Should I ask her out?

[Jaged]

There is a girl I am considering asking out, but it seems a little wierd. I have known her for about two years, but I have only meet her in person once. We talk over AIM fairly often. She is the sister of my ex-best-friend. Me and her brother are enemies now, so that could make it a little awkward. Another major problem is that she is a Sophmore and I am a Freshman. That is probably too much of a age difference for highschool. Do you guys think I would have any chance?

[Rayder]

Sophmore to Freshman? Where the hell do you live? We got Senior/Freshmen couples here, but anyways, ask her out (say, a movie), her brother doesn't mean jack.

[TheRegurgitator]

hmm.... yeah that would be weird circumstances, but you could try, might as well try.

[Mr1337Duck]

You just gotta follow your heart, and by your heart I mean the one that lives in your pants.

Forget the brother, just don't hang around him, avoid hanging out at her place for long periods of time and you should be able to tolerate eachother.

[Jaged]

Yeah the brother is not really a problem, I would love to stick it to him by going out with his sis. :p

[AztecWarrior]

Yes.

[Squeeky]

Yes, don't be a pussy. You will never gain confidence later in life in the social scene if you dont start now.

As for Freshman-Sophomore, that should not even be called an age gap. I see Freshmans with seniors all the time. And Sophomores with 2nd yr college chicks, but you gotta be a pimp to do that ;)

[Jaged]

Lol squeeky i am not scared of asking her out. I just wanted to know if youguys thought it would be awkward. I have my answer and I will be asking her out on a date next time I talk to her.

[Sputty]

If she says no whip out your penis and say "This is watching you missing, bitch!" and then go and rape her brother

[Bighoss]

I've never seen the older girl with the the younger guy in highschool. Most of the times all the really hot girls from freshman/sophmore go with juniors or seniors. Semi hot freshman go with sophmores which sadly leaves freshman the bottom feaders.

[Jaged]

:lol: will do sputty

[Squeeky]

:rofl: Sputty

Just be like "Hey, do you wanna go to a movie/strip club" or wherever you youngins go. Make sure she knows it's a date. Don't be like "I WOULD LIKE TO FORMALLY COURT YOU TO THE CINEMA TONIGHT TO SEE SCOOBY DOO 2, I WILL PICK YOU UP AT 8 FOR PICTURES WITH THE LIMO, AND HAVE YOUR CORSAGE READY"

[Sputty]

...wts? Why shouldn't I do that? That's what I say when I try to have mansechs with Hamma

[Cyanide]

Keep your friends close. Keep your enemies closer. Keep your enemy's sister closest of all, if ya know what I mean. :D

[OneManArmy]

yes.

you dont want to live life having regrets. go for it whether it works out or not. that way you will know for sure.

[Jaged]

Keep your friends close. Keep your enemies closer. Keep your enemy's sister closest of all, if ya know what I mean. :D
:rofl:
Excellent advice.

[Baneblade]

I dated a Senior when I was a Freshmen, then a Junior. When I was a Sophomore I dated 2 Freshmen at the same time...:evil: and a Sophomore after that went...:doh: . As a Junior I was still going with the same girl from Sophomore year, and that lasted till almost the end of the Junior year. In my Senior year I dated a Sophomore, Freshmen, Junior, than another freshmen...

Then I joined the military...

[Cyanide]

I dated a Senior when I was a Freshmen, then a Junior. When I was a Sophomore I dated 2 Freshmen at the same time...:evil: and a Sophomore after that went...:doh: . As a Junior I was still going with the same girl from Sophomore year, and that lasted till almost the end of the Junior year. In my Senior year I dated a Sophomore, Freshmen, Junior, than another freshmen...

Then I joined the military...

And now all he can date are senior officers and fresh men. :D
j/k

[Derfud]

Definitely go for it, this is what you do: wait until she is eating icecream, go up to her and touch her cooter, if she slaps you, ask her if she is going to finish the icecream, then if she says no, take it from her, eat some, then keel over foreward holding your stomach and say "I'm sick". Next comes the gold part. Get a friend to walk by and say "Hey [insert name here], is that your girlfriend", you will reply with "Yes, and we're going to get married and be together for ever and ever and ever!".

Seriously though, it wont be akward. Dont do it over the interweb. Do it casually. Dont use it at the start of a conversation either. Get one going, then start talking to her, at the end just be casual and say "Oh, you think you might want to go to a movie with me sometime or something like that?" If she asks if it's a date or not, say "Do you want it to be."

[Angel_of_Death]

Smooth Derfud...

One year age dif. isn't too much in high school, so calm down, take a deep breath, and go for it.

[Rayder]

What happens if she says she's going to finish her ice cream Derf?

[Jaged]

Just asked her. She likes em older she says. Ah well we are still friends. Plus I am thinking about a few more that are my age.

[1024]

With a humping Mario avatar, no.

[Rayder]

Ahaha, Jaged got rejected :doh:

[OneManArmy]

age means nothing, my girl is 3 years older than me :brow: :love: older chicks rock! ;)

[Jaged]

Next question. Should I persist and see if I can get a yes, or take a no and roll it off like its no biggie? The second one is easier because it really isn't that big of a deal, but if I kept at I might be able to get a more desirable answer.

Edit: And yes, for the record I am incompetent with women. I have no prior experience to base these decisions on. That is why am asking people who do.

[Derfud]

Or she may begin to loathe you. I sure hope you didnt ask her over the internet. That would be the first biggest mistake right there. You need to show them what you have, in person.

[Jaged]

I never see her in person...

And her not liking me is an acceptable risk.

[Derfud]

Then you should have set up a casual personal meeting, then proceeded to asking her from there.

[Jaged]

Well, like I said, I am incompetent with girls. What now?

[Cyanide]

Use one of the following pickup lines:

#1 (not quite fool proof, but very smooth)
"There are 2 trains traveling towards each other on the same track. They are currently 1000 kilometers apart. At 12:30PM train A was moving 64mph. At 1:23PM train B was moving at 157feet per second. How long will it take for you to go out with me?"

#2 (not as smooth, but TOTALLY fool proof)
"If I asked you to go out with me, would your answer be the same as your answer to this question?"

Typical response to either of those...
"OMG, i'm so confused. Make out with me.

[Jaged]

Lol, I like #1. It fits the situation perfectly. Thank you!

[UncleDynamite]

Sputty's idea is good, but if that isn't possible, then I would suggest you go ahead and ask her out. The age difference is perfectly acceptable, and I've seen older girls date younger guys in highschool before (not as common as older guys with younger girls, but whatever). Her brother might be weird, but how bad of enemies are you two?

[FlakMan]

There is a girl I am considering asking out, but it seems a little wierd. I have known her for about two years, but I have only meet her in person once. We talk over AIM fairly often. She is the sister of my ex-best-friend. Me and her brother are enemies now, so that could make it a little awkward. Another major problem is that she is a Sophmore and I am a Freshman. That is probably too much of a age difference for highschool. Do you guys think I would have any chance?
Too much of an age difference in high school? What, are you afraid of what your fellow students will think? I'm a senior, and I have no problems with going out with my freshman girlfriend. I don't see what the big deal is.

[CorDharel]

#2 (not as smooth, but TOTALLY fool proof)
"If I asked you to go out with me, would your answer be the same as your answer to this question?"


MUAHAHA you roxx0r :lol: :rofl:


I think the most important thing with women or asking-for-date is: Don't think about it too much. Just do it!

Think like in a computer game. If you see a button that leads to a big atomic bomb, you won't be standing there and thinking "what would happen if I would press the button?", you wouldn't either open a thread in the ps forum and ask this question. You just do it. :groovy:


That gives you experience points! :D uhm... well... you know what I mean :) (But yes, you will be at a higher level if you will ask her out. :rofl: )

[Hezzy]

2 questions;

1) What's a Sophmore?
2) What's a Freshman?

Other than that, I say go for it.

[Mango]

What have you got to lose?

[Hamma]

Just ask her out, nothing to lose.

[Hezzy]

Apart from maybe his dignity? :p

[Hamma]

Dignity is over-rated

[Hezzy]

Indeed

[SilverLord]

Dignity is over-ratedYes.

Ask her out, just do it casually like Derfud said.

[TheN00b]

Dignity is over-rated

...Says the uber comp-nerd :p ;)

[Hamma]

Hey, I have a fiance.

[Manitou]

Hey, I have a fiance.Yup, and Hamma understands that once you're married, all dignity is gone! :lol: Mrs. Mani pwns me.

[ViperGTS]

Mrs. Mani pwns me.
:rofl:

[Jaged]

2 questions;

1) What's a Sophmore?
2) What's a Freshman?

Other than that, I say go for it.
Freshman=9th grader
Sophmore=11th grader

And read my posts guys. I already asked her out.

[EarlyDawn]

Freshman = 9th grader, Sophmore = 10th grader

[Peacemaker]

Lol.

I just have to ask. Why are you asking a community of PC nerds? No offence to us all but this is the last place I would ask about women.

On to the actual advice.

If the girl makes you happy when your with her and you are just a better person when your with her ask her out. It does not take a rocket scientist to figure that one out. Just ask her out and tell her why you want to go out with her.

[FlakMan]

And read my posts guys. I already asked her out.
Did she say yes?

And Peacemaker, you never know, some of us have some experience with asking girls out. I didn't even think about it, I just asked my girlfriend.

[Neon Apocalypse]

no she said no

sry jaged, atleast you tried

[Khronos]

sorry Jaged :(
at least you tried, ya know?

hard thing to do and you pulled through, which is good.


and the thing about older girls, yeah NOTHING at all wrong with that..i dont even mind being a little shorter either. my sweetie is a little taller and its fine by me :love:

[Squeeky]

Khronos is midget!

Btw,

9=Freshman
10=Sophomore
11=Junior
12=Senior

[JetRaiden]

Just ask her out, nothing to lose.

I agree with hamma.

Id just ask her out, if you know her well and you have evidence that she may like you (even if you dont) Id ask her out.

being a freshman asking out a sophmore is tough. its twice as likely that she'll turn you down. thats pretty much just the way it works.

[Jaged]

Freshman = 9th grader, Sophmore = 10th grader
/me slaps head

I meant Junior, she is a junior. That is 11th grade.

[JetRaiden]

wait so youre a freshman and shes a junior?

I wouldve been really cautious about that.

[Hamma]

Peace just because you are on a forum doesent mean you are a "PC Nerd"

[Squeeky]

Agreed.

The one ramification of being a geek/nerd that pisses me off is not the pursuit of technical or scientific knowledge, it's the part that says we are socially inept. And we are not :mad:

We need to invent a new word for us Socially Adapted 'geeks'

[Spartan]

Ask her to go to a cyber cafe with you! That's what all my nerdly friends suggest for a date...rofl.

[Zodiac]

Peace just because you are on a forum doesent mean you are a "PC Nerd"
True. :nod:

I am not very good with computers but I spend time here. I would sooner live in a hippy commune then become a programmer or IT professional. I just like the games, my online friends, free music, and browsing the net when I am bored. :D

[JetRaiden]

Agreed.

The one ramification of being a geek/nerd that pisses me off is not the pursuit of technical or scientific knowledge, it's the part that says we are socially inept. And we are not :mad:

We need to invent a new word for us Socially Adapted 'geeks'

yea, Im not exactly a geek, I know nothing of Star Wars, Star Trek, D&D or any of htat stuff (no offence to anyone who does) and I dont really consider computers to be a major part of my life.

[BUGGER]

And now all he can date are senior officers and fresh men. :D
j/k
:lol:

ya alittle late on that but it made me laff.


And I would have not asked if I were you, course I dunno what the hell you do on a normal day in hs, so i wouldv said yes for the hell of it.