View Full Version : Spee's got a Sit'uashin
I broke up with my girlfriend at around the beginning of summer. Havnt seen her since, aside from fluke crossings at large areas/biking.
Recently went to a party with a group of friend she introduced me to, and is still a part of. Only, this time, she came with German Foreign Exchange student in tow. Cute, and speaks English well, despite having a heavy accent, which is to be expected.
Now, normally, I'd attempt to pursue a relationship with her, and she seems interested in me, but therein lies the problem: She lives with my ex. Considering I have made great pains to get back on "neutral" terms with her, Im at a loss as to how to proceed.
1: Go for it, possibly alienate Ex, who, with her close proximity, becomes a superbitch and tries to get her disinterested in me
2: Dont do anything, and shrug it off.
Opinions plz.
eXoSloth
2004-08-20, 01:05 AM
Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?
Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?
2, or 3.
eXoSloth
2004-08-20, 01:08 AM
2, or 3.
Hmmmmmm
I'd still go for option 1
_-Gunslinger-_
2004-08-20, 01:27 AM
Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!
thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man
Spider
2004-08-20, 01:32 AM
As I see it your ex is well... an ex, unless she's going to bring you great wealth or she's really hot and you plan to get back with her, do the german chick.
Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!
Not really. I just like to have friends wherever I can. Enemies are a sucky thing to have.
thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man
10$ no.
Theres a lot of complications with the matter. Such as Me only seeing the girl at social events, my ex hogging all lines of communication into her house, etc. Basically, I only know the girls face, and the fact that I amuse her.
Apocolypse55
2004-08-20, 01:47 AM
Propose a three-way. /nod
Derfud
2004-08-20, 01:53 AM
Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.
Triggar
2004-08-20, 07:21 AM
Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?
JetRaiden
2004-08-20, 08:30 AM
pics:
GonePostal
2004-08-20, 10:31 AM
As I see it your ex is well... an ex, unless she's going to bring you great wealth or she's really hot and you plan to get back with her, do the german chick.
dude, spider makes a lot of sense right here
DeepStrikeck
2004-08-20, 10:42 AM
Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.
I agree with the first part of this, if you are really interested in keeping on good terms with your ex, then you should tell her you're interested in the german girl, and ask her if she would be fine with you dating her. If so, you're in the clear, if not, then you should probably steer clear.
Sputty
2004-08-20, 10:57 AM
DHITB then 2.
indeed
firecrackerNC
2004-08-20, 11:02 AM
Eh I had a German Chick at my school this last year and we hooked up for a few months and OMG HOTTTT!!!1!! It seems German chicks are great in bed, just make sure all the lil areas are shaved first. So my opinion, go for it!!
Hezzy
2004-08-20, 11:02 AM
Sie liebt Wurst...
ndabut
Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?
Shes Emo, and converted to Wiccan recently. Thus meaning she might get angry a lil bit and angst if I slaughter everyone she holds dear :rollseyes:
Hezzy
2004-08-20, 01:24 PM
Holy shit! Don't do it!
Your Ex with Hex you and curse your penis size indefinatly
firecrackerNC
2004-08-20, 01:49 PM
Forget the ex. Screw the german girl.
ViperGTS
2004-08-20, 02:38 PM
Hrrr....
DHITB
ObnoxiousFrog
2004-08-20, 02:58 PM
If you can speak some conversation German well, that'll polish.
Otherwise don't worry about your ex, she's just some girl now, and "let's be friends" really doesn't mean "let's be friends" it means "don't fuck with me"...however, you really shouldn't care about her if she's just keeping you from what you want.
Hezzy
2004-08-20, 03:08 PM
Yeah. If you ever want help, come to me or babelfish :p
If you can speak some conversation German well, that'll polish.
Invasion reference in 3....2.....
Red October
2004-08-20, 03:40 PM
Pppfffffftttt...
I can tell you a real horror story...but I'll just pass on it for now. Granted I'm married and have been away from the dating scene awhile...but....
No fucking thing such as "neuteral" or "good friends". Its 100% Bull Shit and then some. If your ex even so much has one bit of envy of the exchange girl....she will bad mouth you to her untill the cows come home. Your Ex WILL get jealous and WILL be a problem. If your Ex thinks the exchange student is nothing....then nothing will happen. But I can almost guaran-damn-tee your ex WILL be a problem....I speak with much experiance.
Triggar is right, your ex will make your life a living hell...
So either Mac the German and realize and be prepared for the ex' axe or just walk away. Also consider this, she won't be around for long and are you prepared for a long distance realationship? If your in for the short term, then the German is gone and you got a pissed off ex....which WILL lead to more complications....trust me I know.
Everay
2004-08-20, 03:46 PM
Kill the Ex with a shotgun, and the german girl? DHITB
^^^
Kaltagesta
2004-08-20, 04:13 PM
I thought you'd got a brand new Sit'uashin puppy dog or something. This thread is boring. I wanted puppies.
Sputty
2004-08-20, 04:17 PM
PUPPY TIME!!
http://knollsoft.com/sputty/tiredpuppy.JPG
http://knollsoft.com/sputty/sleepingpuppy.JPG
http://knollsoft.com/sputty/puppy.jpg
More up to date pic:
http://knollsoft.com/sputty/yogiface.JPG
Last pic is big, so I linked it
Kaltagesta
2004-08-20, 04:31 PM
Awwwww, he looks like a Husky in the new pic, just different colours. So... not really like a husky at all, but he looks so cool! My dogs old now, nearly 15.
Pppfffffftttt...
I can tell you a real horror story...but I'll just pass on it for now. Granted I'm married and have been away from the dating scene awhile...but....
No fucking thing such as "neuteral" or "good friends". Its 100% Bull Shit and then some. If your ex even so much has one bit of envy of the exchange girl....she will bad mouth you to her untill the cows come home. Your Ex WILL get jealous and WILL be a problem. If your Ex thinks the exchange student is nothing....then nothing will happen. But I can almost guaran-damn-tee your ex WILL be a problem....I speak with much experiance.
Triggar is right, your ex will make your life a living hell...
So either Mac the German and realize and be prepared for the ex' axe or just walk away. Also consider this, she won't be around for long and are you prepared for a long distance realationship? If your in for the short term, then the German is gone and you got a pissed off ex....which WILL lead to more complications....trust me I know.
Considering the Ex
1: Cant drive
2: Is too lazy to bike
3: Doesnt go to the same school
4: interatcs with a different group of people than my core group of friends
She has very few avenues with which to make my life a living hell.
And if she does. Well. I have a lot more dirt on her, than she does on me.
Either way, I'll try to do something tomorrow at the Renfest...At the veyr least, strike up a conversation and get ot know her better.
EarlyDawn
2004-08-20, 04:43 PM
Go for it. Who gives a fuck about your ex? You've got a 50/50 chance that you'll win, or everybody loses, which sounds like my kind of odds.
IN an attempt to handle this as gracefully as possible, I asked the ex if it was alright if I dated the chick.
She said it was cool. So, now I just have to worry about her bad-mouthing. Oops.
OfaLoaf
2004-08-20, 06:20 PM
She's a forgein Exchange student. She's not going to be permanent. Option 2
firecrackerNC
2004-08-20, 06:51 PM
So who cares. Mabey hes just looking for a quick screw. Foreign chicks rock, you can screw them and then throw them to the curb and never have to worry about seeing them again. Plus if they really did fall in love or something one of them would decide to move close to each other.
So who cares. Mabey hes just looking for a quick screw. Foreign chicks rock, you can screw them and then throw them to the curb and never have to worry about seeing them again. Plus if they really did fall in love or something one of them would decide to move close to each other.
Im sorry, I cant see what you said. I dont read "Chauvanistic asshole" :rolleyes:
firecrackerNC
2004-08-20, 06:54 PM
Woa wtf I must be young cause I have no clue what Chauvanistic means.
Hezzy
2004-08-20, 06:55 PM
Man who abuses women, is what it meant in that context. I'm apparently younger than you fire.
Baneblade
2004-08-20, 07:03 PM
Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?
QFT
I found out the hard way...literally.
firecrackerNC
2004-08-20, 07:13 PM
Wait so I abuse women...... What?
Heavygain
2004-08-20, 07:14 PM
Go for it, if your ex does talk her down then you know she still cares about you and doesnt want you to move on.
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