I wont post much.. anymore..

[arctik]

Sup everyone, I don't really know why I'm telling you all this but I'm the type of person that needs to talk about stuff that gets to me. Just today my girlfriend which you may remember me telling you about found out her dad was cheating on her mom. When She told her mom she just got yelled at. Her dad came home and told her mom then just left, this is hard for me too because she just tried to kill herself and right now I cant go to the hospital to see her because I'm not family and shes not in good shape. I love her with all my heart and I'm praying for her and I hope you all will pray to, shes a good girl and doesnt deserve this. For now until she's better I'm gunna be there for her so I wont be around much although I wasn't active already. Peace everyone I'll be around some other time. :(

[AztecWarrior]

You have my condolences.

[I Hate Pants]

This scares me. Considering my girlfriend's parents are having a rough relationship too. I hope she doesn't try slitting her wrist or anything.

Best of luck to you and your g/f.

[arctik]

Yea, I was surprised and scared out of my mind and when I heard I got down there as fast as I could but she was already at the hospital and I have no clue if she's dead, alive or in critical. I just hope she stays strong. She took some pills or something I dont know what exactly and I dont want to ask her mom questions like that when I'm trying to confort her

[Rayder]

You should be able to get whether she's still alive out of them.

[Biohazzard56]

Best of luck to you and your g/f.

Relationships are hard, I just hope everything turns out well for everyone

[Indecisive]

Stay tough bro. Do all you can. Ill definatly pray for you and the GF man. Could I get a first name?


I can relate. Dad cheated on mom. Im not suicidial, but it certainly left me feeling depressed, even up to like a year ago I was seriously depressed.

[Mango]

If you can't go in to see her, write her a letter. She needs all the support she can get for you right now.

[1024]

I hope everything works out, man. Tough times, but you'll get through it.

[scarpas]

yeah i agree send her a letter... ouch im sorry man

[Everay]

Yea, I was surprised and scared out of my mind and when I heard I got down there as fast as I could but she was already at the hospital and I have no clue if she's dead, alive or in critical. I just hope she stays strong. She took some pills or something I dont know what exactly and I dont want to ask her mom questions like that when I'm trying to confort her


she will be fine, if she took pills, so long as her stomach was pumped.

[CorDharel]

What about the phone? Or does she have a handy?

A letter is a good idea, too. I hope she will get better, I also got a GF who wanted to kill herself. I am lucky that I could manage that she doesn't want to do it anymore.

[xmodum]

This scares me. Considering my girlfriend's parents are having a rough relationship too. I hope she doesn't try slitting her wrist or anything.

Best of luck to you and your g/f.
Same here, my mom cheated on my dad. This sucks.

[Neon Apocalypse]

I think that your girlfriend will need you more than ever in these times. I hope shes alright, and this may strengthen your relationship with her or end it. You have my condolences.

[EarlyDawn]

Yeah man, I knew somebody like that, totally broken family situation and self-destructive.

Don't get involved between the mom and dad, but support the girlfriend. And make sure she dosen't get involved in drugs or (heavy) alcohol. And obviously, don't take advantage of the weakened emotional state, but if she wants comfort, give it. Care and love her.

You're a good guy, this will get better for you and her.

[WildEagle]

You have my condolences. That's really terrible tthey might need a social worker for this one.(atleast that's what happened to my ex).

[HunterKiller]

good luck sir.

[Rayder]

And obviously, don't take advantage of the weakened emotional state, but if she wants comfort, give it. Care and love her.
Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about from past experience (the stuff about the taking advantage of a weakened emotional state, not the lovey dovey stuff).

[JetRaiden]

If you can't go in to see her, write her a letter. She needs all the support she can get for you right now.

Id go to the hospital anyway, and if anyone asks you, just say youre a cousin or something, or just to fuck off. if I was in that kind of position Id rather take the chance to see her and spend a fuckin hour or so in a holding cell then to just hope everything goes ok.

[UncleDynamite]

And offer to help her in any way. Whenever one of my friends are having troubles, it always amazes me how grateful they are when I offer them a hand. The most important thing, however, is to listen to her. Sometimes, when you're having problems, you just have to spew out everything that's on your mind, everything that's troubling you and everything that you're afraid will trouble you. Then you'll feel compelled to say everything that's in between, and then everything that doesn't have to deal with anything at all. And when you have someone who can geniunely listen to all that and understand you without thinking that you must be a looney, that can mean everything in the world.

Having the feeling that someone now knows what you know can be the most comforting thing in the world.