[Life] Got myself in some deep shit

JetRaiden · 2004-09-20, 10:06 PM

Ok guys, heres another problem I have.

My best friend spencer has been talking to this girl he met in michigan at a conference all summer, they are supah close, and at one point she was on the verge of telling him she loves him... A few weeks into this I got myself involved, by talking the her (Kelsey) alot. We also became very close and now talk all the time like we've known eachother forever.

Spencer and Kelsey were almost meant to be. They're just perfect for eachother. The problem is they live so far apart, that they can hardly see eachother. The soonest he *might* be able to see her is like Thanksgiving.

Now the real problem. About a week ago Spencer said he had to tell me something thats uber secret, and if I told anyone he'd never talk to me again (well, probably not, but it made it more puzzling). I knew it had to be something big. I said "alright alright what is it??" He said he met some girl from Cranston at a dance. Named Megan. he got her number and now theyre going out. He said he would kill me if I told Kelsey about it because he doesnt want to hurt her.

Its been really, really hard because Ive had to cover for Spencer twice now. Kelsey would IM me saying "Do you know what Spencer is doing? Hes not picking up his phone." And Id have to say "Uhhh...I dunno" when in reality he's over Megans house going up her shirt.

Spencer told me she is supah dupah hot, but I didnt really believe it, because sometimes he has wierd tastes in girls. She was coming over the same day I was over his house, so he arranged to have her come over while I was leaving, so I could meet her. He was getting out of the shower while she came over. He said to go downstairs and meet her. I walked down the steps and I was completely speechless. She was the hottest girl Ive seen in months. I couldnt even keep a straight face she was so hot. So finally after introducing myself Spencer comes down, I just tap him on the shoulder and say "dude..." on my way out I turn around and give him the thumbs up sign, the international symbol for approval of friend's girlfriends.

I just feel really guilty now because whenever I talk to Kelsey I know that she's gonna have to have her heart broken eventually, which is really upsetting.

Thoughts, suggestions, comments, flames?

Derfud · 2004-09-20, 10:09 PM

Kick them all in the nuts.

Problem Solved!

firecrackerNC · 2004-09-20, 10:10 PM

Down the road not across the street. jk but dont tell the other girl. Your friendship will end and you'll have a enemy for life now. Just avoid the subject with the other girl and when she asks questions just say your not sure you havent seen him recently due to work or school or something.

I Hate Pants · 2004-09-20, 10:10 PM

Be honest. So she'll hate him. Then you get the bitch.

BUGGER · 2004-09-20, 10:11 PM

Tell him its time to make a choice. When that thanksgiving time comes and Kelsey finds out about megan, whoever came to see who just wasted a crapload of money.

Theres only one ring to rule them all, not two.

BUGGER · 2004-09-20, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Kick them all in the nuts.

Problem Solved!

Dude, then Jet got 2 fucked up friends. O.o

EarlyDawn · 2004-09-20, 10:17 PM

Infernus, Electrofreak, and numerous CDLers will attest that I've had my share of girl problems for my teenage years.

My advice: stay neutral. If you don't, you will not end up happy, I gaurentee you. It's not yours to deal with. If you get involved, you will not leave happy, I assure you.

JetRaiden · 2004-09-20, 10:22 PM

Originally Posted by EarlyDawn

Infernus, Electrofreak, and numerous CDLers will attest that I've had my share of girl problems for my teenage years.

My advice: stay neutral. If you don't, you will not end up happy, I gaurentee you. It's not yours to deal with. If you get involved, you will not leave happy, I assure you.

yea, Im just kinda keepin everyone happy and balanced.

Dharkbayne · 2004-09-20, 10:23 PM

Kill 'em all, DHITB, then commit suicide.

ObnoxiousFrog · 2004-09-20, 10:27 PM

Become emo like me. You would be suprised how much being nonconfrontational and sofuckingdeep will help you in the long run.

Everay · 2004-09-20, 10:30 PM

okay, jet, do what early said, and ask spencer, (bad 1024!) what his plans are or if he plans to walk around with his brain three feet below his head.

ViperGTS · 2004-09-20, 10:43 PM

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Stab them all.

Infernus · 2004-09-20, 10:43 PM

Originally Posted by JetRaiden

yea, Im just kinda keepin everyone happy and balanced.

Best you can do... loyalty to your friends does come first though In my honest opinion...

Everay · 2004-09-20, 10:45 PM

bros before hoes.

ObnoxiousFrog · 2004-09-20, 10:45 PM

Originally Posted by Infernus

Best you can do... loyalty to your friends does come first though In my honest opinion...

Loyalty to friends is a concept that works usually, however sometimes there are situations where it is best to tell someone to fuck off.

Oh wait, I don't have any friends anyway.