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Heavygain
2004-06-03, 05:16 PM
Okay, yes i know that i am 14 but this sounds like fucking bullshit to me.


a week ago a broke 2 toes skateboarding and i have broken shit loads of bones ranging from my legs, to arms, to feet, to hands, and i cracked my skull once. And lately i have been getting injured a fuckload.
Today on my last day of school i showed up with my toes busted and i havent been to school for a week, and my GF is pissed at me because lately i have beeen getting injured so much i havent been able to spend time with her. So she says that if i get hurt anymore she is gonna dump me. We have been going out since i finally escaped my ex GF (ask NoS or peace, they will tell you) and I think it is bullshit that i should have to quit skating just because she said she will dump me if i get hurt again. So WTFS should i do?

If you cant tell i am REALLY REALLY into skating.

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 05:23 PM
http://www.btinternet.com/~the_22nd_sas2/sem/weapons/ak47.jpg

Triggar
2004-06-03, 05:31 PM
Ew Forsake, dump the unsupportive, uncaring, selfish wench.

Glaynor
2004-06-03, 05:39 PM
Well, if you guys break up, then what happens? You shouldn't give a damn. You're 14 - dump her if she's gonna give you shit. Figure that by the time you get married you will date dozens of other women. She's not worth the aggravation.

Setari
2004-06-03, 05:44 PM
Okay, yes i know that i am 14 but this sounds like fucking bullshit to me.


a week ago a broke 2 toes skateboarding and i have broken shit loads of bones ranging from my legs, to arms, to feet, to hands, and i cracked my skull once. And lately i have been getting injured a fuckload.
Today on my last day of school i showed up with my toes busted and i havent been to school for a week, and my GF is pissed at me because lately i have beeen getting injured so much i havent been able to spend time with her. So she says that if i get hurt anymore she is gonna dump me. We have been going out since i finally escaped my ex GF (ask NoS or peace, they will tell you) and I think it is bullshit that i should have to quit skating just because she said she will dump me if i get hurt again. So WTFS should i do?

If you cant tell i am REALLY REALLY into skating.
dump her. She obviously looks past the fact that you're breaking bones and cares only about herself.

Sputty
2004-06-03, 05:46 PM
Ew Forsake, dump the unsupportive, uncaring, selfish wench.
Indeed
You're 14 as it is, it's going to happen soon enough.

Heavygain
2004-06-03, 05:46 PM
See the thing is, its different than that, i have known her my whole life and she cares about me a crap load, I think im gonna talk to her about it furst then i will see.

Zodiac
2004-06-03, 05:49 PM
Might be that the girl is right and it is time to give it up if you keep hurting yourself. That or get some skating lessons. ;)

Sputty
2004-06-03, 05:49 PM
WTF
How'd I forget the best advice ever
DHITB

Smaug
2004-06-03, 05:49 PM
Ok ok, I might as well get it over with:

DHITB

EDIT: FUCK YOU SPUTTY!

Triggar
2004-06-03, 05:49 PM
See the thing is, its different than that, i have known her my whole life and she cares about me a crap load

Today on my last day of school i showed up with my toes busted and i havent been to school for a week, and my GF is pissed at me because lately i have been getting injured so much i havent been able to spend time with her. So she says that if i get hurt anymore she is gonna dump me.

Sounds like a real charmer, this girl.

Heavygain
2004-06-03, 05:51 PM
lol, yea, i just called her and we talked for a minute and she said to quit skating, so i said no, she hung up, were done.

Setari
2004-06-03, 05:51 PM
yea, if you're gettin hurt maybe SHE should be spending time with YOU.

EDIT: woot ytmnd

Triggar
2004-06-03, 05:52 PM
Congratulations!!

Well done, I'm proud of you for having balls.

Sputty
2004-06-03, 05:52 PM
yea, if you're gettin hurt maybe SHE should be spending time with YOU.

EDIT: woot ytmnd
Indeed, on both counts

Smaug
2004-06-03, 05:52 PM
Tell her you need sexual healing.

Sputty
2004-06-03, 05:53 PM
Tell her you need sexual healing.
pnsndabutt

TekDragon
2004-06-03, 05:56 PM
The girl is right.

Stop being a dumbass and focus on what matters.

The immaturity does not lie with her, but with someone else. Can you figure out who?

Heavygain
2004-06-03, 06:01 PM
Congratulations!!

Well done, I'm proud of you for having balls.


:huh: :huh:

Zodiac
2004-06-03, 06:03 PM
TekDragon, that would be a good point if he was older, but Forsake said he was 14. You really can't expect a 14 year old to choose holding hands with a girl at the movies over his joy of skating.

Heavygain
2004-06-03, 06:04 PM
:rofl: ROFLMFAO OVER AND OVER again

Zodiac
2004-06-03, 06:07 PM
What is fucking funny, people are always doing this after I post.

Mag
2004-06-03, 06:09 PM
Obviously it's your sig.

Heavygain
2004-06-03, 06:09 PM
I really have no idea

Dharkbayne
2004-06-03, 06:16 PM
What is fucking funny, people are always doing this after I post.
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Onizuka-GTO
2004-06-03, 06:19 PM
case close. where's the next problem for the PSU Relationship Agony Aunts?

:p ;)

GonePostal
2004-06-03, 06:25 PM
find a new ho, and learn how to recognize the freaks early

JetRaiden
2004-06-03, 06:58 PM
See the thing is, its different than that, i have known her my whole life and she cares about me a crap load, I think im gonna talk to her about it furst then i will see.

yea just talk to her and tell her how you feel.

most obvious and basic advice I can give you.

if not,

DHITB

Dharkbayne
2004-06-03, 07:05 PM
Do I have to quote Jesus AGAIN?

Kaltagesta
2004-06-03, 07:11 PM
The girl is right.

Stop being a dumbass and focus on what matters.

The immaturity does not lie with her, but with someone else. Can you figure out who?

Bullshit.

Focus on what matters? And you think that at 14, hanging on a girls every word and giving up something you love for her, for no reason, is what matters?

She's obviously talking crap, because presumably the only time she see's him is when he's skating, else why would the fact that he can't skate mean she cant see him? If he's always injured and can't go out, why don't she go round his house to spend time with him? Maybe she dont like going out with a 'gimped' guy - nah, she's not immature, she has her priorities in perfect condition.

Derfud
2004-06-03, 08:04 PM
nah, she's not immature, she has her priorities in perfect condition.

I hope you are being sarcastic, because she has her priorities completely backwards. The number one thing on her list should be getting the pnsndabutt.

EarlyDawn
2004-06-03, 08:44 PM
It sounds like an excuse to me. Appears that she wagered that you wouldn't stop, so she called you on it as a quick way to get out of the relationship.

Sputty
2004-06-03, 08:47 PM
I hope you are being sarcastic, because she has her priorities completely backwards. The number one thing on her list should be getting the pnsndabutt.
http://www.bohicagaming.com/images/owned/areyouretarded.jpg

Firefly
2004-06-03, 08:47 PM
Relationships are about people- not about spending your quality time watching said person hobble around because he can't skate worth a shit and thus keeps doing faceplants. Her priorities are right there- you said it yourself, you've known her a crapload of time and she really cares about you. Damn that stupid bitch for caring enough to put your relationship to the test.

Ah but then again, you're all 14 and none of you know what real love, commitment, and dedication is anyway. So keep on playing The Game of Life. Provided you don't lose it when you break your fucking neck as you try to do a backwards Ollie Kickflip blindfolded off a semi trailer into oncoming traffic, you might actually get good at THAT Game.

EarlyDawn
2004-06-03, 08:56 PM
The critical point, however, is that based on what we've been told, she's not concerned for his well-being. She's concerned that his hobby is preventing her from seeing him. While her care for his saftey may be tertiary, it would seem to be done out of selfishness.

I hate cheezy, emotional taglines, but I wouldn't suggest changing for some egomanaical bitch. Move on, find a chick who skates too.

Cyanide
2004-06-03, 09:02 PM
Ok, after reading your description of the situation I feel compeled to tell you about the following great inovations.

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http://www.taunton.com/finehomebuilding/media/h00007_07.jpg

http://www.dickssportinggoods.com/graphics/product_images/p417391reg.jpg

http://www.sosamartialarts.com/images/protectiveequipment/groin/c145.jpg

Use of these simple devices can not only save your parents a lot of aggrivation and money, but also increase the amount of time you can spend skating. I'm pretty sure you don't skate with broken toes, or a busted arm (if you do, please die now), so avoiding several weeks of down time would probably be beneficial to you.

If you already use these devices then I have a few words of wisdom for you.

You're not in the Xgames, and you're not Tony Hawk.

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 09:06 PM
Someone said he's 14 and won't give up skating for some chick. But I had a thought.

Suppose it's not a 14 year old he's dating, suppose it's someone like this:
http://hawaiiantropicgirls.com/images/models/1052290267/1055554412.jpg

Suppose it's some fairly hot chick and he's DingHITB (had to honor Sputty's wishes), would it still not be worth giving up your skating for a chick like that?



READY... SET... ARGUE!

JetRaiden
2004-06-03, 09:08 PM
if the girl hes going out with looks like that I'd say buy her a dozen roses and say you're sorry.

OfaLoaf
2004-06-03, 09:09 PM
Skating. He's still 14.

Hezzy
2004-06-03, 09:10 PM
Someone said he's 14 and won't give up skating for some chick. But I had a thought.

Suppose it's not a 14 year old he's dating, suppose it's someone like this:
http://hawaiiantropicgirls.com/images/models/1052290267/1055554412.jpg

Suppose it's some fairly hot chick and he's DingHITB (had to honor Sputty's wishes), would it still not be worth giving up your skating for a chick like that?



READY... SET... ARGUE!

Yes. Case closed.

Sputty
2004-06-03, 09:12 PM
I doubt he dhitb

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 09:16 PM
Oh Noes, Hezy's dicks has fallan of!!


It's okay Hezz, you can be like the Russian dick-arm! Anyone remember that thread? Was that even on these boards?

Derfud
2004-06-03, 09:28 PM
Damnit sputty, I was being sarcastic also.

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 09:30 PM
Seriously, was the Russian dick-arm on these boards?

Derfud
2004-06-03, 09:32 PM
Yes, now stop making useless posts.

SDM
2004-06-03, 09:33 PM
How the fuck did I let this thread slip by un-noticed? I must be slackin'. I just noticed it.

My appologies. :D

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 09:42 PM
Yes, now stop making useless posts.

Derfed, I make useless posts. That's what I do. I insulted Canada in a useless post, I posted in Hot Girls forum with pics that I figured may not work in a useless post. I'm a professional useless post-maker. You know, except I'm not paid for it....

Zodiac
2004-06-03, 10:24 PM
This thread sucks.

Mr1337Duck
2004-06-03, 10:31 PM
Yes it does. But we got one moderately-to-very hot chick pic posted, so it's all good times.

Kaltagesta
2004-06-03, 10:34 PM
How the fuck did I let this thread slip by un-noticed? I must be slackin'. I just noticed it.

My appologies. :D

Right, well i'm glad you have now, as you were able to add that usefull and interesting post to it.

And yup Derfud, i was being sarcastic :p

Sputty
2004-06-03, 10:35 PM
Damnit sputty, I was being sarcastic also.
number one priority is saving kittens, second priority is ndabutt

Biohazzard56
2004-06-03, 10:41 PM
dump her. She obviously looks past the fact that you're breaking bones and cares only about herself.

:nod:

SDM
2004-06-03, 11:02 PM
Right, well i'm glad you have now, as you were able to add that usefull and interesting post to it.

And yup Derfud, i was being sarcastic :p
WTF. Posts need to be usefull now? I must have missed that memo. This thread sucks.

OneManArmy
2004-06-03, 11:11 PM
punch her in the face, or kick her in the nuts if she has any. at the least, threaten to kick her in the nuts.

Cryptica
2004-06-03, 11:12 PM
Well I think you did the right thing not giving up skating. If it's something you really like who the hell cares if you hurt yourself? You'll get a lot better, I'm sure of it. You're 14 and shouldn't be giving up things you love for a relationship with a girl who expects you to sacrifice your fun for her. What has she sacrificed for you, I might ask? I can almost guess that the answer is nothing.
Congrats on having the balls to stick up for your life. You'll probably meet some really fucking hot skater-chick ina few years and you'll be like "hfs I'm damn glad I didn't give up skating!" Let me know when that happens, lol.

:rock:

sandmtrailboss
2004-06-03, 11:33 PM
lol, yea, i just called her and we talked for a minute and she said to quit skating, so i said no, she hung up, were done.

You did the right thing. If some girl asked me to choose her or riding bmx, I'd hit her with a baseball bat and take off on my bike. You need a chick who repects you and what you like to do.

snowwolfe
2004-06-03, 11:39 PM
Yeah, same thing with myself and motocross. If she cant respect what you love to do, then she doesnt really respect you. Similar thing happened to my government teacher, he decided to go into the marines to serve the country, his girlfriend didnt want him to and threatened their relationship, he said goodbye. Dont ask why he told our class that.

Peacemaker
2004-06-04, 12:14 AM
At least she wasnt fat, gothic, and homicidal towards you heavy ;)

Indecisive
2004-06-04, 12:56 AM
AHAHHAHAHAH.

That must have sucked.


Females are strange creatures indeed...

Khronos
2004-06-04, 06:16 AM
you need to throw down.
gotta slap that ass,
grab those titties,
and show her who's boss.



[its a joke, i am not against wimmenskthx.]

Jennyboo
2004-06-04, 08:48 AM
Ew Forsake, dump the unsupportive, uncaring, selfish wench.
:lol: Indeed .. Look at me I support Hamma in what he does .. Psu is a big part of his life i would never make him choose between Psu and me ..even if sometimes
Psu takes time away from me :P~

Heavygain
2004-06-04, 09:10 AM
Okay, WTFS. at 10 last night she calls me and begs for forgivness and says she didnt know what she was thinking and begged me to take her back. I said maybe then said goodbye, most of the time she is a great person to me, this has been the only event we have ever broken up.

She called me 5 minutes ago and asked if i wanted to go to a movie with her and her friends, i said i would call her back, okay, decision time, say fuck off or go to a movie.

Jennyboo
2004-06-04, 09:13 AM
Say fuck off... sounds like she likes everything her way .. it dosent work like that 50/50 ...stand up dont let he walk on you :love:

Heavygain
2004-06-04, 09:23 AM
How about this, since My exGF's friend has a crush on me (i know she does, its a long story) how about i go to the movie and make out with my gf's friend? kthxbyeclosethread

Jennyboo
2004-06-04, 10:15 AM
How about this, since My exGF's friend has a crush on me (i know she does, its a long story) how about i go to the movie and make out with my gf's friend? kthxbyeclosethread
wtf no .. dont be a creep

Kaltagesta
2004-06-04, 10:32 AM
If you want a funny story to tell your friends later on, that'd be awesome. But, then you'd probably not get another GF at your school, so i don't advise it. I suggest just telling her to fuck off.

SilverLord
2004-06-04, 11:02 AM
Don't make out with her dude, just sit next to her and flirt with her all night and if your recently ex-girl asks what are u doing, be like " I'm single, don't you remember?" . That will show her her mistake and beg you to take her back, hopefully...

TekDragon
2004-06-04, 11:37 AM
You idiots...

She did not ask him to give up skating. She asked him to stop being a fuking retard and start using safety precautions. Obviously his stupidity at skating is not only hurting his relationship with her, but also his school work and social life (not counting what he has on the PC)

I agree with her. If your intellegence is so low that you can get hurt again, and again, and again, and again without figuring out you need to either:

a) wear more/better safety equipment
b) get some skill

then there is something seriously wrong with you.

Sounds to me like that girl cares about you and just doesn't like seeing you slam that fool head of yours into the concrete over, and over, and over.

Gee.. what a bitch. :rolleyes:

Asmodeus
2004-06-05, 11:44 AM
Wow, I really like this thread. Such a wide variety of input. Really makes me proud that you can come here and talk about your relationship here Heavy.

Do you use safety equipment? (bare minimum would be a helmet).. maybe wrist guards... that's all I'd wear if I were a skater...

You're 14 and she's 14, right? She is looking out for your safety and stuff, but if you really like skating, keep on doing it. I love working on cars, and no matter what, you could not pull me away from it.

Look at it in this regard.. you are single now. You don't have to go crawling back to her, but at the least, be her friend. (sometimes it's not possible... but find a compromise).... but don't go messin around with her friend.. if you do, you can kiss your friendship goodbye.

Stay single for a little while.. see how it feels.. skate a bit.. but don't go crawling back immediately.. Tell her that you wanna wait a week or so, see how things are

And as for the skill.... you'll develop that in time. Just keep practicing. It's like learning to ride a bike.. you wont pick it up immediately and be able to bike like a pro. You're gunna fuck up and hurt yourself. It's part of learning. ;)

Hope that helps ya heavy.

Onizuka-GTO
2004-06-05, 11:59 AM
You idiots...

She did not ask him to give up skating. She asked him to stop being a fuking retard and start using safety precautions. Obviously his stupidity at skating is not only hurting his relationship with her, but also his school work and social life (not counting what he has on the PC)

I agree with her. If your intellegence is so low that you can get hurt again, and again, and again, and again without figuring out you need to either:

a) wear more/better safety equipment
b) get some skill

then there is something seriously wrong with you.

Sounds to me like that girl cares about you and just doesn't like seeing you slam that fool head of yours into the concrete over, and over, and over.

Gee.. what a bitch. :rolleyes:

wow. For once i agree with Tek.
:rolleyes:

Sounds to me like she just doesn't like seeing you ploughing your face into the concrete pavement just because you like to throw yourself off stairs on a wooden board aiming for a metal railing which can seriously make you infertile when you miss. (I really don't get skateboarding, i think you all insane, too many hits to the head)
Just cut back alittle, and less dangerous stunts, thats all she's asking.
Oh, i don't really see anything possessive about her, just asking him to go see a movie with her friends, just go to see the movie it might be a good one. :p
If you wanna get back with her, fine, but if you don't no biggy, you got to see a good movie while you were there. :lol:

BUGGER
2004-06-05, 01:59 PM
Since your 14, i dont expect you two to know any better.

Go out with her. Just i dunno why yall 14 yr olds got g/fs now.


Having a g/f at 14 is like having ADD as a engineer. It wont last and never will till your alittle older, so make the best out of it right now.

tbdsamman
2004-06-05, 02:15 PM
http://www.btinternet.com/~the_22nd_sas2/sem/weapons/ak47.jpg
:lol: :lol: :rofl:

Kam
2004-06-05, 04:21 PM
AHAHHAHAHAH.

That must have sucked.


Females are strange creatures indeed...

ChewyLSB
2004-06-05, 04:34 PM
Even the best skater's get injured a lot. The only way to completely prevent getting injuries is either to a) give up skating or b) wear a suit covered in pillows.

JetRaiden
2004-06-05, 04:36 PM
Since your 14, i dont expect you two to know any better.

Go out with her. Just i dunno why yall 14 yr olds got g/fs now.


Having a g/f at 14 is like having ADD as a engineer. It wont last and never will till your alittle older, so make the best out of it right now.
:huh: dude, hes 14 not 11. let him have some fun.

TheN00b
2004-06-05, 05:27 PM
Jet, you don't understand. The perspective I think BUGGER was trying to get across is that he feels relationships that won't last very long aren't really useful. And he does have one point that I agree with: Who meets their soulmate when they're fourteen years old?

1024
2004-06-05, 07:31 PM
dude, cut her loose.

JetRaiden
2004-06-05, 09:38 PM
Jet, you don't understand. The perspective I think BUGGER was trying to get across is that he feels relationships that won't last very long aren't really useful. And he does have one point that I agree with: Who meets their soulmate when they're fourteen years old?

definately. Ive known 1 couple thats been together for more then 3 years. meeting your soulmate before youre like in your 20s, is very, very lucky.

Onizuka-GTO
2004-06-05, 09:39 PM
definately. Ive known 1 couple thats been together for more then 3 years. meeting your soulmate before youre like in your 20s, is very, very lucky.

very true.

I hope we all find someone like that.

:love:

JetRaiden
2004-06-05, 09:45 PM
the biggest mistake Ive seen people make is lie to themselves saying that "theyll be with them forever." and shit like that, even thogh they know that they arent perfect to them. until you are 100% happy with someone, they arent the right person. I learned that the hard way. speaking of which Im in a little bit of a problem with my gf, deciding if its thread worthy or not.

Onizuka-GTO
2004-06-05, 09:47 PM
perhaps you should.

at this rate, PSU is going to be a charge free relationship consultancy service.... :rolleyes: :lol:

JetRaiden
2004-06-05, 09:48 PM
:lol: pretty much, this is gf thread #4 for me now, I believe.

Triggar
2004-06-05, 10:20 PM
Don't settle for anything less than perfection.

Because get this - it exists! I have my soulmate near me every day, and my life is perfection.

It's worth waiting for.

Jennyboo
2004-06-05, 10:32 PM
Don't settle for anything less than perfection.

Because get this - it exists! I have my soulmate near me every day, and my life is perfection.

It's worth waiting for.
My soul mate is 1 country and 3 states away ..but i feel the same Hamma is my perfect match :love::P~