My Girlfriend's Nazi Parents

[Jaged]

Me and my gf's relationship has been going very well. Unfortunatly her parents dont want her dating. We are both 16. They think she is too young. First of all I just want you people to know that we don't plan on having sex. I don't know if that is what they are worried about but whetever it is its bs. Her parents have been stadily tightning the rope on their daughter. At first I could go over to their house and we could hang out, no biggie. Then they caught us hugging. We wernt even makining out right then (thank god) but they still got pretty pissed. Today at school she told me that they wernt letting her go see a movie with her friend (We were planning for me to meet her and her friend their and leave before her parents picked her up.) Now she just came on AIM a few min ago obviously distressed. She said she had some really bad news to tell me and that her parents were really getting strict. I don't know how bad it is yet. She said she wanted to tell me at marching band practice in a few hours. Until then sitting here worried. I know she dosen't want to break up with me because she said that was not it. We are determined to stick together no matter what her parents do. I just need to know whats the best way to deal with her parents?

[Peacemaker]

Best bet is to acctualy sit it down and talk to them. Ask them if they really do feel that hugging is so bad. You have to make it clear to them that your not a walking penis filled with hormones. And if that doesnt work..... well then... its one of those secret relationships untill your caught and then you fight to the death..... anyways.... that fucking blows.

Good luck.

[cyberkiller]

talk to the parents?? are you mad?? they will pull a knife on him! ;)

[Lonehunter]

You need to get your self a nice Rifle. Assassination is always a quick and easy answer, as long as you don't screw up.

[Jaged]

Thats not a bad idea peace. I may do that. Does anyone else have any productive ideas like his. Please help guys this is killing me. Ill post what the specific bad news was when i get back from band practice at about 9:30 PST.

[Triggar]

What would happen if you explained the situation to your parents, and asked them to talk to her parents for you?

Or else I recommend doing something like showing up at her house when she isn't there just to talk to her parents, as an adult, and explain to them why you're someone who's okay to date their daughter.

[TheN00b]

Best bet is to acctualy sit it down and talk to them. Ask them if they really do feel that hugging is so bad. You have to make it clear to them that your not a walking penis filled with hormones. And if that doesnt work..... well then... its one of those secret relationships untill your caught and then you fight to the death..... anyways.... that fucking blows.

Good luck.

:nod:

My new girlfriend's (thanks guys, by the way!) parents are also damn strict (they won't even allow single dating :( ). The way that's worked for me so far is being clear, direct, and not asking for too much (they'll just tighten their grip).

[Corrosion]

Wtf Jaged, you dont wanna DHITB?

[Squeeky]

It's now or never, dont bother going behind her parents back anymore. Sit down with her mom and dad if this girl means alot to you. Explain your intentions, and ease any concerns they have. This will work in most cases, and has worked for me :)

If this doesnt work, break it off. The relationship will only go downhill from there.

[Sputty]

Ummm...try to yell at them about the "superiority of the spoon" over their "idiotic and archaic" christian beliefs. Then try to smite them with said spoon

[EarlyDawn]

I concur with Peace and Squeek. Just talk to the parents.

If they don't loosen up, fuck 'em. It's not her fault, but its not yours either. Don't suffer for it.

[firecrackerNC]

Happens to me sometimes with my gfs. You got a few choices, A) Get a new GF, B)Tell the parents to fuck off its her life she can do what she wants, C) Talk civilised which mostly dont work, D) get your parents to talk to there parents and this turns out the most effective.

[Triggar]

Yeah, g'head and tell someone else's parents to "fuck off". That'll get you far. :rolleyes:

[eXoSloth]

I can only give you one piece of advice. Don't listen to Firecracker.

[DeepStrikeck]

lmao

and sputty I find that statement quite offensive as I myself am a Christain so please keep those flaming and immature statements to yourself. Thanks.

Jaged, I would go with the notion of talking to her folks about it. (it is most likely her father with the objections) and stay civilized and think before you speak. The worst thing you could do would be to shoot your mouth off.

[Spee]

and sputty I find that statement quite offensive as I myself am a Christain so please keep those flaming and immature statements to yourself. Thanks.




/me's blasphemy button starts blinking.

[TotalBiscuit]

Deepstrike, he's obviously referring to fundamentalist right-wing christianity, not insulting the 98% of sane and normal christian's..

Loosen up man. My Dad is the Arch Deacon of Sunderland for the Church of England and you don't see me taking offense everytime someone says something like that :P

TB.

[Jennyboo]

What would happen if you explained the situation to your parents, and asked them to talk to her parents for you?

Or else I recommend doing something like showing up at her house when she isn't there just to talk to her parents, as an adult, and explain to them why you're someone who's okay to date their daughter.


That might work .. your parent might be willing to talk to them at least :D Good call Triggar

[Sputty]

and sputty I find that statement quite offensive as I myself am a Christain so please keep those flaming and immature statements to yourself. Thanks.
you suck
Can you not even see quotes?
Can you not detect any sarcasm ever?

[Triggar]

you suck
Can you not even see quotes?
Can you not detect any sarcasm ever?

Anyone else who makes a blatant flame in this thread will be met with the PM Forum Warning Of Doom.

[EarlyDawn]

/me's blasphemy button starts blinking. :lol: :rofl:

[Jaged]

I just got back from band practice and the bad news wasn't as bad as I expected. It still sucks though. Aparently her dad was really pissed off to see us hugging. He even threatened to not let her go on the band london trip in december. (we are both signed up to go on that.... a week together in london, mmmmmmmmm:))

I mentioned the idea of me or my parents talking to her parents and she said she thoucht that that would be a very bad idea. They don't think she should be dating at all at this age. Aparently they are not about to budge. Holy shit this is really eating me up inside. Don't suggest I should dump her. That is not about to happen.

[JetRaiden]

I just got back from band practice and the bad news wasn't as bad as I expected. It still sucks though. Aparently her dad was really pissed off to see us hugging. He even threatened to not let her go on the band london trip in december. (we are both signed up to go on that.... a week together in london, mmmmmmmmm:))

I mentioned the idea of me or my parents talking to her parents and she said she thoucht that that would be a very bad idea. They don't think she should be dating at all at this age. Aparently they are not about to budge. Holy shit this is really eating me up inside. Don't suggest I should dump her. That is not about to happen.

Kill her parents. Make it look like an accident.

[Jaged]

I mean I don't want to have to lie to her parents. They just seem to be leaving us with no other choice. Not seeing her/breaking up with her is not an option.

[Baneblade]

She is 16? Did they make her wear diapers till she was 10 or something?

[eXoSloth]

She is 16? Did they make her wear diapers till she was 10 or something?
Yeah, I was thinking the same thing :confused:

[Lise]

...Today at school she told me that they wernt letting her go see a movie with her friend (We were planning for me to meet her and her friend their and leave before her parents picked her up)...

...He even threatened to not let her go on the band London trip in December...

...I mentioned the idea of me or my parents talking to her parents and she said she thoucht that that would be a very bad idea.

Nononono, get your parents involved and get them involved now. If what you describe is true, it isn't just you. Her parents are afraid to let go of her; they're being over-protective to the point that it is beginning to be irrational and threatens to work to the detriment of her life experiences. What parent would not want their child to experience London, especially in an educational sense like your band program is offering? No, this is something that needs handling now, before it gets really messy for everyone involved down the road. (My God, how are they going to handle her going off to college?)

Talk to your parents about the situation and get them to talk to her parents. Her parents are far more likely to listen to adults than some kid they percieve as trying to get into their daughter's pants. (And honestly, although cyberkiller was probably jesting, it may not be extremely wise to be in too close proximity of her dad until he's ready to accept you... so don't try talking to them yourself, without your parents present.)

Hope this helps, Jag.

[Fragmatic]

Deepstrike, he's obviously referring to fundamentalist right-wing christianity, not insulting the 98% of sane and normal christian's..

Loosen up man. My Dad is the Arch Deacon of Sunderland for the Church of England and you don't see me taking offense everytime someone says something like that :P

TB.

*backs away*

[Fragmatic]

I just got back from band practice and the bad news wasn't as bad as I expected. It still sucks though. Aparently her dad was really pissed off to see us hugging. He even threatened to not let her go on the band london trip in december. (we are both signed up to go on that.... a week together in london, mmmmmmmmm:))

I mentioned the idea of me or my parents talking to her parents and she said she thoucht that that would be a very bad idea. They don't think she should be dating at all at this age. Aparently they are not about to budge. Holy shit this is really eating me up inside. Don't suggest I should dump her. That is not about to happen.

You'll be in London in December?

*readies rape van*

[Everay]

kill them, then DHITB

[NightWalker XI]

Best bet is to acctualy sit it down and talk to them. Ask them if they really do feel that hugging is so bad. You have to make it clear to them that your not a walking penis filled with hormones. And if that doesnt work..... well then... its one of those secret relationships untill your caught and then you fight to the death..... anyways.... that fucking blows.

Good luck.


that is a good idea, even if your 16 its the right and mature thing to do, they sound like those strong religious type parents who will not let their daughters touch a man until like....ever...lol

anyway yeah, what Peace said...

[Sputty]

I still don't see how a parent can still think 16 is too young to start dating. what year is it?

[TotalBiscuit]

I still don't see how a parent can still think 16 is too young to start dating. what year is it?

This is America we're talking about here :P

TB.

[Hezzy]

16 isn't too young to start dating.

Hell, 16 is the legal age for sex in England.

[Sputty]

14 is the age of consent in Canada
Of course, it's not set in stone as the judge can use his judgement to decide if the person was prepared and knew what they were doing

[Jennyboo]

I started dating when I was 13 (not serious though), I think her parents need to realizes if she's old enough to make the decision to have sex, then she is old enough to hold a boys hand :D :rofl:. But then again there will always be problems .. My parents dident want me to Marry Hamma. But i sat down listen to there opinion. Then I told them " I do value your opinions, I do respect you but I love him and Im going to marry him" (mind you they still dident approve and tried to talk both of us out of it even on our wedding day) But at least they knew where I stood. :p You gotta think about it like that cept for the married part. It's really not your job to get thought to her parents. But if confronted speak your mind :)

[Triggar]

Nononono, get your parents involved and get them involved now. If what you describe is true, it isn't just you. Her parents are afraid to let go of her; they're being over-protective to the point that it is beginning to be irrational and threatens to work to the detriment of her life experiences. What parent would not want their child to experience London, especially in an educational sense like your band program is offering? No, this is something that needs handling now, before it gets really messy for everyone involved down the road. (My God, how are they going to handle her going off to college?)

Talk to your parents about the situation and get them to talk to her parents. Her parents are far more likely to listen to adults than some kid they percieve as trying to get into their daughter's pants. (And honestly, although cyberkiller was probably jesting, it may not be extremely wise to be in too close proximity of her dad until he's ready to accept you... so don't try talking to them yourself, without your parents present.)

Hope this helps, Jag.

:clap:

Listen to this one, for they are wise.

[TotalBiscuit]

14 is the age of consent in Canada
Of course, it's not set in stone as the judge can use his judgement to decide if the person was prepared and knew what they were doing

Get your goddamn liberal commie common-sense ideals away from me this instant!

TB.

[Jennyboo]

Get your goddamn liberal commie common-sense ideals away from me this instant!

TB.


Hey Im from Canada too

[Firefly]

14 is the age of consent in Canada
Of course, it's not set in stone as the judge can use his judgement to decide if the person was prepared and knew what they were doing
http://www.ageofconsent.com

Don't ask.

[Baneblade]

Yeah, you can get married to a 14 year old girl in North Carolina.

[starbum]

I'm just going to warn you, yes... getting your parents involved might be a good idea, but be prepared for the results. They might be still restrictive or have the lack of privacy for awhile. Even if they do agree to let her see you... there still has to be a time where things are eased in. Be careful and willingly let them have control for awhile. Allowing them to feel that they still have some control over their daughter is key... they will not just surrender her overnight. I guess the point I'm trying to make is to just give it some time... who knows, they might have had a bad experience with one of her siblings or with her before.

They have to trust you man. Show them that they can trust you and they will begin to, hopefully. Just be a gentleman!

[Mr1337Duck]

http://www.relics.org.uk/p099.jpg


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Some assembly required

[Hezzy]

I don't get it.

[Firefly]

I'm sure there's some humor in a sniper rifle and a Nazi flag, but it was lost on me. For the record, Nazi flags don't exactly make humorous subjects for ****.

Just a word of advice.

[Triggar]

For the record, Nazi flags don't exactly make humorous subjects for ****.

Or any other self-respecting human being on Earth.

[TotalBiscuit]

Hey Im from Canada too

2 of you?! Why you cotton-pickin varments. I'm gonna round me up a possie and we'll sort you damn russian bastards out!

TB.

[Infernus]

All of the girl friend threads make me sad :(

WE NEED A RELATIONSHIP!

[Mr1337Duck]

I was saying assassinate Nazi parents. The flag was a reference to how you described them in the title of this post. It wasn't meant to be insulting to **** or anything, I was simply making a reference to the title.

[Firefly]

It wasn't meant to be insulting to **** or anything, I was simply making a reference to the title.
Right, and I wasn't inferring that **** would be insulted. I was simply making a reference to the unfunnAy that people of my religion might have.

[starbum]

<3 Infernus

[Rbstr]

All of the girl friend threads make me sad :(

WE NEED A RELATIONSHIP!
yeah i need to jump on the bandwagon. bbl w/ new girlfriend pics...

[JetRaiden]

Every girlfriend I've ever had to introduce to my parents always do a great job. Some of them were pretty bad, yet played the whole "I'm so cute and innocent" thing very well.

My parents think they're so clever, but in reality they're as blind/clueless as seamonkeys. :rolleyes:

[firecrackerNC]

Same here. I could date the $5 dollar whore who works my street corner and they wouldnt give it a second thought. Lucky for them I dont go near those girls who have....well bad records. I go for the nice hot girls who are fun and hot at the same time. As few of them they are they still rock.

[JetRaiden]

I go for the nice hot girls who are fun and hot at the same time.

:doh: you sure are a picky guy.

[firecrackerNC]

I am actually, theres lots of nice not so hot girls and lots of mean hot girls but rarely any that have BOTH traits. Least at my school, theres a top of like 35 out of like 400 and a few Ive found out arent so nice and innocent in the first place. When you find out they did 5 guys in one night or had a gangbang in the shower at a party you tend to not want to date them......EVER.

[JetRaiden]

I am actually, theres lots of nice not so hot girls and lots of mean hot girls but rarely any that have BOTH traits. Least at my school, theres a top of like 35 out of like 400 and a few Ive found out arent so nice and innocent in the first place. When you find out they did 5 guys in one night or had a gangbang in the shower at a party you tend to not want to date them......EVER.

alright?

[Lise]

I'm a bit worried that we haven't head back from Jaged yet...

Jag? What's the scoop, bud?

[Baneblade]

He's dead Jim.

[Sputty]

I'm sure there's some humor in a sniper rifle and a Nazi flag, but it was lost on me. For the record, Nazi flags don't exactly make humorous subjects for ****.

Just a word of advice.
Maybe he's telling him to kill nazis? I don't know either.

[AztecWarrior]

He's dead Jim.
QFT

This has nothing to do with anything.

[AztecWarrior]

Back on topic, look at it from the parent's point of view. Perhaps they went through a nightmare circumstance involving a boyfriend or maybe think she's just too young. I would talk it over with them at least. Don't call them Nazis nationalistic germans,

(Certain German Political Party Name has been bowdlerized to protect any possible **** or other victims of the Holocaust)

they're just trying to protect her.

[Kyonye]

for parents to be that over-protective, is definately not a good thing. don't go to them alone, bring along your parents...i mean i'm very over-protective of my sisters (who are both older then me, i'm the youngest), but i give them there space....i don't not let them go on dates, i just tell them they would and up a cripple for life if they ever fucked with my sisters...if anything, my kind of over-protectiveness is better...but yeah if you feel that strongly about her, get your parents involved. they would definately be a strong asset.