I need you guys to cheer me up.

[arctik]

Well I know I might sound a little fruity right now but I've been crying for the first time in years. Not crying from an injury to my leg or an injury to my arm but an injury to my heart. My girlfriend and I were together for a long time up until a few hours ago, she broke things off because she says I deserve better. I told her she was spending too much time with her guy friend and not enough time with me and she felt bad. She says it's better this way and now she wont even talk to me because she says I make her feel like shit because she still loves me. A word of advice to all of you, if you ever fall in love with a person, hold on to that person and be delicate because love is a dangerous thing. I also just wana say sorry to everyone I've been an ass to on these forums, in any way.

Sorry, I know you guys could care less about my problems but I have to let all of this out before I do something I regret.

Much Love PSU. :tear:

[xmodum]

:love: you to. Hey, I care, you are a fellow PSU'er , and I love each and everyone of you.

[SDM]

Bah. I've been there. Women are sick and twisted sometimes.

It doesn't sound to me like you need this one, she sounds uber-twisted. Take time off from the females, then go find one that doesn't have a screw loose. Until then, I would suggest plenty of...


HOOKERS AND ICE CREAM!

[xmodum]

:rofl: :rofl:

[NoSurrender]

i think you need obfrogs emotionial support tapes 2 for $17.99

[arctik]

HOOKERS AND ICE CREAM!

Haha, if only I could afford it :p I loved her alot and I guess I can get over it with time. I just wish I didn't like her so much and what makes it worse is the fact that she's crying and saying she wants to be with me but then she says she doesnt because I deserve better than her. WTF! :mad: I hope she isnt just seeing if I'll come crawling back to her.

Relationships = Teh suck :(

I'll try to pick up a pair of thoughs tapes after I eat.

[lightfire]

if she said i Love You then Go Crawl back to her if you have to talk with her work things out man... just dont wollow in pity in a gameing forum Go work this thing out with her Go!

*signed DR.Love* (ps) Go dangit!

[l3lizz4rd]

I'm sorry to hear that man, but from experience I sense a high probability of cheating here.

Fact 1: guy friend.
Fact 2: when you comment about them spending too much time together, she dumps you
Fact 3: and did it quite suddenly to boot, without an attempt to work it out.
Fact 4: says you deserve better, as to make you feel like it's not your fault so you wont persue the matter
Fact 5: breaks contact with you by saying that it hurts her too much, something you cannot contest.

I don't proffess to know anything about you personally, but the story sounds like a textbook case. Trust me, I've gone through it before so I'm speaking from experience. I'm just telling you to brace yourself and don't be surprised if the truth ends up coming out that way.

Sorry it happened man, but you'll be better off because of it. Albeit more cynical and suspicious.

[Cyanide]

Hope this cheers you up.
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/forumfun/positive4.jpg

If you can't laugh at this pic, then there's no hope for you.
http://www.ebaumsworld.com/forumfun/misc7.jpg
Who know the pope was psychic? :D

[Darksim]

Unfortunatly It sounds a bit like cheating. May not be the case, but...

Gunstore Open on sunday?

[lightfire]

*excuse me* if my other post did not make sense well look at billardz and talk with her ask her if she was dateing the other guy ask why what was the problem in Your relation ship with her if you cant work this out with her then well say hope your other relation ship works out then dont talk to her again unless she calls you or you met her at a odd place where you think that its odd for her to be there at the same time your there..... hope this clears my old post up

[EarlyDawn]

Haha, if only I could afford it :p I loved her alot and I guess I can get over it with time. I just wish I didn't like her so much and what makes it worse is the fact that she's crying and saying she wants to be with me but then she says she doesnt because I deserve better than her. WTF! :mad: I hope she isnt just seeing if I'll come crawling back to her.

Relationships = Teh suck :(

I'll try to pick up a pair of thoughs tapes after I eat.Take it on experience. It will continue to destroy you until you acknoledge that each and every relationship you engage in is a stepping stone. Your relationships are replicatable, just keep going. Keep moving.

[Angel_of_Death]

:rofl: Omg Cyanide that had to be one of the funniest pics I've ever seen.

PS: BTW, how do you insert pic?

BTW, tell her how you really feel. I have been in situations where that's what fixed a couple o' my relationships.

[arctik]

Thanks guys, I asked her before if she was cheating on me but she says she wasnt and she doesn't seem to be the type of person who would do that. Her friend is one of her x-boyfriends and she also tells me now that another reason she broke things off is because it hurts him to know shes with me. Me and him used to be friends before all of this and I threw alot away for this girl. I've been trying to tell myself she was a stepping stone but I cant imagine myself with anyone else because she's perfect. Or atleast I thought so.

Thanks for the pictures, the pope one I actually laughed at. I'm gunna go to the store and buy some ice-cream to fatten up on.

I've told her everything i felt while she was breaking up with me. Thats why she thinks I make her feel like shit. I hate how she tries to make me seem like the bad guy in this situation. Girls...

[VivaLaNuBc4k3]

mmmmm been there, done that. it sucks i feel your pain. ='( you get better with time. or if you want to get back at her go out with her bestfriend

[321]

Sorry to hear that man.

[l3lizz4rd]

Sorry to say it man, but the more you say the more I think I'm right.

But like the other guys have said, no matter how much you can't imagine it, the sun will come up again tomorrow. I guarantee it. You'll find someone else.

[Fragmatic]

I know how ya feel man, my girl dumped me...
...for another girl :(

That's the silver bullet :(

Plus the fact that I've been vomiting my arse off all week, and people are hungry for ep3, when It's an impossible struggle for me to do it :( (not technical wise, just the fact that I've been sick as shit, and really down, I don't have the motivation to do it :()

I'm really sorry guys :(

[NoSurrender]

tis ok frag. Just aslong you provide someone to yell at. :) j/k i hope you feel better, that was me last week but, i was in school becuz of gay drivers ed range !!!

[worldvengence]

Thanks guys, I asked her before if she was cheating on me but she says she wasnt and she doesn't seem to be the type of person who would do that. Her friend is one of her x-boyfriends and she also tells me now that another reason she broke things off is because it hurts him to know shes with me. Me and him used to be friends before all of this and I threw alot away for this girl. I've been trying to tell myself she was a stepping stone but I cant imagine myself with anyone else because she's perfect. Or atleast I thought so.

Thanks for the pictures, the pope one I actually laughed at. I'm gunna go to the store and buy some ice-cream to fatten up on.

I've told her everything i felt while she was breaking up with me. Thats why she thinks I make her feel like shit. I hate how she tries to make me seem like the bad guy in this situation. Girls...
sorry dude, but it seems like she is totally playing you, if she holds her Ex's feelings above yours, then she still has something for him, so by the way it looks she is either, cheating, wants him back, or is totally bullshitting you, to look for an easy way out.

[OneManArmy]

wish I could say something classy and inspirational to ya but thats jsut not me. I'd say go with SDM's idea, because life goes on, and there will be others. we've all been there, some worse than others but it all hurts the same. what you should try is to find a new hobby to get your mind off of it. hell I didnt know jack shit about cars untill one of my ex-gf broke up with me years ago. now I'm a friggen gear head. ;)

[SilverLord]

sorry dude, but it seems like she is totally playing you, if she holds her Ex's feelings above yours, then she still has something for him, so by the way it looks she is either, cheating, wants him back, or is totally bullshitting you, to look for an easy way out.
I agree with worldvengence on this problem here. I say we all stop talking about what happen and cheer him up because we keep talking like this is not making anything better at all. IMO of course. :)

[Veteran]

Time moves but she don't fade.

Looking for my lost shaker of salt.

Love bites.

Sorry kid, but it sounds like she's spit out everything but the old "it's not you, it's me".

You'll find love again, I know.

Nothing really matters, anyone can see.

Don't worry, you'll be back in the saddle before you know it.

[Firefly]

Let's put this all together. I'll remove the extraneous stuff and cut to the meat.

My girlfriend and I were together for a long time up until a few hours ago, she broke things off because she says I deserve better. I told her she was spending too much time with her guy friend and not enough time with me and she felt bad. She says it's better this way and now she wont even talk to me because she says I make her feel like shit because she still loves me.

I asked her before if she was cheating on me but she says she wasnt and she doesn't seem to be the type of person who would do that. Her friend is one of her x-boyfriends and she also tells me now that another reason she broke things off is because it hurts him to know shes with me. I hate how she tries to make me seem like the bad guy in this situation.
Dude. I'm not gonna give you any flowery fairy stuff. This chick is making you feel guilty to throw the blame off herself. She's nailing her ex, it's plain as day. You're blinded by emotion and you want to see the best in her because you think she's perfect in every way. Except...

Except that she was spending WAY too much time with a "guy friend". Dude, unless this guy is gay, there's no way he sees it as "just friends". And since he was her ex, he ain't gay. And if they were dating, there's no way it was "just friends".

Except that she's diverting the attention from the real issue by making you look out to be the real ass. You're being suckered, man.

Except that she says "it's better this way" but she loves you. Bullfuckingshit. If she loved you, then the BETTER THIS WAY would be for her to tell old boy to take a hike, and start working on a real relationship.

Except that if she gave a rat's ass about your feelings, an EX'S feelings wouldn't matter one fucking iota compared to yours. If it were truly better this way, and she loved you like she says she did, then the better thing to do would be to go with love over "like" for a friend.

You got owned, man. Don't take this shit from a byrd. Go kick his ass, and then dime her out for being a tramp.

[Squeeky]

I just got own3d by teh wimmenz yet again. It sucks dude, worse than losing a match on TWL for Rung #1 in Desert Combat. Sucks bad.

[Pilgrim]

Women suck

And your girl can have guy friends... like someone at work or school who they say hi to. But if they think that going out to lunch, or hanging out at night is kewl then it's time to BBG her (Bitch Be GONE!)

If I learned anything from When Harry Met Sally its that men and women cannot be friends. it just doesn't work

[FireWolf22]

True, True. I have to agree with the last few. I know you don't want to hear it. But dizog she is playing the game. You the piece that she happens to be pushing around the bizoard. It truely sucks, but there will be others. Even betters. Don't worry man. I was engaged and find out that my fiance was cheating at college. Man and Woman can't be just friends it don't work. They can be talking peeps, but if they start going off places together or spending time together some place they are not just friend.

[Firefly]

True, True.

dizog

bizoard.
Is "FireWolf" a rap-gamer version of doggy-dogg? Fo shizzle my rizzle dizzle nizzle.

[Setari]

Women suck
No shit.

[Madcow]

Now is the perfect time to find out how good your guy friends are. When I broke up with my college fiance my buds came through with flying colors, although it took little more than angry music, beer and chicken wings for me.

I highly recommend "Goodbye" by the Sand Rubies, if you can find it. Just the perfect amount of bile and anger for the situation.

[Neon Apocalypse]

you'll get over it eventually, just stay strong and forget about her, because she was the one who was wrong in the end, and people like that...theyre bad..stay away from them, you'll find someone again, everyone does, just dont let it ruin the rest of your life that is still good

fughettaboutit!

[SilverLord]

Is "FireWolf" a rap-gamer version of doggy-dogg? Fo shizzle my rizzle dizzle nizzle.
...maybe...we'll never know...

[OneManArmy]

firewolf if you ever talk like that again I'm gonna reach through the internet and poke you in the eye. twice. to both eyes.

[Setari]

firewolf if you ever talk like that again I'm gonna reach through the internet and poke you in the eye. twice. to both eyes.
:rofl:

[SilverLord]

:rofl:

[Neon Apocalypse]

am i the only one who didnt think that was funny?

[SilverLord]

am i the only one who didnt think that was funny?
I dunno man.

[OneManArmy]

/me opens up router, sticks hand through and proceeds to poke neon in the eye.

[Firefly]

Now is the perfect time to find out how good your guy friends are. When I broke up with my college fiance my buds came through with flying colors, although it took little more than angry music, beer and chicken wings for me.

I highly recommend "Goodbye" by the Sand Rubies, if you can find it. Just the perfect amount of bile and anger for the situation.
Mmm chicken wings and beer...

Dude- music. Yeah. Angry loud stuff. Personally, I've been listening non-stop to "Send the Pain Below" by Chevelle because it's an awesome song. And also "Invisible Wounds (Suture Remix)" by Fear Factory. And "I Hate Everything About You" and "Wake Up" by Three Days Grace. Oh, and there's also a lot of music that I wrote and composed that I listen to, because believe me- I've been down this road so much I should have a fuckin personal commuter flight to speed it up.

[SilverLord]

/me helps

[Neon Apocalypse]

i dont think arctik is in pissed of mode, hes more like, so depressed he wants to die, ive had one day like that after i met this girl that i truely loved, she just cut me down and went with my friend

[OneManArmy]

I strongly recommend some rancid as your cure. helped me get through it. specially thier latest CD. its full of great songs for just such an occasion. (considering Tim armstrong's wife left him.) actually the song fall back down - is almost perfect for your situation.

perhaps such songs as Radio and Dope sick girl (from the lets go cd)

[Neon Apocalypse]

yeah rancid really does help, fall back down is a good song

or maybe some mellow ska music with trumpets, tis good stuff

[OneManArmy]

of course if you want a song that could down right bring a tear to your eye (and im talking when your happy) listen to "sorrow" by bad religion

[EarlyDawn]

Also remember; as long as you don't break the threshhold (it varies with each girl), the less attention you give them, and the less you giveafuck about their attention whoring, the more they're gonna like you.

[BUGGER]

OMG i haven't sugjested this for a month!


1-800-LOVE-191


They are on literaly right now, get help from them. And tonight i forgot who's the guest.



Eh but sry to hear that, but welcome to the real world. Remember my Depression thread? Aye, love hurts and it punches hard. But i dont cry, I fight against it.....well no i let it flow thru me, but I waste energy on something soft that i can use as a punching bag.

[JakeLogan]

Well bud be glad she didn't dump 1 month before the wedding. (Happend to me) After this happend I swore off all women that live in New Jersey. Due to the fact their all f**king nuts.

[FireWolf22]

No nizzle I'm not a rap gamer. F that shizzle mizan. Anyways, I have to agree with them. I do recommend, dope:die mother f'er, and drowning pools let the bodies hit the floor. Also I heard this song, don't know by who or what the name was. It's like the perfect after break up song. It's goes like "f all those kisses they didn't mean jack, f all the presents might as well take em back, f you you ho I don't want you back". It's a really good song when you get down and think about it. I laugh when I hear it, and want my ex-fiance to be around so I can play it for her. She never is though, don't talk to that biznatch anymore.

PS. Chicken wings and beer, great combo, go to hooters for the beer. I don't know if you can get in a strip club yet, or Iwould recommend going there for some time away from your ex to see the new future you have. We did that to a friend of mine. He left his lady at the Alter. She was an over controlling uber biznatch he really didn't like. She had guided him all the way there.

edit for grammer

[Black]

poor arctik :(

[Everay]

notice arctik hasnt posted since the original one?

[FireWolf22]

He did post once or twice more, but not in the last two pages. He asked us to chear him up so he wouldn't do something stupid. I hope that he hasn't. That would suxers.