hawt stuff...

[Electrofreak]

Alright. Normally I'm not one to post on here about my private life issues and such, much less start a thread about it, but since this forum's been rather dead recently I figure I might as well throw up a little situation I've been forced into.

Anyhow, I've been IM friends with my ex-girlfriend Trisha for quite a while now. She's been stationed at Offut Air Force Base in Nebraska for a while now. She's quite an attractive little lady, and I was a little bit dissapointed to hear a month or so back that she got engaged to a guy who lived on base with her.

Through our IM exchanges, she seemed happy about the engagement, happy with her fiancee, and invited me to the wedding which was scheduled for September. She also seemed to be becoming more and more sick of military life however, and kept telling me that she wanted out of the Air Force, it just wasn't working for her anymore.

So a couple weeks ago, when she told me that she'd been discharged from the Air Force for minor misconduct, I wasn't terribly surprised. When I asked how she was going to live with her fiancee, she told me she wasn't sure... and she wasn't sure if the wedding was going to even happen anymore. She did let me know she was coming back to town this week and told me to give her a call, maybe we could hang out and catch up on things.

Then, on July 4th afternoon, she IMs me saying that her fiancee has just dumped her. She tells me that I HAVE to call her (makes me promise) later that night, after I get back from going to War of the Worlds with my family and she gets back from the fireworks show.

So, I give her a call later that night, and she's TOTALLY trashed, and tells me she'll call me back in a few minutes, never does.

So the next day, she calls back, and tells me that my old buddy Brad from the Army (he's also a friend of hers as well) is back from his 2 years of being stationed in Korea! So, I meet up with Brad and Trish, we go out and eat at Hooters, head back to her place, and watch Eurotrip, and then each head back to our homes.

Basically what it comes down to is, after seeing Trish, I REALLY want to get back into a relationship with her. I dated her like 4 years ago in high school, she was a cheerleader back then and ended up dumping me after 2 months for a jock. So yeah... she's not exactly the most reliable girlfriend.

ALSO, she seems pretty tore up about her breakup with her fiancee. So I don't want to move in on her too quick... but at the same time, I know about a half dozen other guys who probably still have the hots for her and will try to snag her as soon as possible.

So, I figure I'll just try to hang out with her a lot, subtly let her know that I'm interested in her, and leave it at that until she lets on that she's ready for a relationship I guess. I'm just worried that some other dude is gonna try to snatch her up I guess...

Anyhow, pix. I know that at least half of you could care less what I type here and just wanna see what this girl looks like, so here:

http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b321/Electr0freak/tricia4.jpg

http://i22.photobucket.com/albums/b321/Electr0freak/tricia5.jpg

So, that's about it for Electro's little "OMG HAWT GIRL I WANT" thread... leave your "advice" (prolly DHITB) and move along... :p

[xmodum]

DHITB and get on with it.

Naw just kidding. I wish the best of luck to you so you can snatch her up :P

Good Luck Bro.

[Giovanni]

Don't try to get back with her! Just don't!

I dated a girl for a short while about ohh... 5 weeks ago, she dumped for some gino, jock call it whatever you want and 3 weeks later she comes back and tells me she has been dumped she should have never dumped me, blah blah blah. So all in all I was happy cause she's well... very hot. To make a long story short she fucked around with my feelings made me feel like shit but meh... I got over it pretty quickly.

In other words: If she did it back in the day, she'll do it again. Women like this don't tend to change their ways, they love getting love from alot of people and tend to change each time they think they see something better.

So that's that... take it or leave it but I'm telling you to stay the fuck away. Be friends but don't date.

[LimpBIT]

She likes milanos. Shes a keeper

[Electrofreak]

I know! AND I LIKE MILANOS TOO! We have so much in common! :p

And Gio, I get what you're saying, but that was also 4+ years ago when she was a lot less mature about dating. She was with her fiancee 10 months before HE dumped HER, and she was all ready to get married and everything.

In any case, I think she's matured enough. I'm gonna give her some time to get over her recent breakup, but at the same time try not to let some other guy try to snag her...

Worst case scenario, even if she doesn't end up dating me, she's still a damn fun person to hang out with. :)

[Jaged]

shes ugly

[Mag-Mower]

shes ugly


uncalled for? and any reason why she was discharged? anyways, Good Luck and all...

[Electrofreak]

minor misconduct. basically, she showed up at her post late, didn't follow orders in a timely fashion, etc.

She more or less made it pretty clear she wanted out.

[LimpBIT]

shes ugly

that was pretty uncalled for dude.

[Electrofreak]

meh, Jaged's prolly just jokin around. Besides, with that black shirt she's wearing you can't see her nice rack :)

[Jaged]

meh, Jaged's prolly just jokin around. Besides, with that black shirt she's wearing you can't see her nice rack :)
Lol yes i was joking around. Glad someone understood.

[Baneblade]

Very not bad.

[Mag-Mower]

seriosuly though, how are we supposed to comprehend if its a joke, sarcasm, or anything of that sort... we need some kind of sarcasm tag arround here...

[LimpBIT]

seriosuly though, how are we supposed to comprehend if its a joke, sarcasm, or anything of that sort... we need some kind of sarcasm tag arround here...

exactly

[Kyonye]

seriosuly though, how are we supposed to comprehend if its a joke, sarcasm, or anything of that sort... we need some kind of sarcasm tag arround here...


truth....it's a forum where you type in words...you can't show expression..I think most people know I went off on some people who posted some stuff up that sounded pretty serious, but then they go ahead and say they were joking? how am i, or anyone else, to know that? we gotta make a sarcasm tag...:)

[Baneblade]

truth....it's a forum where you type in words...you can't show expression..I think most people know I went off on some people who posted some stuff up that sounded pretty serious, but then they go ahead and say they were joking? how am i, or anyone else, to know that? we gotta make a sarcasm tag...:)

You fucking psycho.

No really, I meant it.





:lol:

[Infernus]

To take a page from electro's book.

All sarcasm is easily denoted by " :p "

[BUGGER]

Yeah you cannot really jump in there and say ok well since he's gone ya wanna go out, but i would jump in and say i still care for you. Have her know you were and are still there for her over these past 4 years.

Thats my 2 cents....now i'm poor....

[Giovanni]

Yeah you cannot really jump in there and say ok well since he's gone ya wanna go out, but i would jump in and say i still care for you. Have her know you were and are still there for her over these past 4 years.

Thats my 2 cents....now i'm poor....

And that sir is why you'll be alone for the rest of your worthless life...

Take it from me... I had to learn the hard way, if you play the nice easy-going "I'll always be there for you" kind of guy... you're gonna get screwed over big time because for some odd fucking reason women have a black box in their head that makes them step on you like you were a dirt road. Each time they ear those kind of words... BAM you get fucked up the ass with the nine foot dildo that's called love.

Now I'm not saying act like a total asshole... but don't act all lovy dovy and cutsy with ANY woman. Once your in a stable relationship sure! Once they are good good friends sure! But never right off the bat! Trust me.

Alright, now that that's said. I have to say... do what you wish Electro but I wouldn't be suprised if she does the same thing again one day. She's afraid of commitement and it shows just by the way you described how she acted about wanting to leave the air force.

Not sure if it makes sense... haven't slept for a two days but I'm still posting it.

[Infernus]

Ignore Gio, he's been on the mega-depressed-roids as of late.


I say go for it.

[LimpBIT]

i too say go for it. Dont be a prick! XD just kidding, but yeah man, if you feel that strong go for it

[Giovanni]

Ignore Gio, he's been on the mega-depressed-roids as of late.


I say go for it.

We haven't talked in a bit Inf... I passed that depressed part, I just realised alot of shit in the past few days and seems most of it has worked since I ended up making out with that girl Val at the bar... I think I told you about her... not sure... cute little hot blonde with a dirty assistant look (the thick black frame glasses and the tight clothes), 95 pounds, 5 feet or so, hot body and a good personality. High sex drive thought... but I guess I can deal with that :p!

But no relationships for me, too much crap and I need to love myself alot more before I can love someone else...

I'm not saying he should'nt try (wait... yea I am) I'm just giving him both sides of the medal.

[Electrofreak]

Well, I'm takin her out to lunch and showin her around the college campus today. I talked to her for quite a while on the phone last night and shes really torn up emotionally, so I don't think I'm going to make any obvious moves on her just yet. Just be a friend and let her know that I'm there for her if she needs to vent about her breakup and stuff. I mean, after I broke up with Teresa, she tolerated a lot of my venting and crap, its only fair I do the same for her.

HOWEVER, I've now got another thing to worry about. A girl I dated a LONG time ago (like, she was one of my first GFs) IMed me last night, really horny, and more or less asked me if we could be friends with benefits. I sorta agreed (how can you turn down a girl asking for sex?!) but at the same time I'd much rather a relationship with Trish eventually.

So yeah. I suppose I can just sorta fool around with horny girl until things get more serious with Trish... I guess. Damn, women are such a pain.

[Infernus]

It starts out as sex. Then they want to "spend time with you". The next thing you know you're a bag carrier while they're shopping. Trust me, I've done it to people before.

[internetn]

Gio, not all of us look for girls in bars, therefor we havent the probs that you have... :drama:

Electro: Be her friend first, a shoulder to lean on. But don't let that become your.. err.. role in her life. Comfort her but at the same time let her notice your feelings for her.

Laugh and smile alot and show her that you care and she means something to you..

But that other girl, have fun untill you get bogged down :cool:

[Giovanni]

Actually... most of the girls where everything went wrong I knew way before the bars.

I'm just saying he might not like where it ends up... but you are right while your waiting you might as well have some fun! :D I'm doing the same thing right now!

[ChronoSphere]

This will be your downfall. Stay away from this chick.

You do not want to be in a relationship with her after her coming down from a botched engagement.

[Mag-Mower]

This will be your downfall. Stay away from this chick.

You do not want to be in a relationship with her after her coming down from a botched engagement.
i dont know why you say this, but i trust it because your chrono, a very wise person... really, no sracasm

[Giovanni]

Yep, let her take her time or else you're going to be the rebound guy. (And that's on top of what I said before about women not changing usually)

Oh and mag... what's with the Sig? I know the liberals here suck ass (in Quebec) but...

[Mag-Mower]

yeah... i dont support the bloc, im liberal, but i just think ducepe looks like a vampire, plus im NC in PS, and they are sepratists...

[Electrofreak]

Well, as I said, I'm not going to hop into a relationship with Trisha any time soon. It'll probably be a few months before I consider that.

But now I'm starting to get worried about the horny girl (the other one who wants sex, not Trisha). She's sending me emails wanting to hang out, and asking me what I want to do Wednesday before we meet, etc. I mean, what happened to the "Wham Bam Thank You Ma'am" she was talkin about a few days ago?! I don't want to hang out with this chick! She wants benefits I'll give her benefits. But hang out at the mall and stuff? No way! I think this girl has the wrong idea...

I pretty much told her the other day "I'm not interested in a relationship, but sure, sex is fine". She seemed cool with that. Now its like she wants to go out on dates and junk. WTF. :rolleyes:

[Baneblade]

Bet she is pregnant and cant find the dad.

See you on Springer :p

[spoonkiny]

OMFG thats for tards fat ppl prostitutes rednecks and 13 year old pregnent ppl.

[Darksim]

That'd be funny if she was a PREGGO.
(btw conservatives > other canadian parties.)

[Infernus]

Yeah it'd be frigging hilarious. :rolleyes:

[EarlyDawn]

This will be your downfall. Stay away from this chick.

You do not want to be in a relationship with her after her coming down from a botched engagement.I've never heard of any specific cases like this, Electro, but this makes sense to me.

[Mag-Mower]

That'd be funny if she was a PREGGO.
(btw bloc> Green> Rhino> other canadian parties.)


fixed :D

[Darksim]

rhino, lol.

I feel bad for cadman, hes all alone and is stuck RIGHT BETWEEN the block and liberals.

Talk about hearing aids.

[Mag-Mower]

cadman died... :(

[Wraithlord]

dhitb...twice

[Electrofreak]

I'm workin on it.

Ended up scorin with the horny other chick, now it seems I can't get rid of her. Goddamnit.

[EarlyDawn]

You poor man :p

[Giovanni]

I'm workin on it.

Ended up scorin with the horny other chick, now it seems I can't get rid of her. Goddamnit.

Next time she hugs you in public shake and scream "GET IT OFF GET IF OFF!!!" always seems to work for me... otherwise just be honest and tell her you don't want her around anymore.

[LimpBIT]

HAHAHAHA omg Gio. Im still cracking up from that