So i got myself a couple of girl problems....

[BUGGER]

Background check: I went out with this girl a year ago for about 6 months, we broke up because we're young and cant drive and 20 miles + a mountain is pretty far. We had literally a year break and two months ago we got back together. In this time she's gone out with 5 guys, one guy for 6 months, had her fun with 4 of them (that one guy is in the middle of the 5...sucks for him). Since we've gone out, she's done weed and started drinking a lot. I for one vowed to never smoke ever again and never to drink during the football season.....ehem...

Now before we started going out again, we had a big arguement which almost killed our 'friendship' (onoes) one that I could blame her for. She was sorry, basically we got together again. This time we both drive and we have very active social lives. I have a sport in which im a starter and work. She has a babysitting job and.....friends (we dont have friends in football).

Now heres what bugs me:

Last month I took her to dinner on a cruise for her birthday (I got it free). We come home, i sleep because I have football the next day, she goes out and gets crunked with her friends for the first time since we've gone out, one of them the 4 that i mentioned above. Ummm ok, i have trust, its your bday, be happy.

We go to disneyland the week after (i'm so rich), enjoy a whole weekend together with the exception of mother and brother. Everything seems fine. We get home, shortly thereafter she has a brveakdown close to what she had before we went out. Being the caring boyfriend, I ask. She says no and starts ignoring me. She later tells me that she rather tell her stoner girl friend, Jessica, about her problems because she understands. Ummm, well I'd still like to know so I wouldn't intrude on uneven ground. "No I wouldn't understand". Fine, I guess I trust your judgement.

Now her 6 month ex, Kenny, gets kicked out of bootcamp because he was stalking my g/f on his cellphone. Why was he kicked? Because his instructor beat the shit out of him.....matter of speaking, the instructor went to jail. Anyways she hates the ex because he's an attention whore, always bitching about dieing and hating life. I agree with him, go die. Well a week ago Jessica wants to go to Kenny's house and she wants my g/f to go with. Later my g/f finds out that Jessica has a thing for Kenny and needs backup. Well they go to a conncert downtown and my g/f becomes backup.

And kisses him.

Ok, when you reach the 3rd "ummmm", that means theres a problem.

She appologised, nearly crying, I said whatever, that third ummmm was a foul ball.. Now we're traveling with no steam. Now today we were watching tv and she left the room for a bit, she got a text message from Kenny saying "ok, call me later when he leaves, I don't want to interferre."

no ummmm this time, this time i'll lay low.

Now i'm questioning everything else. What does she do when she goes out, when she says she's going to bed who does she talk to next, who has she kissed other than me. This is allll flying by my head and I have no clue whether I should do something or let her play her game. In little more than a week I have football camp where I wont be able to see her for 5 days. If Kenny becomes any more of a problem, I don't think I can just sit this incident away with ease.

What should I do if anything......or am I just over reacting considering I just wrote a 7 paragraph essay that half of it I don't even understand.


:shrug:

[Hamma]

Introduce her to the curb imo.

There's plenty of other fish in the sea.. I have never been a fan of women/girls who have like 30 guy friends.

[Lonehunter]

You gotta ask her how the future is gonna be, she gonna keep actin like that around other guys? Do you want to be around for that? Can you kick Kenny's ass?

[Mag-Mower]

Wow, that sucks. I agree with Lone here, ask your self those questions. Also, check her priorities versus yours. I.e. She just wants to get some job, banging various guys, never making any thing of her life, but you, say, want to become a professional football player, and make a name for your self. You have to choose if you want to be with some ambitionless person, or not. If you dont feel like the above, you could always just "spy" on her, and see what she really is doing. Hell, if I lived near you, I would help :p.

[Giovanni]

Just dump the bitch.

"Ex, meet curb. Curb, meet ex." Next time she comes over.

[321]

Get a real hobby, like Quake and possibly World of Warcraft.

[OneManArmy]

listen you need to drop that bitch like a bad habit. Trust me, that much drama is not worth it. go find another one.

[Infernus]

No dumb bitch is worth that much trouble. period.


And yes, she is a dumb bitch, as simple proof that she is... reread your entire post.

[Rbstr]

The gay man speaks truth!

[Mag-Mower]

The gay man speaks truth!

:rofl:

[Giovanni]

Also never EVER use the word "crunked" again for the rest of your life.

[I Hate Pants]

This is a problem? No! It's obvious what you gotta do. Ask her whats the deal with this Kenny guy and dump her if she's sketchy about it.

She sounds like she owns you. Show her your a man and go find another girl. I can't believe you havn't asked her straight up yet about this dude, and if she's not willing to listen to you, than she's not worth it. Don't worry, your not being the jealous boyfirend by asking her. But if a dude sends a message to my girl asking if im still there with her than obviously somethings going on. She probably thinks she can get away with this stuff behind your back because you haven't bothered to put your foot down yet.

Don't chase after this girl. Infact a real DJ never chases after girls. He lets the girls chase after him.

[Hamma]

DJ?

Dumb Jackass?
Dust Jacket
Don Juan
Dear John
District Judge
Dinner Jacket
Kim Dae Jung
Drill ***
DeskJet
Digital Jukebox
David Jone
Derek Jeter
Dale Jarrett
Dirt Jumping
Dennis Johnson
Dark Jedi
Davey Jones
Digital Journalist
Deterministic Jitter
Digital Jockey
Dead Journal
Desk Jockey
Deceptive Jamming

!??!?!?!

[I Hate Pants]

A Don Juan fool!!!

[OneManArmy]

Also never EVER use the word "DJ" again for the rest of your life.

;)

[Infernus]

;)

:nod:


I don't really see where the debate is.

You don't ask her about the guy. You shouldn't and don't have to. You kick her to the curb because in the end shes a dumb bitch, and she acts like a dumb bitch, so she deserves to be treated like a dumb bitch.

[TX3RN0BILL]

Man, from my latino perspective, I'd say she's put the horns on you...

:hass:

Screwing around with other guys, that's just plain and simple treason. Be it a kiss, be it the whole motherload, treason is treason. And unless you feel ok to be betrayed, I'd say dump the P|_|TA!!!

[Hamma]

A Don Juan fool!!!

Ah ok it makes sense now.

Agreed - kick her to the curb. There's plenty of other goods out there to get a piece of..

[BUGGER]

Can you kick Kenny's ass? omigod yes. me=lineman, him=18 year old who broke his arm running into a wall on a scooter.:rolleyes:

Get a real hobby, like Quake and possibly World of Warcraft. WoW=more drama



She sounds like she owns you. Show her your a man and go find another girl. I can't believe you havn't asked her straight up yet about this dude, and if she's not willing to listen to you, than she's not worth it. Don't worry, your not being the jealous boyfirend by asking her. But if a dude sends a message to my girl asking if im still there with her than obviously somethings going on. She probably thinks she can get away with this stuff behind your back because you haven't bothered to put your foot down yet. Very true. When they went out they were like bread and butter. The only reason they broke up was because he was becoming a bit more of an attention whore and her mom saw it. Currently right now he has a nose cold and is bitching about having to go to the hospital to get checked for some disease....*cough*bullshit. Sadly they all believe it. But yes, I haven't took the wheel yet, I will stand my ground.

Wow, that sucks. I agree with Lone here, ask your self those questions. Also, check her priorities versus yours. I.e. She just wants to get some job, banging various guys, never making any thing of her life, but you, say, want to become a professional football player, and make a name for your self. You have to choose if you want to be with some ambitionless person, or not. If you dont feel like the above, you could always just "spy" on her, and see what she really is doing. Hell, if I lived near you, I would help :p.
Hmmm pro football.....49ers today woo!

I'm going to wait until I get back from football and before school starts the next week. Probably not the best choice, but I will know by then what she wants. Atleast she is honest to a point and does tell me what she has been doing. She told me about the kiss the day after, i got mad, but it would have been worse and I would have dumped her if found out unintentionaly later on.

Only if she was the girl i knew a year ago. Thanks kenny, I wish you stayed in the military instead of babying it out.


Thanks guys, i really needed that help.:)


Also never EVER use the word "crunked" again for the rest of your life. Ah lil john eh LETS GO! ehh YEEAH!pimp:



/edit/ ugg, to make it all better, my xbox360 is literally broken, so broken 3 red lights are flashing at me saying "I'm fucking broken." Now i'm abandoned with no one. :rolleyes:

[OneManArmy]

heh, women and wow. the drama of life.

[Mag-Mower]

I did not mean Pro Football literally, what I meant is be sure that she aspires to something simmilar as you (IE Go to college.), not just being a whore,

[Firefly]

Frankly, I don't know what you're crying about. This wound you're whining about is self-inflicted, like some emo cutting freak. You know what a man should do. Yet you've failed to pull your testicles out of your pelvic cavity. Dude, you're a fucking chump for keeping her this long. You deserve to be with her. She owns you. Property. I say keep her, because you're clearly not man enough to BE a man and stand up for yourself. Bitches like that only keep lesser bitches.

Here's an emo CD. Have fun. When your balls drop, you'll let her know precisely the sort of bullshit that she's put you through, and give Kenny and her your best wishes and then go get a real woman.

[Giovanni]

Frankly, I don't know what you're crying about. This wound you're whining about is self-inflicted, like some emo cutting freak. You know what a man should do. Yet you've failed to pull your testicles out of your pelvic cavity. Dude, you're a fucking chump for keeping her this long. You deserve to be with her. She owns you. Property. I say keep her, because you're clearly not man enough to BE a man and stand up for yourself. Bitches like that only keep lesser bitches.

Here's an emo CD. Have fun. When your balls drop, you'll let her know precisely the sort of bullshit that she's put you through, and give Kenny and her your best wishes and then go get a real woman.

I'm sorry BUGGER but.... I'm going to have to side with Firefly.

Also, to whoever said he should try to discover the reasons she's doing this and that? Why the fuck should he?

Honestly it's not worth sitting throught that much crap for a bitch. I'm sorry, she might be a nice girl, but it's not worth it. There's plenty of girls out there he shouldn't bother getting depressed over bullshit like that. Hell... I'm pretty fucking passive in my relationships... but I would of dumped the crazy fuck pretty quick.

[Derfud]

Dump her by saying you like porn better.

[BUGGER]

Frankly, I don't know what you're crying about. This wound you're whining about is self-inflicted, like some emo cutting freak. You know what a man should do. Yet you've failed to pull your testicles out of your pelvic cavity. Dude, you're a fucking chump for keeping her this long. You deserve to be with her. She owns you. Property. I say keep her, because you're clearly not man enough to BE a man and stand up for yourself. Bitches like that only keep lesser bitches.

Here's an emo CD. Have fun. When your balls drop, you'll let her know precisely the sort of bullshit that she's put you through, and give Kenny and her your best wishes and then go get a real woman.

Can't say your wrong, can't say your right. I knew what I was getting into the first time when she got me mad, I did nothing about it. The balls dropping tho....that burns.:doh:


Got email: "Remember, Your son will be with us from 8 am Monday until noon on Saturday and may not leave campus unless he receives permission directly from Coach Cattolico."

Yeah scratch the after I get back.

[LimpBIT]

Personally, and im not kidding about this, I would introduce him to my 45 kimber tactical II pistol. That is of course if I couldnt kick his ass. Set her straight, kick his ass, and see what happens. Besides that, not many ideas comin from me.

[kurushio95]

firefly is like unto a god...but yeah, it's been said several times to dump the cunt , so i'll try not to say it again

[Giovanni]

Personally, and im not kidding about this, I would introduce him to my 45 kimber tactical II pistol. That is of course if I couldnt kick his ass. Set her straight, kick his ass, and see what happens. Besides that, not many ideas comin from me.

Are you thick? Are you really that much of an idiot. You would shoot someone for such a fucking cunt? Your basicly saying that you would spend the rest of your life in prison for some idiot that isn't worth it and for a bitch that isn't worth anything either.

Same with beating him up, what's the point? You seriously wanna fuck yourself over with assault charges? Geez, go out and get laid a couple of time atleast before giving your opinions to someone. When you have no idea what your talking about you should just shut up and know your place.

No woman is worth killing over. NONE! Hell most of them aren't even worth a fight. Especially when she treats you that way.

[Infernus]

Personally, and im not kidding about this, I would introduce HER to my 45 kimber tactical II pistol. That is of course if I couldnt kick HER ass. Set her straight, kick his ass, and see what happens. Besides that, not many ideas comin from me.

Right on.

[LimpBIT]

joke my friend. I wouldnt shoot someone over a chick. I would beat someone up over her, but it would depend on what he did. If she cheated on me with him, I wouldnt beat him up, I would take it out on her(not hit her). But if he like....beat her up or something, in that case I would whoop his ass. But I have a concealed weapons license now so theroetically if he tried to fight me I could legally threaten him with a gun. Actually shooting him is a bit different :\

[Giovanni]

Still stupid. You dump the bitch and you live your life. No need to waste time on idiots.

[Squeeky]

I didn't bother reading the thread. But it doesn't matter.

Put it in her butt kid, never fails.

[Rbstr]

DHITB!

[internetn]

I might have to agree with the enlightened Squeeky here..

Simply tell her shes had her chances and fucked them up.

And never talk to her again.