Moral issue!

[Spider]

Well here it is... the time of the month where I come to you guys for some sort of moral issue!

This time I come to you not for dating advice or anything of the sort... I come to you because you won't awnser "OMG HIT IT!".

Now here is my delima. There is this girl I've known for about hmmm what 4 months... now she has a boyfriend... they have been together for 2 months or so and I've known the guy for some odd month because of her... now here's the complication... I've been given the opportunity to hmmm have "fun" with her... now she won't dump the guy... I know the guy... and I can do her...

I think you understand my delima! What in fucking hell should I do :ugh:.

[Confectrix]

Act like a human being and excersize self-control. The girl obviously needs some support if she is willing to engage in sexual activity with two individuals with barely knowing them. Assist her in doing what it right, what is good. Keep her virtuous, don't make her a whore.

So much for marriage.

[Onizuka]

It would complicate things a lot if you did it. In the end, I can't say it's worth it (unless she's "omfg hot!")

[FlakMan]

Um, what he said

[mechaman]

:bananasex

[Mr1337Duck]

How hot is she? That's the judge. But really, on this one I recommend you steer clear until a bit after she dumps him if that's what's probably gonna happen. Not the same day she dumps him, that gets you into fights.

[Spider]

Actually she hasnt slept with her boyfriend yet... O_o but she wants me... she's cute but I wouldnt say she is the hottest thing on the planet (but she is cute).

[Onizuka]

Okay, based on what you've said, dont hit.

[FlakMan]

If she wants to sleep with you but not him, wtf is she doing with him?

[Hamma]

You know that old saying, you know how it goes:

"Bro's before hoes"

Don't be an asshole.

[Derfud]

Spider, if I were you...























http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads/Derfud/banana_hitit_big.gif







Actually I'm only kidding, but really I would suggest you hold back, and dont get involved with someone who is already involved with someone else.

[Onizuka]

If she wants to sleep with you but not him, wtf is she doing with him?

$....?

[Setari]

You know that old saying, you know how it goes:

"Bro's before hoes"

Don't be an asshole.

lol where the hell does that saying come from? j/k but yea, do what the other ppl said....

[Sputty]

Act like a human being and excersize self-control. The girl obviously needs some support if she is willing to engage in sexual activity with two individuals with barely knowing them. Assist her in doing what it right, what is good. Keep her virtuous, don't make her a whore.

So much for marriage.
I concur except with the making her a whore part. It's obvious she is already if she's offering it to you like that/.

BTW, I'd hit it, but then again I'd hit anything.

[Corrosion]

:bananasex

[Everay]

You know that old saying, you know how it goes:

"Bro's before hoes"

Don't be an asshole.

[Spee]

What Hamma said. I'm in a similar situation right now.


A girl is dating a guy. I know this girl, and I like her. She knows me, and likes me. However, since I see her about 150% more than she sees her current guy, I COULD be an asshole and make a move on her and break them up.


However, thats just not cool. So, with the knowledge that teenage relationships are volitile, and break up often, and the fact that we both like each other, I shall wait.



Patience rewards those who practice it.

[Squick]

I never take another boyfriend into consideration when persuing a girl, and would only barely take a husband into consideration.

My thinking is the following: If a girl is going to consider being adulterous with you, she is adulterous in general. So if it is not you, it will be some other guy other then her boyfriend.

The only shred of morality I have had in these situations is I bring the girl to the point that she realizes she is not happy with her current boyfriend and breaks it off with him before things reach a boiling point; so the guy is not dragged through a situation where he is most likely not getting any physical or emotional support, but is too damn stubourn to leave on his own accord.

And needless to say, if a girl will cheat with you, she will cheat on you. Expect no monogamy, even if it is sworn.

[Flammey]

Here's an idea, Do what ever the fuck your scruples say to do. Duh. If you decide to fuck her, then you fuck her, if not, then you don't. Simple. Moral my ASS. It's only wrong if you think it's wrong. Fuck the system and it's rules and morals. It doesn't fucking work anyways.

[Spee]

Fuck the system and it's rules and morals. It doesn't fucking work anyways.

[Squick]

http://www.geocities.com/squick.geo/pic4picminovamind.txt

[Squeeky]

Don't hit it. When you whip out that small pecker you call a penis you may scar the poor misses for life :(

[Chaaos]

http://www.geocities.com/squick.geo/pic4picminovamind.txt

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[Sputty]

Don't hit it. When you whip out that small pecker you call a penis you may scar the poor misses for life :(
Spider penises are less than a millimetre in length. Mouse penises are about 1 CM

[Pilgrim]

Seriously I'm normally the first person to suggest a moderated and moral aproach to anything...

But this is different.

You are either a man or you are not.

People have denegrated manhood down to the point where its lost meaning. Like it or not our basic instinct is to either fuck it or kill it... and sometimes both.

So either be a predator or don't, choose what side of manhood you fall on. I can tell you that I've never regreted anything I've done... but I've regreted a ton of things I didn't do.

[ultraviolet]

Don't hit it. When you whip out that small pecker you call a penis you may scar the poor misses for life :(

effing signed. I hope that boy doesn't actually procreate.

[1024]

http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads/Derfud/banana_hitit_big.gif


omfg biggest sign EVAR!!

anyways, go with what hamma said. "Bros before hoes."

[DeadTeddy]

do what pilgrim said, kill her.

if she doesn't like the guy and you think they're gonna break up then I don't really think you can call it cheating. many ppl start a new relationship before the one they're in ends "officially" cause they can see the end comming.
so about that "if she cheats with you she'll cheat on you" thing. my bet is if she cheats on him during the end of their relationship, it'll be too late for your relationship anyways when she cheats on you. so it's not cheating, it's more like "moving on fast"

anyway, if you want to stay friends with that guy, wait a bit. your hand will keep you company until then, it's up to you to decide if it's worth the wait.

[Zatrais]

Be a man, have respect for whats off limit. This shouldn't even be a dilema.

[Rayder]

When a sign that says "Do not Enter" is removed from a door, and one that says "Enter" is put in it's place, more people will go in, but the interest isn't there anymore.

[FlakMan]

rawk out with yer cawk out :D

[Tavin]

Don't. If she does want you that badly, tell her to break up with the other guy.

[Spider]

Woah... already three fucking pages and I only slept like 10 hours... O_

Ok... well thing is she doesnt want a relationship... she only wants welll you get the point... now thing is.. part of me is saying do it... other don't... and both those parts are trying to kill each other.

I think I'll go with what most of you guys said and not do anything about it... I mean if the girl was better looking... sure... but not worth the trouble... and her boyfriend is a fucking giant... so yeah :ugh:

[Rayder]

You know what? Forget this entire post, everything I suggested ended up with your getting your ass kicked.

[FlakMan]

No wonder she's still with him

[Spider]

:lol:! As I said she hasnt slept with him :lol:.

[Rayder]

Well, she's still his girlfriend, and he's still her boyfriend, and if she hasn't given him any... how well did you say you know this guy?

[Spider]

Not much... I've known him for a month or so.

[AztecWarrior]

Don't.

[Rayder]

Meh, ask her why she doesn't want to do it with her bf. She'll probably spin some crap about wanting you for teh fun, but him for the 'political' status.

[Happy lil Elf]

Sterotypical "Huuurrrrr hit that shit d00d! U gotta be a man!!!1!11!" bullshit aside...

If you have any honor at all you don't, under any circumstances, nail someone who you know is with another person. There's no excuse. Ever. It's one of those things in life that falls under the "Just Plain Wrong" category. If she wants you then she can end it with the guy she's currently seeing. If she just wants to sleep around, tough. She can find someone else to assist her in being a slut.

[xuur]

"Bro's before hoes"

Don't be an asshole.
- Hamma

Yeah. that about says it. besides..there is NO SUCH THING as a freebee. it undoubtedly costs/will cost something.

[Spider]

Yeah. that about says it. besides..there is NO SUCH THING as a freebee. it undoubtedly costs/will cost something.

Well that's it! Coming from the mouth of Xuur is usually wise words... thanks everyone for the help...

She's supposed to call me today when she does... she's gonna get a clear awnser...!

[Nimbus]

My advice:
If you're friends with the guy, TELL HIM. It may upset him, but it'll be better for him in the long run. If he doesn't believe you, tell him you'll bork her then. Then bork her. Then tell him again.

If you're not friends with the guy, bork the crap out of her and forget about it. Not your fault he's dating a slut.

I've done all of the above by the way.

[martyr]

send him to sleep with the fishes. problem solved.

[Dharkbayne]

My advice:
If you're friends with the guy, TELL HIM. It may upset him, but it'll be better for him in the long run.


Yup.

[BUGGER]

What Nimbus said.

If he believes and stays with her, help the guy out. If he says he doesn't believe, prove it. If he just breaks up with her, its all you.

[Irenicuz]

I wouldn't get with her and wouldn't get involved and tell him what she said... if you like either one of them, then telling could be bad, she would definetly be mad at you and he could take it wrongly depending on what kind of guy he is (think your lying, etc) and then you lose your friendship with both.

[Robot]

yeah, definately what nimbus said

[Firefly]

I read about the first five replies and am seeing a trend here.

First: need I remind you that most men are "territorial"? While a woman is not "property", a relationship is. So what you need to worry about while worrying about your hitting it, is his hitting you. Or worse. Much worse.

Secondly: while she may not have slept with him, but she would sleep with you... that says something about her moral character, to say nothing of yours. If she would bang you while she's dating/seeing/whatever with this guy, imagine what she's doing with every other guy. That poor bastard.

Thirdly: furthermore, protected-sex isn't always protected. Plus it doesn't cover other "non-standard" sex acts, so there's ANOTHER thing you have to worry about- getting hit by herpes, syphillis, HIV...

And finally: like Hamma said- don't be an asshole. While you're guided by your own moral compass, you also need to be an adult if you're going to play in the adult world. And part of THAT includes this thought: what if she were YOUR girl and some OTHER guy had the opportunity? Would you want some guy sticking his dick in your girlfriend?

The answer to that, should be the answer to your question.

[Rayder]

send him to sleep with the fishes. problem solved.
Martyr, you can't keep sending people that you don't like to Seaworld, you'll eventually run out of money. Send em to Canada.

[Professor Frink]

Don't mean to pry but this thread is already fairly personal... What are your approximate ages? If you are still in your teens, do it! Older than that you may want to think carefully. As far as teens go this is not a rare situation. Sex is not a big deal, no matter what uptight do-rights may say. Good luck!

[Spider]

I'm 19.

She's 17 going on 18.

[Professor Frink]

No big deal! Just use your head man. (ba da ching) Be safe & don't lead her on. If you don't want to get serious with her make sure she knows it ahead of time. As far as the guy is concerned, he doesn't sound like a close buddy of yours so that shouldn't be the sticking point. You shouldn't tell anyone & hopefully she won't either but don't be surprised if he finds out & is pissed off. This is a scenario being played out all over the world as we speak.

*misses his teens* sigh

[Indecisive]

"OMG HIT IT!".

[Rayder]

Woah, why is this even a question? Your 19 and she's 17? That should stop you right there. She's a minor and your an adult. See where this is going? It will leak out, you will get your ass caught. Common sense :)

[Robot]

Woah, why is this even a question? Your 19 and she's 17? That should stop you right there. She's a minor and your an adult. See where this is going? It will leak out, you will get your ass caught. Common sense :)

the age of consent could be lower where he lives. (it's 14 up here)

[BUGGER]

Woah, why is this even a question? Your 19 and she's 17? That should stop you right there. She's a minor and your an adult. See where this is going? It will leak out, you will get your ass caught. Common sense :)
....if thats a joke, I'm laffin; if truth, I'm still laffin.

Its just 2 years, its gets fucked up when its 10. And sadly I had a friend that actually went out with a girl 15 years older than him. :eek:

[Hamma]

Use the right head, not the dick head.

[Rayder]

Well I don't know where he's living, but here in America it's a national law, if your 18+ no sex with anyone 18-. Now, each state has different laws about minor's and sex. Here in Michigan, 15- don't get to have fun, but 16-17 you can have sex with other 16 and 17 year olds.

[scarpas]

ouch... i wouldnt do it (unless she is insanely hot)

[Queensidecastle]

If he is a really good buddy then dont do it, but if just an aquaintance or like a friend of a friend and she is super hot, then I say tap dat ass. You are still young and believe me, sow your wild oats while you still have the chance.

[Spider]

Guys... we can stop posting I made her my mind and told her to get lost :lol:.

Age of consent in Canada is 14 by the way... so 40 year old men can have sex with 14 year old girls if they want :p!

[Rayder]

Need I say it again? Yes I need. Canada is fucked up.

[Spider]

Parents can still sew the guy if they want for pedophelia... (d�tournement de mineur) if they think the girl didnt actually accept...

[Rayder]

Sue. Sew is planting seeds in the ground or stitching something :)

[Queensidecastle]

Guys... we can stop posting I made her my mind and told her to get lost
She must not have been hot :D Now, substitute said girl with Paris Hilton and then what would you have done? ...and be honest! :D

[Hamma]

It varies by state in the US, some are 16. I don't think any are 14 however

[ultraviolet]

Sue. Sew is planting seeds in the ground or stitching something :)

Actually, sew is stitching. Sow is planting seeds in the ground. :) Just wanted to clarify.

[Spider]

Damnit! :lol: Stop it you nazis!

[Dharkbayne]

Hamma, stop saying stuff that should be quoted. Ahhh!

[FlakMan]

Grammar Nazis!

[Rayder]

Actually, sew is stitching. Sow is planting seeds in the ground. :) Just wanted to clarify.
You may have won the battle, but you will not win the war! :domotwak:

[ultraviolet]

Oh, I will win the war. I have boobies!

Seriously, though, I just wanted to clarify, not be a grammar nazi. If I was trying to be a nazi I would have inserted insults and expletives. :p

[Rayder]

Boobies will not tempt those with the power of Speel! We will find a way!

[ultraviolet]

:lol:

Have you seen the legs or ass on me? :brow: They'll show YOU power of Spee! ;)

[Rayder]

Excuse me? That's the power of Speel, with an "L," and yes I have seen your legs.

[Onizuka]

:lol:

Have you seen the legs or ass on me? :brow: They'll show YOU power of Spee! ;)

:eek: :eek: :eek:

[ultraviolet]

Excuse me? That's the power of Speel, with an "l."

I totally thought you were making a reference to a psu membar. :lol: I'm dumb, don't mind me.

:D

In any case, bwa haha! I win!

[Spider]

Oh, I will win the war. I have boobies!

Seriously, though, I just wanted to clarify, not be a grammar nazi. If I was trying to be a nazi I would have inserted insults and expletives. :p

Explet.... WHAT!?

[AztecWarrior]

I totally thought you were making a reference to a psu membar. :lol: I'm dumb, don't mind me.

:D

In any case, bwa haha! I win!
I was wondering where Spee entered this conversation :doh:

[Firefly]

Now, substitute said girl with Paris Hilton and then what would you have done? ...and be honest! :D
That girl is a skank. Her fake-tan makes her look like she got out of the Georgia red clay, she's so skinny and rail-thin that her clothes won't fit AT ALL, she's a spoiled airhead, and she's so unoriginal that I've met marbles with more personality than her. In short, there is nothing attractive about that girl. She's stupid, ditzy, ugly, looks skanky-style dirty, and rail-thin on all counts.

[EarlyDawn]

It would complicate things a lot if you did it. In the end, I can't say it's worth it (unless she's "omfg hot!")Yeah, I agree. Skipping the marrage issue (marrage is just a word, if you need a state-approved legal proceeding to solidify your love for your Other, then you need to reevaluate your feelings), the concequences will defenitely get back to you. :doh:
[Edit:And I respectfully disagree with Nimbus, although I understand where he's comming from. I'd say do what you have to do, or stay out of it. Completely. Any guy experienced with female BS knows word gets around with them fast. Ratting her out could hurt you big time.

[ultraviolet]

I was wondering where Spee entered this conversation :doh:

Me too, hon. Me too.

[Zodiac]

You know that old saying, you know how it goes:

"Bro's before hoes"

Don't be an asshole.

Never heard that before, I like it.

I gotta agree with that. :thumbsup: