where and what I should do next.

mmmm dirty girls. :love:

go with the tramp.

Acaila
2003-11-11, 01:15 AM
Long distance relationships are difficult and painful. It is hard to stay faithful and easy to forget about her. Unless your in love or some shit don't enter into it. Also, as you were friends for a long while, you already know her well and that spoils the best part of a relationship; becoming friends as you become lovers. A point to remember on long distance relationships, being caught have phonesex is the same fucking thing as being caught masterbating.

The other girl, well I will assume she has more sexual experience than you, that can be intimidating as we like to think we are unbridled sex gods dispensing hot man love whenever and where ever we so choose. Unless your Ron Jeremy, this probably isn't the case. I recommend going to the nastiest porn sites you can find and bringing yourself up to her level if you feel this way, she will be impressed by your knowledge of the proper way to perform deep throat on a horse. Many people want a girl who is a "virgin", those people are fucking idiots and the type of assholes who perpetuate bullshit double standards. You say she is a tramp, for having a bit of cock in her. God forbid she enjoys having SEX OMG! Think about yourself or your mates who fuck random girls all the time, why are they a stud and she is a slut for the doing the same thing? You are looking at it the wrong way, what you should see is that she likes copping it and you will get lucky frequently, whilst also sharing the deep bonds (no not S&M you sick fucks) of a full filling and healthy relationship.

The drugs can be a huge problem, junkies don't make good girlfriends, but from the sounds of it she went through a phase of experimentation and is over it now. So really it is of no concern. If she refers to home as "rehab" and coffee as "methadone", run away.

The simplest answer to your conundrum, which one do you like most? Go with that one.

Just a suggestion, perhaps you try introducing them. If this works, post pics or didn't happen.

Zodiac
2003-11-11, 01:57 AM
Nasty pr0n sites = teh no. pr0n is fake as hell, you will be having a relation ship, not fucking a total stranger for money. Ask some friends who have experiance, and if you dont have any friends like that, make some.

edit: you could even grab a book on the subject I guess. *shrugs*

good luck :thumbsup:

Squeeky
2003-11-11, 03:13 AM
Aww cmon guys. It was just a sad excuse to use the breast feeding joke :(.

Oh well, and don't even got here sputty. i'm 15 and your.....gah nevermind.

BUGGER�GHO�T
2003-11-11, 03:23 AM
Uh oh, hes 15, someone tell dmv. :rolleyes:



I go with neither, since you dont drive 10 minutes for lunch. Apperently up here on the mountain it's 10 minutes or die of frozen tv dinners.


But if it had to be choice, A. If I'm in a horny mood I might go with B. ;)

Mtx
2003-11-11, 03:35 AM
Oh well, and don't even got here sputty. i'm 15 and your.....gah nevermind.


Do you perhaps own any cats or kittens?

Flammey
2003-11-11, 05:38 AM
Who you calling a geek?

ZeusCali
2003-11-11, 09:01 AM
squeeky if you dont have anything good to say go back to palmala or Chelle KAy?
STOP trying to take over threads you little 15 year old public masterbater

Okay Jet i would say IGNORE the Cyber idea.

First off Which girl do You Fancy more?

Second try to regain contact with both of them, you can always have the 2nd as a Friend.

Third If you have a problem with the Drugs or Sex in the girls past then that makes your choice for you doesnt it?

Forth WE need more information as usual.
Age,
Picture?,
Habits,
Personality,
Which one your leanning to,
Distance from your house to theirs,
If you have a problem with the drugs and sex,
can you drive?,
do you have a car/bus pass?


Personally I'm Not sure which one you should go for, But i do think you should "stay in touch" with both of them.

Squeeky
2003-11-11, 10:49 AM
Do you perhaps own any cats or kittens?

Indeed. 1 kitten, 1 cat.

JetRaiden
2003-11-11, 11:35 AM
I recommend going to the nastiest porn sites you can find and bringing yourself up to her level if you feel this way,


:lol: :lol: :lol:

thanks. ;)

JetRaiden
2003-11-11, 11:36 AM
btw guys I think I might have a few pics somewhere but I'll ONLY post them as long as you promise not to masterbate to them.

Acaila
2003-11-11, 01:14 PM
Nasty pr0n sites = teh no. pr0n is fake as hell, you will be having a relation ship, not fucking a total stranger for money.
I am going to pretend this doesn't exist :(.


Actually 60% of my post was a joke, I wouls assume most people seperate what was poor humour from perls of wisdom. :p

simba
2003-11-11, 03:49 PM
I would say dont rush things, but I dotn know

Zodiac
2003-11-11, 04:24 PM
I am going to pretend this doesn't exist :(.


Actually 60% of my post was a joke, I wouls assume most people seperate what was poor humour from perls of wisdom. :p

I had a feeling that your post was a bit contradictory and....odd. you got me there :p

Spider
2003-11-11, 04:39 PM
If you have this much delima with girls wait till you get to women! :p

But seriously follow your heart... it's really the only way to go...