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WildEagle
2004-04-25, 01:25 PM
Friday night my stepdad died. I don't care if I'm telling ppl I don't know, I really don't know what to do. I didn't even cry, and that made me feel bad.

Dharkbayne
2004-04-25, 01:26 PM
:tear:

FlakMan
2004-04-25, 01:34 PM
Did you care about your stepdad?

Ogge
2004-04-25, 01:38 PM
When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri

WildEagle
2004-04-25, 01:38 PM
yes I do

Dharkbayne
2004-04-25, 01:39 PM
When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri

You are stupid.

:stoppost:

WildEagle
2004-04-25, 01:39 PM
When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri
why do you to post that bull, he died cause of heart problems

Ogge
2004-04-25, 01:39 PM
dhark why is that stupid?

AztecWarrior
2004-04-25, 01:41 PM
When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri
I cried at my grandma's funeral and I've played FPSes since I was in second grade. Go to hell.

Recently, my great second uncle died. One of the nicest people I ever knew. You shouldn't have to cry to feel bad. The feeling is internal, not external. It could be that he wasn't that close, or it just hasn't set in yet. You don't have to feel bad for not expressing emotions.

Ogge: There is a difference between clicking a mouse and watching someone fall to the ground than having your stepdad die in real life.

1: We all know the difference between reality and a game here.
2: There is no evil capitalist conspiracy to brainwash people into thinking death is not major so that the US and its allies will invade Communist countries and Sweden.

Dharkbayne
2004-04-25, 01:42 PM
dhark why is that stupid?

1. Because it came out of your mouth.

2. Because that is complete and utter bullshit which has NOTHING to do with the topic.

FlakMan
2004-04-25, 01:42 PM
Because video games don't fuck up kids. Kids are already fucked up before they touch video games. That's why.

And Eagle, I would think that you're having a delayed reaction. I don't think it's really sunk in yet for you that he's gone. Sorry to hear that he's gone.

Smaug
2004-04-25, 01:43 PM
videogames are the common scapegoat for minors commiting crimes these days.

Eagle, very sorry to hear about your father, condolences to you and your family.

Corrosion
2004-04-25, 01:44 PM
WildEagle, I know how you feel, my stepdad died in January. I didn't cry, but I felt sad.

FlakMan
2004-04-25, 01:47 PM
My dad almost died this past December. Poor guy still hasn't completely recovered, especially mentally.

scarpas
2004-04-25, 01:55 PM
:ban: When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri :ban:

JakeLogan
2004-04-25, 02:01 PM
sorry to pry but, Has he been ill for awhile? Did he knew he had a heart problem and it was possible for him to die soon? Or did he just all of a sudden out of the blue die? My one grandfather died due to heart problems. We had no idea he had it, he just had a heart attack and passed. To say the least I cried for days, About 10 years later my grandmother passed, but we knew she had health problems (Lung cancer) I had known about it and when she passed, I was sad but I didn't cry. I don't know if it was due to my age that I didn't cry for my grandmother or if it was just the fact that I knew she was dying.

Kyonye
2004-04-25, 02:09 PM
I understand how you feel Wildeagle...My grandmother passed away this winter december 31, 2003. I watched her pass away and i didn't cry either, while i was standing around my sister, father, and aunt watching all of them cry...just because you didn't cry, doesn't mean you should feel bad. Crying is associated with death but not always....you say you cared for him, and i know you were sad, but it doesn't mean you had to cry. do not feel bad about not crying, just focus on the good times you spent with him, thats what counts.

AztecWarrior
2004-04-25, 02:18 PM
Ogge has the mental capacity of a Lego set, don't mind him.

WildEagle
2004-04-25, 02:39 PM
why hasn't Ogge been banned? I was banned twice, and he's worse than me.

Neon Apocalypse
2004-04-25, 04:44 PM
you have my condolences

ZeusCali
2004-04-25, 04:52 PM
why hasn't Ogge been banned? I was banned twice, and he's worse than me.
because he doesn't mean to be offensive he just has different points of views then the rest of you :rolleyes:

btw sorry about your step-dad, were you close to him, how long did you know him?

Mag
2004-04-25, 05:10 PM
My condolences Eagle, always hurts to lose someone.

1024
2004-04-25, 05:30 PM
You have my condolences.

DeadTeddy
2004-04-25, 05:41 PM
sorry to hear that. if I could spell that long word that starts with C I would.

you shouldn't feel bad for not crying. every person takes things differently. some people cry when they get the news, some don't, and some cry a few days or even weeks later.

I don't know about christians but I know **** sit 7 days after the death of a loved one and people come to visit. the family doesn't cry for seven days, in fact they sit with the guests and everyone just tells jokes to make them feel better.

crying is good if you're that kind of person, but it's definately not mandatory.

Jennyboo
2004-04-25, 05:54 PM
that sucks :(

Hezzy
2004-04-25, 06:24 PM
:( I was like that when my dog died.

When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri

Well, THANK YOU MR PHYSIATRIST. Please. Just go away.

ZionsFire
2004-04-25, 06:31 PM
Some kids killed some people! Blame teh games! UT2K4! Arrr Planetside! They kill people!111!one

Sorry about your stepdad Wild :tear:

Everay
2004-04-25, 07:45 PM
wild, dont feel bad about not crying, ive been to several funerals, and ive only cried once, and now i feel bad about crying because i relize what a idiot he was, but thats another story, we all take things differently. sorry about your loss.

dscytherulez
2004-04-25, 08:00 PM
Sorry to hear that man...:tear:

Infernus
2004-04-25, 08:06 PM
When you play games where you kill (like planeside) you get programed to dont feel sad, maybe you feel alittle sad for the first people you kill in game but after you kill 1000+ you dont care abit, i bet you can kill them in the most horrible way whitout caring. Blame the game industri

OMFG... I removed you from my ignore list just to see what insensitive, moronic, communist, fucktard-ish thing you were gonna say and you don't fail to disappoint...

As for you Wildeagle... its not wrong that you didn't cry, its just the way you handeled the emotions that come with death... you do however have my condolensces and best wishes...









SIDENOTE: OGGE! DIE!

Derfud
2004-04-25, 09:37 PM
Ogge, why do you inisit on playing the Devils' advocate? Especially in a thread that deals with emotions, like this one.

JakeLogan
2004-04-25, 09:48 PM
Here is a tip folks IGNORE THE TROLL

BUGGER
2004-04-25, 10:21 PM
Now hopefully the last thing said about ogey watever his name is. If he's saying stupid things for fun, apperently your just making him happier by replying to him. STFU and live your lives.


WE, did you like the guy, or is this your first family death?

When my dog nearly died, she got hit by a car and was laying on the side of the road most likely unconscious (sp), I was just dumb fucked right there. Didn't know what the hell to do. The guy who hit her kindly stopped though, offered to pay for teatment (my dog got up and limped away back to the house scratched up like shit so it was 50/50 chance of her living). When i came called my mom, she ran out panicing and swearing at the guy who was most likely scared of her than the bill. That got me down cause i was just....blah.


It was my first....almost pet death....so yeah. (if you guys say its just a fucking pet, fuck you. You probly torcher squirels in your backyard)

Sad to hear WE, live it safe.

ZionsFire
2004-04-25, 10:35 PM
Now hopefully the last thing said about ogey watever his name is. If he's saying stupid things for fun, apperently your just making him happier by replying to him. STFU and live your lives.


WE, did you like the guy, or is this your first family death?

When my dog nearly died, she got hit by a car and was laying on the side of the road most likely unconscious (sp), I was just dumb fucked right there. Didn't know what the hell to do. The guy who hit her kindly stopped though, offered to pay for teatment (my dog got up and limped away back to the house scratched up like shit so it was 50/50 chance of her living). When i came called my mom, she ran out panicing and swearing at the guy who was most likely scared of her than the bill. That got me down cause i was just....blah.


It was my first....almost pet death....so yeah. (if you guys say its just a fucking pet, fuck you. You probly torcher squirels in your backyard)

Sad to hear WE, live it safe.

My kittay died of cancer. :tear:

Angel_of_Death
2004-04-25, 10:38 PM
Are you guys fuckin dumb? How can you compare a pet almost dying, to someone's close stepdad dying?

ZionsFire
2004-04-25, 10:42 PM
Erm...cause we can:p

BUGGER
2004-04-25, 10:50 PM
Are you guys fuckin dumb? How can you compare a pet almost dying, to someone's close stepdad dying?
aye squirel killer, get a dog have it for a couple of months, love it care it. then throw it in a buisy street, then watch it limp away in its new red hair color.


My dog is family, if my house caught on fire, if we had to leave because of something dangerous, i'm not gona fucking leave it behind.

All pets deserve to be treated that way......with the acception of a gold fish.....cause they gona die just while driving away.

AztecWarrior
2004-04-25, 10:50 PM
Here is a tip folks IGNORE THE TROLL
Sorry, I've lost the ability to ignore a while ago, Mr. Logan.

(Tachyon was an awesome game.)

WildEagle
2004-04-25, 11:06 PM
Some kids killed some people! Blame teh games! UT2K4! Arrr Planetside! They kill people!111!one

Sorry about your stepdad Wild :tear:
hey man ummm, I'll pm you cause your my rl friend I can't see now. BTW: sorry for all pets killed or close to death in this thread.

BUGGER
2004-04-26, 04:17 PM
(Tachyon was an awesome game.)
I played the demo, it was pretty sweet, i wana know what happens to him in the Fringe(sp)

ZionsFire
2004-04-26, 04:37 PM
hey man ummm, I'll pm you cause your my rl friend I can't see now. BTW: sorry for all pets killed or close to death in this thread.

I wish you and your family good health.

Jennyboo
2004-04-26, 04:38 PM
Ogge, why do you inisit on playing the Devils' advocate? Especially in a thread that deals with emotions, like this one.
I see ban in Ogge's near future

Everay
2004-04-26, 04:46 PM
I see ban in Ogge's near future


OH GNOESSSS!!!! dont cross hammas woman!!!! she will eat you alive!!! :scared:

Jennyboo
2004-04-26, 04:51 PM
OH GNOESSSS!!!! dont cross hammas woman!!!! she will eat you alive!!! :scared:
:rofl: :domotwak: :chomp:

apachepilotpat
2004-04-26, 05:59 PM
ohhh that sucks. i know how you fell wild. and you just died in destroyerons "the project" so your life is full of death

Rbstr
2004-04-26, 06:04 PM
Man that scks, i remember when my grandma died i felt kinda sad, but relay not that bad, i felt bad because of that.

and you vidoes game bullshit is jsut that ogge, videogames don't do anything to a kid's mental health unless its Very bloody and they are little (shock, just like seeing someone real get killed ot them) but none of us are realy little, well maybe you.

WildEagle
2004-05-01, 09:29 PM
His funeral was today. When I walked up to see his body, I just stood there. I didn't cry or anything, I just stood there and didn't move. My mom cried the whole time so, I had to comfort her. Funerals suck, not because they're bad but because...... I can't really say.

Biohazzard56
2004-05-01, 10:56 PM
I know what you mean, funerals are always a sad thing for me because I can think of the family and what they are going through.

My condolences and I wish you the best.

Jennyboo
2004-05-02, 02:04 PM
His funeral was today. When I walked up to see his body, I just stood there. I didn't cry or anything, I just stood there and didn't move. My mom cried the whole time so, I had to comfort her. Funerals suck, not because they're bad but because...... I can't really say.
/me huggles WildEagle :love:

Onizuka
2004-05-02, 02:39 PM
It is important that you feel bad that you didn't cry...that means it's all okay :)

Onizuka-GTO
2004-05-02, 03:50 PM
Condolences to your family.

Crying is just one way and the easiest to express your pain.
Your family and close friends will always know that you are suffering too so never feel bad that you don't show it the way others do.

P.S: As for the Pet thing, they are your family.
If you people don't give a feth about your pet dying, then i guess you won't give a feth if your mum/dad/brother/sister/cousin/uncle/auntie died.
You cold hearted sods!
:mad:

Dharkbayne
2004-05-02, 03:58 PM
feth?