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Old 2004-08-20, 01:01 AM   [Ignore Me] #1
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I broke up with my girlfriend at around the beginning of summer. Havnt seen her since, aside from fluke crossings at large areas/biking.

Recently went to a party with a group of friend she introduced me to, and is still a part of. Only, this time, she came with German Foreign Exchange student in tow. Cute, and speaks English well, despite having a heavy accent, which is to be expected.

Now, normally, I'd attempt to pursue a relationship with her, and she seems interested in me, but therein lies the problem: She lives with my ex. Considering I have made great pains to get back on "neutral" terms with her, Im at a loss as to how to proceed.

1: Go for it, possibly alienate Ex, who, with her close proximity, becomes a superbitch and tries to get her disinterested in me
2: Dont do anything, and shrug it off.

Opinions plz.
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:05 AM   [Ignore Me] #2
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Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:06 AM   [Ignore Me] #3
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Originally Posted by eXoSloth
Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?
2, or 3.
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:08 AM   [Ignore Me] #4
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Originally Posted by Spee
2, or 3.
Hmmmmmm

I'd still go for option 1
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:27 AM   [Ignore Me] #5
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Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:32 AM   [Ignore Me] #6
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As I see it your ex is well... an ex, unless she's going to bring you great wealth or she's really hot and you plan to get back with her, do the german chick.
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:45 AM   [Ignore Me] #7
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Originally Posted by _-Gunslinger-_
Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!

Not really. I just like to have friends wherever I can. Enemies are a sucky thing to have.

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thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man
10$ no.

Theres a lot of complications with the matter. Such as Me only seeing the girl at social events, my ex hogging all lines of communication into her house, etc. Basically, I only know the girls face, and the fact that I amuse her.
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:31 AM   [Ignore Me] #8
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thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:47 AM   [Ignore Me] #9
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Propose a three-way. /nod
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Old 2004-08-20, 01:53 AM   [Ignore Me] #10
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Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.
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Old 2004-08-20, 10:42 AM   [Ignore Me] #11
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Originally Posted by Derfud
Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.
I agree with the first part of this, if you are really interested in keeping on good terms with your ex, then you should tell her you're interested in the german girl, and ask her if she would be fine with you dating her. If so, you're in the clear, if not, then you should probably steer clear.

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Old 2004-08-20, 07:21 AM   [Ignore Me] #12
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Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?
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Old 2004-08-20, 08:30 AM   [Ignore Me] #13
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Old 2004-08-20, 12:59 PM   [Ignore Me] #14
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Originally Posted by Triggar
Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?

Shes Emo, and converted to Wiccan recently. Thus meaning she might get angry a lil bit and angst if I slaughter everyone she holds dear :rollseyes:
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Old 2004-08-20, 07:03 PM   [Ignore Me] #15
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Originally Posted by Triggar
Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?
QFT

I found out the hard way...literally.
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