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Triggar
2004-07-12, 10:05 PM
Now that our very own Infernus has taken the extraordinarily brave step of coming out and admitting that he was gay to the whole PSU community, I have a personal favor that I need to ask each attendee of PSU:MA.

What none of us who haven't done it could possibly understand is how hard it is for a person to admit to their friends and family that they are gay. There is a tremendous amount of expectation attached to a person by outside sources, and most of it is put there by parents.

Infernus, while incredibly brave for telling this massive community, has yet to feel ready to tackle his biggest hurdle - telling his parents.

The reason I made this thread was because Infernus's dad will be attending PSU:MA. I'm writing now to ask any of you who are coming to refrain from making any jokes/comments pertaining to his sexual preference, whether his dad is around or not. I don't think I have to mention this at all, but I'd rather not assume.

Also, let's show some support for Infernus - the kid's done something ballsier than most of us will ever do in our lifetimes!

:thumbsup:

Setari
2004-07-12, 10:06 PM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif

Fragmatic
2004-07-12, 10:07 PM
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Triggar
2004-07-12, 10:08 PM
I should also mention that anyone who makes a crack about someone's sexual preference at PSU:MA will receive a throw-down, compliments of THIS girl!

Fragmatic
2004-07-12, 10:09 PM
I should also mention that anyone who makes a crack about someone's sexual preference at PSU:MA will receive a throw-down, compliments of THIS girl!

:brow:

Infernus
2004-07-12, 10:10 PM
:love: for triggar... thanks... this was something I was really worried about actually... I haven't been able to build up the courage to tell them yet...

DeepStrikeck
2004-07-12, 10:14 PM
best of luck to ya inf. I hope it all goes well for ya.

Spee
2004-07-12, 10:18 PM
Man, I missed something here. Linkplz?

Squeeky
2004-07-12, 10:31 PM
I love Infernus, eitherway.

Firefly
2004-07-12, 10:32 PM
To be honest, making fun of gay people is weak. If I hear that shit at PSU:MA I'm gonna punch someone in the fucking throat if Triggar beats me to it. I absolutely despise cowardly inbred homophobes that have to make fun of someone because of their sexual preference.

r3d
2004-07-12, 10:32 PM
You're awesome Infernus, best of luck to you :)

Squeeky
2004-07-12, 10:33 PM
Sorry if i've ever offended anyone with my gay jokes/humor. I have plenty of gay friends, and i'm not a homophobe in the least :)

Infernus
2004-07-12, 10:37 PM
Sorry if i've ever offended anyone with my gay jokes/humor. I have plenty of gay friends, and i'm not a homophobe in the least :)

Er... I for one try not to take offense at that stuff... most times people just say it as a joke and most times I can tell... if something bother's me... usually I will confront you... but I wont start an arguement... thats for dicks...

SDM
2004-07-12, 10:37 PM
:love: to Inf.

I can still out gay you any day of the week and I'm not even gay (as far as you know...):rofl:

/me anals Sputty

oddfish
2004-07-12, 10:38 PM
Inf, i'm proud of you. Not because you're gay, because no one is proud of anyone for being straight so that's just dumb. I'm proud of you because you had the fortitude to be able to tell people even in a shitty, awful, horrible, mean, and despicable world like this. So many people out there are ignorant, sick assholes. I hope no one ever fucks with you, and if they do, you tell me, i'll eat their heart right in front of you. If that makes you a little squeamish, then i'll do it in the comfort of my own home. Luv ya Inf. :love:

Biohazzard56
2004-07-12, 10:49 PM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif

Ive known Infernus for months since hes a Black Hawk, Infernus rocks im sure everything will turn out alright. Best of luck to you.

JetRaiden
2004-07-12, 10:53 PM
:love: Infernus's stock just went up in my book. thats a very brave thing to do, and Im proud of ya. best of luck to you buddy

Triggar
2004-07-12, 10:55 PM
What an great community this is, what an awesome crowd to have behind you!

Infernus
2004-07-12, 10:58 PM
What an great community this is, what an awesome crowd to have behind you!

Indeed... :love: guys... thanks much...

BIGTROJANMAN
2004-07-12, 11:08 PM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif


dude it takes guts to come out and to tell everyone that. I respect that and Im proud of you, and i take honor that i can call you a friend. If anyone give you any bad time you tell me or anyone of these guys and will find the person and teach them some respect.

Incompetent
2004-07-12, 11:14 PM
very hard post to make, can't think of anything that sounds right but I want to say something.

Hope your parents take it well, I don't think there is anything wrong with being gay and hopefully they'll understand too. It took some serious balls to come out and admit something like that to PSU, much <3 (not in that way.)

StrangeFellow
2004-07-12, 11:30 PM
i also missed somthing but that isn't on topic

that took balls Inf and i believe i can speak for everyone when i say this, we support you

i may be fairly new to PSU but i know it's a great community...what has been said in this thread alone proves that
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif

Sputty
2004-07-12, 11:32 PM
I should also mention that anyone who makes a crack about someone's sexual preference at PSU:MA will receive a throw-down, compliments of THIS girl!
...general gay jokes are still allowed, right?......
If not....PSU:MA would have way too many long silences

Heavygain
2004-07-12, 11:33 PM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif
Very

Onizuka
2004-07-12, 11:41 PM
Goodjob.

I don't think any different of a person whether they are gay or not.

Lonehunter
2004-07-12, 11:53 PM
Now that our very own Infernus has taken the extraordinarily brave step of coming out and admitting that he was gay to the whole PSU community,
Um...ok. I'm not trying to be against homosexuality or anything but it seems like "coming out" is like being an "attention whore." I'm not calling Infernus that cuz I never knew until someone else said so, but I'm talking about other people, kinda makes me mad. I'm sensing a shower of flames to approach me now...

Anyway I guess congratz are inorder :)

JetRaiden
2004-07-12, 11:57 PM
...general gay jokes are still allowed, right?......
If not....PSU:MA would have way too many long silences
:lol: :lol:
true. Ill make gay jokes as long as infernus isnt offended by them. :D

martyr
2004-07-13, 12:51 AM
Um...ok. I'm not trying to be against homosexuality or anything but it seems like "coming out" is like being an "attention whore." I'm not calling Infernus that cuz I never knew until someone else said so, but I'm talking about other people, kinda makes me mad. I'm sensing a shower of flames to approach me now...

Anyway I guess congratz are inorder :)

haha, you try it some day. there's a reason people respect that kind of thing.
we be wit' you, inf, what

Everay
2004-07-13, 12:55 AM
What an great community this is, what an awesome crowd to have behind you!


wtf im not behind him! :brow:


well infernus, i have no problems with gays, i dont think gays have any problems with me, but none of this changes my oppinion of you. which is not a bad one.

SDM
2004-07-13, 12:57 AM
This thread makes me touch myself.

Khronos
2004-07-13, 01:10 AM
i have a few gay friends in real life and they're even cooler than my straight friends.

idk i dont see a difference between orientation at all.

inf is as rad as evAr :love: :love:


bravery to do what he did = +10,000 khr0n pts.

Dharkbayne
2004-07-13, 02:04 AM
Um...ok. I'm not trying to be against homosexuality or anything but it seems like "coming out" is like being an "attention whore." I'm not calling Infernus that cuz I never knew until someone else said so, but I'm talking about other people, kinda makes me mad. I'm sensing a shower of flames to approach me now...

Anyway I guess congratz are inorder :)

Do you try to piss people off, or is it just on accident?

Spider
2004-07-13, 02:13 AM
*shudder* I missed something didnt I?

Retroactive
2004-07-13, 03:21 AM
:doh: Infernus is gay? :huh:
god I've been out of the loop for a while.

oddfish
2004-07-13, 03:25 AM
1337 G4Y P01N75!!1111111111onehundredeleven

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 03:38 AM
Inf :D

If any of you make a crack about his orientation at PSU:MA, even if you tell his dad about his orientation when he hasn't yet, I will hunt you down with my spoon.

FOR I AM A CHILD OF THE CORN

http://www.uploadimages.net/images/857640knife.jpg

Rayder
2004-07-13, 04:32 AM
Homosexuality is now considered an orientation?

Black
2004-07-13, 05:11 AM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 05:15 AM
Do you try to piss people off, or is it just on accident?
Wow, I've been asked that by other people I've known. I consider it a skill, although I sometimes use it unintentionally. I mean no harm in this thread, really.

Sputty
2004-07-13, 05:22 AM
Homosexuality is now considered an orientation?
yeah...a sexual orientation. nub

On an unrelated note: In Medieval times Jesus was known as Susejauge and instead of performing miracles he made balloon animals at birthday parties and ate day old doughnuts

OneManArmy
2004-07-13, 05:32 AM
This thread makes me touch myself.

what DOESN'T make you touch yourself? :p


Yay for infernus! not to worry bud. I'm sure your parents will take it well. hell they're letting you come down and sleep with a bunch of child mol....errr fine upstanding people whom you've never met:D. Plus there is no reason for you or anyone to feel ashamed of being gay. (well unless your family is a bunch of inbred bible thumping hicks*... in that case you better leave... now.)





















* much :love: to strygun. :D

Squeeky
2004-07-13, 05:43 AM
* much :love: to strygun. :D

Holy shit, low blow if i've ever seen one :eek:

OneManArmy
2004-07-13, 05:48 AM
I know, but i couldnt resist. the man is from alabama and has one hell of an accent. besides he knows its all in good fun, from one hick to another. ;)


and back on topic for a second, if you dont mind me asking where was this "coming out" announced? besides this thread i see no other. :confused:

SDM
2004-07-13, 06:30 AM
if you dont mind me asking where was this "coming out" announced? besides this thread i see no other. :confused:I believe it was here:

http://www.planetside-universe.com/forums/showthread.php?t=23995

Where we also learned of Tek's dual personality issues:



Not 10 minutes after Tek is banned:
I think the point that Tek was making...

incidentally, "pretty much everone else" wasn't even close to agreeing with Tek.http://planetside-universe.com/forums/images/smilies/lol.gif
Cool, then you find yourself in agreement with Early, Tek, and pretty much everyone else...Good stuffhttp://planetside-universe.com/forums/images/smilies/rofl.gif


My sides hurt.

Jennyboo
2004-07-13, 09:07 AM
Sorry if i've ever offended anyone with my gay jokes/humor. I have plenty of gay friends, and i'm not a homophobe in the least :)

Aww how sweet Squeeky :P Best of luck ...I remember i dated a guy in high school who came out that he ya bi-sexual he was cool it dident work out (he cheated on me with a male frind of mine lol)

Hamma
2004-07-13, 09:26 AM
To be honest, making fun of gay people is weak. If I hear that shit at PSU:MA I'm gonna punch someone in the fucking throat if Triggar beats me to it. I absolutely despise cowardly inbred homophobes that have to make fun of someone because of their sexual preference.
Hey how come you arent on the registered list :confused:

Triggar
2004-07-13, 10:03 AM
Whoever said that gay people are attention whores and that coming out is an exercise in attention whoring, I ask you to perform the following mental task:

For a moment, close your eyes. Imagine that instead of going along with the social norm and being attracted to women (if you're a man), you fancy men instead. Imagine your family's fantasies about your wedding to a beautiful woman, what your children will look like, and the joy your parents will feel at having grandchildren to play with. They could tell their neighbors all about the wedding and how your life is. Now imagine walking up to your parents and shattering that dream for them by telling them that you are gay.

You're not telling them because you just loooove the negative attention, you're telling them for their own sake - so that they don't keep living with the false idea that their child is a heterosexual.

Imagine yourself in that position, then come back and say that gay people are attention whores.

ViperGTS
2004-07-13, 11:42 AM
http://www.p0stwh0restores.com/uploads//Setari/InfRocks.gif
WTG Infernus. Just hope your parents understand like we do bud.

Spider
2004-07-13, 12:12 PM
The mom will probly accept it... I'm afraid for his dad....

Triggar
2004-07-13, 12:14 PM
To quote Robert Frost:

"In three words I can summarize everything I've learned about life... It goes on."

From what I've learned from my gay friends who've come out to their parents, they've said that their parents told them that they already suspected it. They weren't pissed off, but shocked. One of my friend's mom's refuses to talk about it, always changing the subject. But they didn't disown them or anything.

firecrackerNC
2004-07-13, 12:24 PM
Eh good luck with that.I knew a kid who was gay and told his parents.Yeah well hopefully it goes better for you.The kid got kicked out of his house permentaly at age of 15.Hes 17 now living with a Aunt.Still dont think hes talked to his parents for at least a year.

edit-there fixed

Triggar
2004-07-13, 12:26 PM
That's retarded, what do the parents think they're accomplishing? All they're doing is missing out on their kid's life.

I say the kid is better off. So he doesn't have a relationship with his parents - which means he doesn't have to deal with their resentful crap. Good riddance.

Oh, PS, people don't "turn" gay. That's like saying "I was born Caucasian, but one day I turned Chinese."

Onizuka
2004-07-13, 12:29 PM
Oh, PS, people don't "turn" gay. That's like saying "I was born Caucasian, but one day I turned Chinese."

So, like when do they realize it? Is it there from 1st grade?

Triggar
2004-07-13, 12:35 PM
People realise it at different times.

A guy called Steve who used to be my best friend tried to convince himself that he was straight - dated a girl for a few years. But everyone said that they realised it at different times. Steve said he realised it when he was little and his brother said, "Elton John is GAY" and then he realised it had a name.

Neon Apocalypse
2004-07-13, 12:37 PM
We're here for you infernus.

You're a great guy.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 12:43 PM
Eh good luck with that.I knew a kid who was gay and told his parents.Yeah well hopefully it goes better for you.The kid got kicked out of his house permentaly at age of 15.Hes 17 now living with a Aunt.Still dont think hes talked to his parents for at least a year.

edit-there fixed

Big morale booster there eh?


In any case... thanks guys... PSU, I knew, was a great community... but now your really showing your true colors...


And as to whoever said "coming out" is like being an 'attention whore' I have to tell you that your an ass... Why anybody would want the kind of attention I get is beyond me, but then I guess there are sadists out there. And theres always that one person in a great group of people that has to say something assholeish...

Hamma
2004-07-13, 12:45 PM
That was like one guy Infernus, not the "true colors" of PSU. With any good community there is always a few asshats, they are the ones you ignore :p

Mag
2004-07-13, 12:46 PM
I took part in that thread, and at some level feel a little responsible for Tek's attacks. So, my apologies there. And man, way to go. Like Triggar said, that's one of the ballsiest things you can do.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 12:48 PM
That was like one guy Infernus, not the "true colors" of PSU. With any good community there is always a few asshats, they are the ones you ignore :p

Er... I guess I shoulda elaborated more...


What I meant was: In any case... thanks guys... PSU, I knew, was a great community... but now your really showing your true colors... and you guys are better then I ever knew...

then i moved onto the topic of ranting about an asshole...

Mag
2004-07-13, 12:50 PM
Are you speaking in the sense of a person, or just asshole in general? :brow:

Infernus
2004-07-13, 12:52 PM
Are you speaking in the sense of a person, or just asshole in general? :brow:

The sense of the person... ... ...

only true asshole in general I'll ever talk about is xmodum's... :love:

TheN00b
2004-07-13, 01:08 PM
Infernus, that is a very, very brave thing to do. Kudos, man: The best of luck with your parents.

OneManArmy
2004-07-13, 02:21 PM
Call me nuts but I think you have the balls to make it.



you know.... I sense that the gay jokes have done nothing but increased here at PSU. what can I say? we're just one big "happy" family. :)

Infernus
2004-07-13, 02:22 PM
Call me nuts but I think you have the balls to make it.



you know.... I sense that the gay jokes have done nothing but increased here at PSU. what can I say? we're just one big "happy" family. :)

FABULOUS!

Triggar
2004-07-13, 02:23 PM
:lol: Saying "nuts" and "balls" doesn't mean we're making gay jokes...

...it just means we have the maturity level of 6-year-olds!!

"OMG BOOBIES!!! LOLLERSKATXORS!!"

Infernus
2004-07-13, 02:24 PM
Well I for one go NUTS over BALLS!

Khronos
2004-07-13, 02:32 PM
http://www.tnt-audio.com/jpeg/gopher.jpg


someone say nuts?!?! gophers love nuts. waaah

Infernus
2004-07-13, 02:33 PM
http://www.tnt-audio.com/jpeg/gopher.jpg


someone say nuts?!?! gophers love nuts. waaah

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Without PSU life would be hard(almost like anal... well at first... SDM, you tiger, you...)

OneManArmy
2004-07-13, 03:21 PM
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

Without PSU life would be hard(almost like anal... well at first... SDM, you tiger, you...)


he is a BIG boy, definatly takes some getting used too. :eek:

Infernus
2004-07-13, 03:23 PM
he is a BIG boy, definatly takes some getting used too. :eek:

:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: I've had worse... ...maybe...

Doop
2004-07-13, 03:25 PM
I love this forum for a reason.

Spee
2004-07-13, 03:25 PM
THIS PAGE MAKES JESUS CRY.


I havnt heard this many lame innuendo's being thrown about since I got out of 6th grade :p

Infernus
2004-07-13, 03:27 PM
THIS PAGE MAKES JESUS CRY.


I havnt heard this many lame innuendo's being thrown about since I got out of 6th grade :p


:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Heh... sorry... I'll tone it down a notch I guess...

Jennyboo
2004-07-13, 03:36 PM
http://www.tnt-audio.com/jpeg/gopher.jpg


someone say nuts?!?! gophers love nuts. waaah
MMM gotta Love nuts :rofl::lol:

Infernus
2004-07-13, 03:37 PM
MMM gotta Love nuts :rofl:lol:

Appearently I'm not the only one that likes them :brow:

Jennyboo
2004-07-13, 03:39 PM
Appearently I'm not the only one that likes them :brow:
:lol: indeed :brow::brow:

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 03:41 PM
:rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Heh... sorry... I'll tone it down a crotch I guess...

... Sorry. I'll get my coat.

EarlyDawn
2004-07-13, 03:42 PM
Um...ok. I'm not trying to be against homosexuality or anything but it seems like "coming out" is like being an "attention whore." I'm not calling Infernus that cuz I never knew until someone else said so, but I'm talking about other people, kinda makes me mad. I'm sensing a shower of flames to approach me now...

Anyway I guess congratz are inorder :)Warning: Orbital Firestorm detected.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 03:46 PM
... Sorry. I'll get my coat.

:rofl: :lol: :rofl: :lol: :love:

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:11 PM
Whoever said that gay people are attention whores and that coming out is an exercise in attention whoring, I ask you to perform the following mental task:

For a moment, close your eyes. Imagine that instead of going along with the social norm and being attracted to women (if you're a man), you fancy men instead. Imagine your family's fantasies about your wedding to a beautiful woman, what your children will look like, and the joy your parents will feel at having grandchildren to play with. They could tell their neighbors all about the wedding and how your life is. Now imagine walking up to your parents and shattering that dream for them by telling them that you are gay.

You're not telling them because you just loooove the negative attention, you're telling them for their own sake - so that they don't keep living with the false idea that their child is a heterosexual.

Imagine yourself in that position, then come back and say that gay people are attention whores.
Easily done actually, it's the same thing with my family and College. But anyway, if I was in that position I wouldn't make that much a of a deal about it, the kind of person I am would just say hey, I'm not what you think I am your dreams are not mine, deal with it, Big deal! I told my Dad I wasn't going to College I barely made it out of that house alive, but now I'm supported all the way for the Navy.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 04:13 PM
Easily done actually, it's the same thing with my family and College. But anyway, if I was in that position I wouldn't make that much a of a deal about it, the kind of person I am would just say hey, I'm not what you think I am your dreams are not mine, deal with it, Big deal! I told my Dad I wasn't going to College I barely made it out of that house alive, but now I'm supported all the way for the Navy.

Know what... get out of the thread... cause you obviously know crap about what your talking about...

I'm not trying to be an attention whore... your just being an ass... a stupid prick at that.

Why would I want to be an attention whore about this? YOU THINK I LIKE THE FUCKIGN ATTENTION I GET? "Oh my god, look theres that computer geek that does guys." You think I like hearing that shit whispered at me while I walk down the hallway? Or how about "So Matt, let that last goal by you, what were you doing? Paying to much attention to the guys on the other team?" or how about when I walk into the lockerroom after a hockey game "Uhoh boys, hide your cocks, the *** might try to suck them off..."

I JUST LOVE THE FUCKING ATTENTION! FUCK OFF PRICK!

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:17 PM
Oh no, cant happen now, I'm involved :)

Fragmatic
2004-07-13, 04:20 PM
woah, chill guys.

Mag
2004-07-13, 04:21 PM
Edit: What Frag said.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 04:23 PM
Know what... see... now I got angry... I didn't wanna get angry, I was actually pretty happy I had the support of PSU... but then some asswipe comes along and ruins it... Loanhunter you have the honor of being the first person to ever tocuh my ignore list...

Bighoss
2004-07-13, 04:26 PM
This thread sucks, sounds like the fucking DU forums.

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:27 PM
YES! Now I don't have to argue with him.

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 04:31 PM
Oh no, cant happen now, I'm involved :)

Fuck you, arsechump

Fragmatic
2004-07-13, 04:35 PM
Two words

http://img30.photobucket.com/albums/v91/Fragmatic/chchill.jpg

&

http://img30.photobucket.com/albums/v91/Fragmatic/hatrelax.jpg

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 04:35 PM
http://img30.photobucket.com/albums/v91/Fragmatic/hatrelax.jpg

:lol:

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:35 PM
Fuck you, arsechump
Great, another flamer, let the PSU spirit rage on.

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 04:37 PM
You were the one who flamed Infernus first. Tek style. Adding subtly that he was an attention whore.

I'm not a flamer. Do you know why? Because you're going on my ignore list. Bye.

Baneblade
2004-07-13, 04:40 PM
What is it with the negative vibes, spend 10 minutes with a bong...

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:44 PM
Um...ok. I'm not trying to be against homosexuality or anything but it seems like "coming out" is like being an "attention whore." I'm not calling Infernus that cuz I never knew until someone else said so, but I'm talking about other people, kinda makes me mad. I'm sensing a shower of flames to approach me now...

READ THE WHOLE DAMN POST YOUR MORON!

Oh wait, another person I don't have to deal with. :lol: My day just keeps getting better.

What is it with the negative vibes, spend 10 minutes with a bong...
Last tiem that happened I woke up in the Walmart Furniture isle.

Everay
2004-07-13, 04:48 PM
Ban lonehunter IMO

Fragmatic
2004-07-13, 04:48 PM
Last tiem that happened I woke up in the Walmart Furniture isle.

pfft, n00b :p

Lonehunter
2004-07-13, 04:50 PM
pfft, n00b :p
It was just that, I was a "n00b" at that "hobby" at the time so I had no clue what was goign on. Anyway, back on topic, Who hates me!

Edit: I seem to have derailed this thread with people's anger towards me, sorry about that, I'll refrain from posting in this thread unless I am addressed.

SDM
2004-07-13, 04:52 PM
It was just that, I was a "n00b" at that "hobby" at the time so I had no clue what was goign on. Anyway, back on topic, Who hates me!
/me raises hand :doh:

Red October
2004-07-13, 05:08 PM
Now look what you did....

This thread's turned gay....wait a sec, that didn't come out right

This thread's going gay fast....uh....no that didn't come our right either

Some people are really getting anal over some stuff....!@#$ still cant get it right

Oh just ass-fuck this....doh...did it again!

SDM
2004-07-13, 05:10 PM
Now look what you did....

This thread's turned gay....wait a sec, that didn't come out right

This thread's going gay fast....uh....no that didn't come our right either

Some people are really getting anal over some stuff....!@#$ still cant get it right

Oh just ass-fuck this....doh...did it again!
http://img24.exs.cx/img24/971/notfunnay.jpg
:D

Rayder
2004-07-13, 05:30 PM
Still have that, eh?

Electrofreak
2004-07-13, 05:39 PM
Not a problem. I have a long-time friend who came out of the closet a few years back, and I still remain good friends with him today. I know what he went through with his parents finding out and stuff (they were very unreceptive of it :\ ) so I will be sure to respect Infernus's needs as well.

Triggar
2004-07-13, 05:51 PM
My family is a traditional Sicilian family - my mother came to America when she was about 7 years old, and I was raised in a very traditional way. That is, men are the leaders, women tend to the household. Men go to work, women stay home. When I told my family that I wanted to be a pilot (I'm a woman, if any of you didn't know), hell broke loose and I was in tears every day for a month trying to get some support to transfer universities (I had been accepted into Embry Riddle Aeronautical University, arguably the best university for Aeronautical Science in the world). Finally my family came to terms with my unorthodox career path (as most of the men hadn't been formally educated outside of the Italian military), and now they are all proud of me.

The point is, coming to your family and saying, "I want to do something unexpected and unconventional with my choice of career path" is a pinch for your family compared to the punch in the face of saying, "Mom, Dad, I'm gay."

Yeah, you might think so because that's what you can relate to. But pinch vs. punch in the face.

Ghryphen
2004-07-13, 05:56 PM
For a moment, close your eyes. Imagine that instead of going along with the social norm and being attracted to women (if you're a man), you fancy men instead. Imagine your family's fantasies about your wedding to a beautiful woman, what your children will look like, and the joy your parents will feel at having grandchildren to play with. They could tell their neighbors all about the wedding and how your life is. Now imagine walking up to your parents and shattering that dream for them by telling them that you are gay.

You're not telling them because you just loooove the negative attention, you're telling them for their own sake - so that they don't keep living with the false idea that their child is a heterosexual.

Dont get the false idea that I am going to be an NBA star, yes.....it is true.....I am overweight, now where is my thread?


I could care either way, but I can see where lonehunter is coming from, there are a couple of differently sexually minded people in our clan and in my real life and there not be any announcement, I could care less if they announced it they are my friends. I don't understand the need to make a big commotion about it, he is a person like anyone else and has differences just as others, but what warrants an announcement and what doesn't? It seems like a reasonable question to me, seems overly sensitive people would read his thread differently.

Angel_of_Death
2004-07-13, 05:57 PM
Wow Infernus I had no idea. Takes alot of balls to do something like that, good job.

Triggar
2004-07-13, 05:59 PM
No no no, this thread wasn't started for Infernus to announce to the community that he was gay.

Infernus only told a few people in private that he was gay, and only made it public when defending gay people in a political debate thread.

I made this thread so no one would pipe up about his sexual orientation at the MObilization! :p

Ghryphen
2004-07-13, 06:00 PM
Nobody pipe up about my overweightedness at mobilization!

Triggar
2004-07-13, 06:00 PM
Nobody will pipe up about anyone's overweightness, especially if I'm gonna be seen in a bathing suit!!

Hezzy
2004-07-13, 07:06 PM
Damn. I wish I could go.

Only joking trig :D

please don't shoot me martyr

Bighoss
2004-07-13, 07:15 PM
Well I for one go NUTS over BALLS!

that's not funny and borderline creepy if somone is serious when they says that. :scared:

Hamma
2004-07-13, 07:19 PM
Great, another flamer, let the PSU spirit rage on.
YOu sir are the guilty one, dont make me ban you again.

Infernus
2004-07-13, 07:21 PM
that's not funny and borderline creepy if somone is serious when they says that. :scared:

erm... your in a thread about me being gay... and I am gay... what do you expect...

I'm nuts over boobs...

Triggar
2004-07-13, 07:55 PM
Hey me too.

Indecisive
2004-07-13, 08:35 PM
Nobody pipe up about my overweightedness at mobilization!






Oh, and also, I dont approve of homosexuality as a religious value, but I never had, nor will, look at anyone differently due to their sexual orintation

unless they come on to me. hahahahah.

Shoot, I have gay friends, they are pretty cool. The overlydramic LOOK AT ME IM GAY lispvoice on the guys gets annoying though.

Anywho, hope everything goes well with your family inf, and I look forward to doing some more fraging (not shagging, HA!) with you.

Squeeky
2004-07-13, 08:50 PM
THIS THREAD IS NOW ABOUT POLKA DOTTED SIBERIAN LEOPARDS

Indecisive
2004-07-13, 08:52 PM
And manatees.

ViperGTS
2004-07-13, 09:47 PM
Nobody will pipe up about anyone's overweightness, especially if I'm gonna be seen in a bathing suit!!
:brow: :brow: :brow: :brow: :brow:

OneManArmy
2004-07-13, 11:40 PM
Hey me too.


what nuts over boobs>?

can I show you my boobs?

no?

can I show you my n.... ok you know what. I want to actually attend PSU:MA so I'm gonna stop now.





:) can't miss out on the chance of some sweet hot tub time with gryph, squeeky, hamma, and the rest of the PSU crew. :D

Electrofreak
2004-07-14, 03:35 AM
Nobody pipe up over my extreme thin-ness either! For the record NO, I'm NOT anorexic, YES, I do eat (quite a lot actually due to my high metabolism, but you guys will see that for yourself at PSUMA) and YES I do work out, I stock lumber by hand at a warehouse for a living. My genes are just very resistant to letting me gain any weight. I figure eventually my metabolism will slow down, hopefully sooner than later.

OK? Electro's a rather gaunt and gangly fellow. Lets not make this a topic of amusement at PSUMA either.

oddfish
2004-07-14, 03:46 AM
i actually think i may be there. god dammit i hope so. i'd love to meet a lot of you in person.

hmmmmmmm.. and since we're going to be meeting everyone in person soon, what does everyone think I look like since i really havn't ever posted a picture, or anything of that nature?

Baneblade
2004-07-14, 03:50 AM
Nobody better crack a joke at my not going...:doh:

Electrofreak
2004-07-14, 03:59 AM
HAHAHAHA UR NOT GOING OMG LOL HAHA... Oh shit... I just joined your corp in EVE didnt I... uh... I meant... uh... sure Sobe... sir... see... its almost GOOD ur not going because... uh... crap... I mean... uhm... PSUMA would be COOLER without... AH DAMN!
:p


i actually think i may be there. god dammit i hope so. i'd love to meet a lot of you in person.

hmmmmmmm.. and since we're going to be meeting everyone in person soon, what does everyone think I look like since i really havn't ever posted a picture, or anything of that nature?
Well you can't be too bad-lookin... I mean every time we turn around some chick's got her claws in yah :lol:

Baneblade
2004-07-14, 04:02 AM
You're Fired!



























:love:

martyr
2004-07-14, 04:05 AM
http://www.uploadimages.net/images/313145thailand.jpg

Electrofreak
2004-07-14, 04:14 AM
You're Fired!



























:love:
AH I KNEW IT! ::Cries::

oddfish
2004-07-14, 04:15 AM
Well you can't be too bad-lookin... I mean every time we turn around some chick's got her claws in yah

that's cuz i'm a horny lil' bastard. :D :D

Ivan
2004-07-14, 04:36 AM
Have you registered for PSU:MA Oddfish? You only have till the 15 of THIS MONTH to deposit the $150.

Electrofreak
2004-07-14, 04:52 AM
yeah and thats like... tomorrow.

SO HURRY UP ODDFISH!

Rayder
2004-07-14, 08:49 AM
oddfish has blonde, short hair, clean-shaven/stubble, of medium build, and big feet.

Infernus
2004-07-14, 10:44 AM
i actually think i may be there. god dammit i hope so. i'd love to meet a lot of you in person.

hmmmmmmm.. and since we're going to be meeting everyone in person soon, what does everyone think I look like since i really havn't ever posted a picture, or anything of that nature?

Your coming? That'd be leet!

Jennyboo
2004-07-14, 12:32 PM
YOu must pay ! :p

oddfish
2004-07-14, 12:35 PM
oddfish has blonde, short hair, clean-shaven/stubble, of medium build, and big feet.


3 out of five. haha. now figure out which three.

and, Ivan, I'm not sure just yet. I want to go, badly. But, at the same time, august is the worst month of the summer for me. Family shit always pops up and then everyone needs my help. The fifteenth is friday, i think. I've got a day to figure this out, and I'm gonna use that day for exactly that. I'd sure love to meet you guys.

Infernus
2004-07-14, 12:41 PM
3 out of five. haha. now figure out which three.

and, Ivan, I'm not sure just yet. I want to go, badly. But, at the same time, august is the worst month of the summer for me. Family shit always pops up and then everyone needs my help. The fifteenth is friday, i think. I've got a day to figure this out, and I'm gonna use that day for exactly that. I'd sure love to meet you guys.

I'd sure love to 'meet' you... ...if you catch my drift... :brow:

oddfish
2004-07-14, 12:47 PM
I'd sure love to 'meet' you... ...if you catch my drift... :brow:


infernus. you're laying the gay on pretty thick, buddy. ;)















keep it comin'! :D


if you catch my drift, :brow:

Triggar
2004-07-14, 01:02 PM
Oddfish, you have until midnight tomorrow to get your deposit

Triggar sets mode +panic

Infernus
2004-07-14, 01:10 PM
infernus. you're laying the gay on pretty thick, buddy. ;)


keep it comin'! :D


if you catch my drift, :brow:

Indeed... :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

oddfish
2004-07-14, 05:01 PM
Oddfish, you have until midnight tomorrow to get your deposit

Triggar sets mode +panic


i know.

i just flat out don't have $150 right now... :( :( :(

that has officially ruined my august. :(

Indecisive
2004-07-14, 08:34 PM
Nobody pipe up over my extreme thin-ness either! For the record NO, I'm NOT anorexic, YES, I do eat (quite a lot actually due to my high metabolism, but you guys will see that for yourself at PSUMA) and YES I do work out, I stock lumber by hand at a warehouse for a living. My genes are just very resistant to letting me gain any weight. I figure eventually my metabolism will slow down, hopefully sooner than later.
.



You are free to help yourself to some of my blubber.

JetRaiden
2004-07-14, 08:35 PM
You are free to help yourself to some of my blubber.
:lol: :lol:

1024
2004-07-14, 10:20 PM
I have a new respect for you inf. Just so you know. :love:

Come out to your parents when you're ready, don't feel pressured to do it. Make it a personal and singular decision.

Lonehunter
2004-07-15, 07:12 AM
Great, another flamer, let the PSU spirit rage on.

YOu sir are the guilty one, dont make me ban you again.
It's always my fault in the eyes of the admins, and I've been told by other staff in the past that you weren't the one that banned me, even you said that.

Sputty
2004-07-15, 07:14 AM
Indeed... :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:
Gay so thick you can stand a fork in it

Rayder
2004-07-15, 07:18 AM
oddfish = short blonde hair and big feet

Lonehunter
2004-07-15, 07:28 AM
**EDITED**

Sorry bout that

Infernus
2004-07-15, 07:32 AM
Gay so thick you can stand a fork in it

Like a really prime cut of steak...

Rayder
2004-07-15, 07:41 AM
Or jello.

oddfish
2004-07-15, 08:34 AM
oddfish = short blonde hair and big feet


negative.

Zero chance against me!

attack their command console!

defend our medical facilities!

Warning! Sniper!

HELP!

HELP!

Infernus
2004-07-15, 09:28 AM
negative.

Zero chance against me!

attack their command console!

defend our medical facilities!

Warning! Sniper!

HELP!

HELP!

Well then wtf do you look like?

Rayder
2004-07-15, 10:05 AM
He's Tom Cruise short but skinny, his hands and feet don't fit his body, he has sunbleached hair that's sort of blonde/brown/whatever else.

Infernus
2004-07-15, 10:11 AM
He's Tom Cruise short but skinny, his hands and feet don't fit his body, he has sunbleached hair that's sort of blonde/brown/whatever else.

Sounds hawt... :brow: :brow: