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Jaged
2004-10-05, 10:12 PM
A couple of my friends just got into an argument and now refuse to speak to each other. I don't think i can mend it but I would like to get your oppinions on whe is right and who is wrong, if it can be defined that simply. Person A is my best friend who I have known since 1st grade. Person B is a hippy libral douche vegitarian. Anyway A is a homophobe. B hates homophobes. Ever since A told B that he is a homophobe B has refused to talk to A. They were great friends before this happened.

Discuss.

Corrosion
2004-10-05, 10:18 PM
Slap them both.

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 10:23 PM
In my school the lines between straight and gay people are blurred...beyond imitating being gay as a joke, I've witnessed people pantsing each other, flashing in the locker rooms, etc. It's not fucking right.

If you don't do that, you're a homophobe, because to not be one, you have to be able to grab someone's ass and still "be straight."

JetRaiden
2004-10-05, 10:23 PM
Anyway A is a homophobe. B hates homophobes.

thats your problem. just ignore them.

Jaged
2004-10-05, 10:25 PM
I know the problem. It just seems so imature that they wont talk because of that.

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 10:25 PM
"Homophobe" is a term used against anyone who feels that experimenting is unnecessary and/or wrong because they're sure that they are straight.

Setari
2004-10-05, 10:26 PM
In my school the lines between straight and gay people are blurred...beyond imitating being gay as a joke, I've witnessed people pantsing each other, flashing in the locker rooms, etc. It's not fucking right.

If you don't do that, you're a homophobe, because to not be one, you have to be able to grab someone's ass and still "be straight."
same with my class...it's kinda odd.

JetRaiden
2004-10-05, 10:28 PM
youre like 15 or something right Jaged? just wait a couple years until they actually grow up.

Jaged
2004-10-05, 10:32 PM
Im 16 and they are both 15. Im not asking you guys to fix it or point out what I can do to make it better or any crap like that. I understand that it is imature and I cant make the love flow again. I don't really care. Just wondered what you guys would think.

Setari
2004-10-05, 10:36 PM
theyre both bitchy and need a good slap.

Sputty
2004-10-05, 10:44 PM
"Homophobe" is a term used against anyone who feels that experimenting is unnecessary and/or wrong because they're sure that they are straight.
Right..... :rolleyes:

What was that Aztec?
Oh yeah...
JESUS
JESUS
JESUS

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 10:55 PM
You're fat.

I'm tired of being called a homophobe because I refuse to slap another man's rear end. A paradoxical situation, as those who do are not gay, but straight.

Sputty
2004-10-05, 11:01 PM
You're fat.

STOP THE PRESSES

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 11:02 PM
It is my life goal to call everyone I can fat, even if they are blatantly skinny.

With any luck cases of anorexia/bulimia will not rise.

Sputty
2004-10-05, 11:03 PM
And homophobia is not the unwillingness to touch another man's rectum, it's the unwillingness to talk to, be around, interact, not hate, or accept homosexuals

Jaged
2004-10-05, 11:04 PM
:lol: aztec, are you person A? Thats exactly what me and him do all the time. We are always calling people fat.

Triggar
2004-10-05, 11:17 PM
There is a lot of evidence supporting the fact that people who are deathly afraid of gay people are gay people themselves. The logic is that a gay person would "spot" them or hit on them, and that they would like it, because it is something they've thought of before.

Also, I think it's out of your hands. The homophobe isn't going to change, and Friend B isn't going to start forging friendships with ignorant people. My advice is to steer clear, because for you, it's a no-win situation.

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:19 PM
I am a retrosexual, but I suppose homophobe could be applied to me even though I have a gay brother who I love just as much as my pain in the ass brother.

EineBeBoP
2004-10-05, 11:24 PM
I am a retrosexual, but I suppose homophobe could be applied to me even though I have a gay brother who I love just as much as my pain in the ass brother.


SO you have only 1 (very friendly) brother?


:p <3 Sobe

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:26 PM
I knew someone would do that, even considered editing it. hehe

No I have two brothers, one is gay and one is just an idiot.

EineBeBoP
2004-10-05, 11:28 PM
I figured :p

(of corse i meant no offense at poking fun at your brothers.)

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 11:29 PM
And homophobia is not the unwillingness to touch another man's rectum, it's the unwillingness to talk to, be around, interact, not hate, or accept homosexuals
If only this meaning was accepted and not the adulterated meaning that is in practice in society.

I'm not afraid of them, I just don't approve of the lifestyle. I'll talk with them, etc. I can be friends with them. However, I'm pissed at society's "if you don't grab ass, then you're a homophobe" corollary.

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:30 PM
Most people I find offensive would already be missing teeth...so no worries.

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:32 PM
If only this meaning was accepted and not the adulterated meaning that is in practice in society.

I'm not afraid of them, I just don't approve of the lifestyle. I'll talk with them, etc. I can be friends with them. However, I'm pissed at society's "if you don't grab ass, then you're a homophobe" corollary.
It must be where you live, because any kind of statute like that here would be grounds for a rumble.

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 11:33 PM
All-male school.

I blame deprivation of the opposite gender.

Wraithlord
2004-10-05, 11:33 PM
In my school the lines between straight and gay people are blurred...beyond imitating being gay as a joke, I've witnessed people pantsing each other, flashing in the locker rooms, etc. It's not fucking right.



same thing at the highschool I went to, its just fucking sickening, except it was normal public school, certain clicks were like this...it was pretty gross, too bad the GIRLS never did anything like that

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:36 PM
All-male school.

I blame deprivation of the opposite gender.
I have never understood the need for social castration. I do believe that is a decent example of why it isn't such a healthy thing.

AztecWarrior
2004-10-05, 11:38 PM
Well...cancel that. There are parties, meetings with our sister schools, etc. and people regularily have girlfriends- and it's the same people who are "studs" that perform such behavior.

So I guess there really isn't a connection.

Jaged
2004-10-05, 11:39 PM
All-male school.

I blame deprivation of the opposite gender.
Why the hell would you go to a all male school? That would suck.

_-Gunslinger-_
2004-10-05, 11:47 PM
Grabing another mans ass has nothing to do with sexuality. Anyone who thinks that it does is just being stupid. Its just another form of fooling around. There is absolutly nothing wrong with homosexuality. Not talking to someone because of thier beliefs is a very closed minded thing to do. Try informing them of that.

While im not gay that 16bit mario avatar you have turns me on...

Baneblade
2004-10-05, 11:53 PM
Well behavior that is now commonly assumed to be gay, is usually a dominance thing. The Alpha male demeans the other males.

Thankfully humans are far enough beyond this that we can beat up the idiot who thinks demeaning a Scorpius is a good idea.

SDM
2004-10-06, 12:37 AM
A couple of my friends just got into an argument and now refuse to speak to each other. I don't think i can mend it but I would like to get your oppinions on whe is right and who is wrong, if it can be defined that simply. Person A is my best friend who I have known since 1st grade. Person B is a hippy libral douche vegitarian. Anyway A is a homophobe. B hates homophobes. Ever since A told B that he is a homophobe B has refused to talk to A. They were great friends before this happened.

Discuss.
You need to buy some better friends. Spend a little extra, and get some that aren't totally fucking retarded.

Everay
2004-10-06, 12:45 AM
Most people I find offensive would already be missing teeth...so no worries.


cant punch people through monitors yet :(

EineBeBoP
2004-10-06, 12:49 AM
On a random note, I need to shave.


...

Everay
2004-10-06, 12:56 AM
on a non random not, i shaved yesterday

Dharkbayne
2004-10-06, 01:00 AM
On a more random note, my balogna has a first name.








PSST, it's O-S-C-A-R

Everay
2004-10-06, 01:14 AM
Why not F-O-X-T-R-O-T?

Jaged
2004-10-06, 01:15 AM
vagina

Dharkbayne
2004-10-06, 01:32 AM
Why not F-O-X-T-R-O-T?


:doh:

Everay
2004-10-06, 01:46 AM
:doh:


bologna

oddfish
2004-10-06, 01:51 AM
i say, you buy a double ended dildo and force them to use it on each other.

Phaden
2004-10-06, 03:07 AM
Well there is that solution.

But grabbing someone's ass or just messing around faking gay isnt really that wrong, its basically just to get a rise (not penis) out of someone, or just have a good time. I would reserve the word/term homophobe for someone who has an unbased and deep rooted fear in a homosexual. And someone pointed out that sometimes, they are either not straight, or in fact gay themselve's.

Bighoss
2004-10-06, 07:23 AM
I love how I got a detention for being "intolerant" when I told the leader of the GSA at my school when I had to work overtime in photography that "his need to tell me about his gayness vastly outweighed my need to hear about it" which is "SHUT THE FUCK UP I DON'T CARE" in a more polite manner. This kid would talk about nothing but being GAY.

ViperGTS
2004-10-06, 07:35 AM
Grrrrrr....
Hompphobics have no right to live....
=\

Hezzy
2004-10-06, 08:13 AM
They're acting like 12 year olds. Slap them both upside the head and tell them to grow the hell up.

martyr
2004-10-06, 08:42 AM
They're acting like 12 year olds. Slap them both upside the head and tell them to grow the hell up.

yes.

edit. homophobia is a fear of homosexuals, not the refusal to accept them as peers/equals

Infernus
2004-10-06, 02:45 PM
Homophobephobia? The fear of Homophobes?

Everay
2004-10-06, 02:47 PM
yes inf, be afraid, be very afraid!!!11oneone1!shift+1!