Help!

[Spider]

Let's see... I've been talking to this girl for like a month and a half... she's nice and all.. but she's not really my style.

Now yesterday I went to a party... drank half a bottle of vodka a couple of beers and a shooter of I don't know what... she was kinda drunk I was buzzed but not out of my mind. When it came that I didnt want to be around to many people I went into a corner of the basement and crashed there (was pretty dark but she saw me go there) she came over kissed me etc. now mind you I tried to tell her no... but try when your half-drunk and she's totally hamered. Anyhoo... it cam to be that she did alot of head movement but it wasnt facing my face *cough*.

Now it wouldnt be that bad... but she's a sweet girl and I don't wanna hurt her too much... she thinks were in a relationship (she called me today to talk about what happened yesterday blah blah...) and I don't wanna go out with her (not my type really... she's decent looking and well that doesnt do it for me... she aint atleast cute it's a waste of time...).

I really don't know what to do... I need to tell her but how? Worse part is I'm attracted to her best friend whom was drunk too last night so I got some sugar from both... and some random girl... *bangs head* I will never drink again!

I can already hear the screams: ATTENTION WHORE!

But right now it's not the case...

Never going to any of their parties ever again... ever... was basicly just a bunch of drunk people dry humping each other making out and dancing wildly.. X_x

[worldvengence]

ya, basically the exact same thing happened to me once...just with a few differences...totally blows to be in that situation

[VivaLaNuBc4k3]

just be like, im sorry but what happened just happened. and that means i dont lub you. then just keep the you liking her friend thing a secret.

[Onizuka]

:rolleyes: Best advice is don't do it (or anything related to it) when your drunk.

[VivaLaNuBc4k3]

just be like, im sorry but what happened just happened. and that means i dont lub you. then just keep the you liking her friend thing a secret. then everything will be groovy :groovy:

[Edit] Sorry for double post

[Spider]

just be like, im sorry but what happened just happened. and that means i dont lub you. then just keep the you liking her friend thing a secret. then everything will be groovy :groovy:

[Edit] Sorry for double post

Hmmm seems to be the best awnser I got... couple of my friends just told me to keep getting some... but I like your advice better :lol:

edit: Fuck I got the shakes... fuck dehydratation!

[VivaLaNuBc4k3]

yay my advice is liked! i feel so pretty errrr.... happy :)

[Smaug]

Tell her you're gay. Then change your hairstyle and get facial plastic surgery. Then get with her friend.

[SDM]

Ask her if she like anal.

[Spider]

Ask her if she like anal.

I don't think I wanna take the chance... after all she did give me head when people where freakishly near!

[Sputty]

Ask her if she like anal.
And if she says "ok" ask "with a horse?"

[SDM]

Tell her she reminds you of your mom, and it's a wicked turn on. Ask her if you mind if dad watches.

[EarlyDawn]

:rofl: This thread owns.

[Zatrais]

The truth shall set you free. Just be honnest, she'll be hurt no matter what.

[Mr1337Duck]

Send me 7,500 bucks and I can arrange to have her eliminated.

[Rbstr]

I'll do it for 6000

[Neon Apocalypse]

u just gotta tell her man, if you dont then itll be worse later, she'll be like devastated later, because all that time she thought u liked her and then when u finally do it she'll hate u, tell her now, just say you can be friends but you dont wanna get into a relationship

[Paingiver]

Truth hurts, but in the long run lying hurts even more. Tell her the truth man, in the long run she'll thank you. Relationships where one person isn't really happy with the other always don't really work out well. If you tell her how you really feel, at first she'll be upset, but after a while she'll find another person who she can have a good relationship with, and she'll thank you for that.

[Neon Apocalypse]

exactly, the longer you wait the more you will hurt her

[Everay]

to not hurt her feelings, just be a total jerk, dont do what she likes you for, you know, just be a person thats not her type, and she will dump you, over time of course, that way, she wont be sad, but mad, and mad is better than sad, and you wouldnt have made her sad. at least, even if she will hate you, i think thats the better choice.

BTW, i dont think your a attention whore, but just a whore, what is this? 4th girl in 3 months? :p

[Infernus]

Tell her lesbianism is much much better... my ex-girlfriend seems to think so... but thats a different story for a different time...

[Aurorapro]

:rofl: party: :bananasex <----Is this the party you remember? (Im psychic) :D

[EineBeBoP]

I'll do it for 6000

:lol: I was gunna say the same thing.

Tell her lesbianism is much much better... my ex-girlfriend seems to think so... but thats a different story for a different time...
Yeah, My Ex seems to think so as well. :-/ See strygun's IRC quit message for how I found out.


Spider, Just tell her now. Sux about what happened, and I doubt she'll remember you saying no but it dosent matter anyways. (hopefully she was of legal age for you, right?)

[Infernus]

Yeah, My Ex seems to think so as well. :-/ See strygun's IRC quit message for how I found out.

Your ex went lesbian to eh... sad thing bout mine is her parents balme me... and I found out about it at school cause she was doin it with another girl in the bathroom... :scared: ...i've subsecuently transfered to an all male school (which is going co-ed next year)...

[Spider]

to not hurt her feelings, just be a total jerk, dont do what she likes you for, you know, just be a person thats not her type, and she will dump you, over time of course, that way, she wont be sad, but mad, and mad is better than sad, and you wouldnt have made her sad. at least, even if she will hate you, i think thats the better choice.

BTW, i dont think your a attention whore, but just a whore, what is this? 4th girl in 3 months? :p

*cough* 5th... :ugh:

Tell her lesbianism is much much better... my ex-girlfriend seems to think so... but thats a different story for a different time...

Hmm actually if you would have been at the party... there was alot of girl on girl action... most of it was actually on or near me so :brow:.

No more drinking for me!

Anyways... I told her... she cried... eh well life goes on...

[Infernus]

They always cry... its trademark girl procedure... there is no easy way to avoid it... actually there is no way at all to avoid it... (unless they've already gone lesbian before you've dumped them- then you cry)

[Paingiver]

to not hurt her feelings, just be a total jerk, dont do what she likes you for, you know, just be a person thats not her type, and she will dump you, over time of course, that way, she wont be sad, but mad, and mad is better than sad, and you wouldnt have made her sad. at least, even if she will hate you, i think thats the better choice.

Thats the easy way out, in the end the truth really helps

[AztecWarrior]

The "Bucking Bronco":

During anal, grab onto her hard and tell her you have AIDS. She'll jump around and try to get you off.

Just kidding.

I have no idea, VivaLaNuB's idea seems good.

[EarlyDawn]

Lesbianism isn't unique anymore. I'd say 85% of the girls I know have had some form of relations with another female. Most of them blame it on boredom, too. Wtf?

[AztecWarrior]

I refuse to date a homosexual. Period. 85% of girls can leave me alone.

[Spider]

(hopefully she was of legal age for you, right?)

*cough* she's actually two years older then me.. *Cough* O_

[Neon Apocalypse]

Spiders A Pimp pimp:

[Spider]

Spiders A Pimp pimp:

Might I ask why?

[Neon Apocalypse]

well first of all this is the second girl you've gotten in 3 months

and second of all this ones older than you

you be pimpin gs like ali g

im kidding son

[Setari]

well first of all this is the second girl you've gotten in 3 months

and second of all this ones older than you

you be pimpin gs like ali g

im kidding dood/dude/guy/(blank)
might wanna fix the son part, try these :rolleyes: