Mr.Vicchio is head over heels in love

MrVicchio · 2004-02-15, 01:40 AM

Her name is Jennie, shes beautiful, smart, funny, a gamer, a sweet heart, and she has powned my heart, I had to share that with you guys so you knwo who the hell Jen is when I mention in her in my posts. She maybe be 13" inches shorter then I am, but thats only because I am too tall. I really have fallen for this woman.

That is all.

Ignore Me · 2004-02-15, 01:47 AM

Congradulations?

Octavian · 2004-02-15, 01:49 AM

j/k Congratulations I guess.

Ait'al · 2004-02-15, 01:51 AM

ID delete this before hamma sees it 8)

Onizuka-GTO · 2004-02-15, 01:53 AM

mmmm.... Congratulation? ^^;

What a....erm...bold way to display your love.....not exactly the best place I admit, but at leased you have courage!

*dreads when the Four Posters of Pervertness & Smuttyness shows up*

MrVicchio · 2004-02-15, 01:58 AM

I care not what people think, this is my internet home, and I consider you friends, all my RL friends have met her, and know this, now you all do as well. Gunny thinks she is wonderful and is very happy for me.

Happy lil Elf · 2004-02-15, 01:59 AM

Her name is Jennie, shes beautiful, smart, funny, a gamer, a sweet heart,

Awesome

Apart from the name you just described someone I know right now and would love to ask out actually. Only my own morals dictate that I don't do shit about it. Rather frustrating actually.

In any case, cool shit, Mr. V.

Octavian · 2004-02-15, 02:00 AM

Has anyone noticed how Hamma's gf is also called Jenny? But different spelling.

Well may you pass away together peacefully. (is that the right thing to say)

Derfud · 2004-02-15, 02:02 AM

Great to hear Vic. Love is the most powerful force in the universe.

MrVicchio · 2004-02-15, 02:03 AM

Originally Posted by Octavian

Has anyone noticed how Hamma's gf is also called Jenny? But different spelling.

Well may you pass away together peacefully. (is that the right thing to say)

I honestly jsut noticed that myself, you know I don't come out of my Political Debater Dungeon to this board often, so I miss things like that lol.

Dude, Go meet your girl, I drove 25 miles and 40 minutes, getting lost ont he way, to meet Jen, and it was the best thing I had EVER done. She is.. perfect.

After my marriage collapsed, I was pretty sure I would be searching for a loing long time, met a few girls, but they all... pale in ways I can't describe compared to Jen. She is amazing.

Happy lil Elf · 2004-02-15, 02:05 AM

Dude, Go meet your girl, I drove 25 miles and 40 minutes, getting lost ont he way, to meet Jen, and it was the best thing I had EVER done. She is.. perfect.

Me?

Octavian · 2004-02-15, 02:07 AM

Probably you.

MrVicchio · 2004-02-15, 02:07 AM

As long as she is single and of age, yes do it.. unless you are talking about a family memebr, then you grossed me out.

Happy lil Elf · 2004-02-15, 02:37 AM

Originally Posted by MrVicchio

As long as she is single and of age, yes do it.. unless you are talking about a family memebr, then you grossed me out.

Ugh, thank's for that image >_<

No, nothing like that. Ok, background time I guess. So there's this girl I know. I've known her for awhile as just sort of a friend but she's funny, cute, common interests the whole nine yards. However there are a few issues.

Lets deal with me first. I recently (December) ended a relationship that I'd been in since '99. Long story short is just wasn't going to go anywhere and it took both of us way too long to realize that. We're still friends but coming out of a 4 year relationship isn't an easy thing to do. Not that I'm crying myself to sleep at night by any means, but it takes some time to put away a relationship that lasted that long. Even taking that into consideration I still think I'm probably ready to start dating again.

Now to the issue that prevents me from taking action. To put it simply, she's seeing someone and someone she's been seeing for quite awhile. There's a couple of catches though.

First of all, he's a really bad boyfriend. No, there's no abuse or anything like that, he just plain sucks ass at being a boyfriend. I guess what you can sum it up as is being totally unappreciative of what you've got. Now there is extensive evidence of this, but I'm trying to keep this a little vauge so, sorry, but no specifics. The other thing is she's told me she doesn't know why she's still going out with him which, to me, is a pretty good indicator something isn't working out. I dould probably tell her why she's still with him, but at this point in time it's really not any of my business to be doing so.

But here's the thing. While I'd probably be doing her a favor by asking her out, and I get the strong feeling she'd say yes (in fact she's kind of hinted that would be a good idea), I will not get between two people. I just won't. To me it's akin to cheating on a girl, it's something you just plain don't fucking do. I mean, I can justify it to myself all day, but when all is said and done I'll always believe it was the wrong thing to do. Even if the relationship we had together was the best thing ever, it would have been started off by me asking someone who is involved out on a date.

So thus, my own morals fuck me over. Oh well *raises bottle of Captain Morgan Private Stock* here's to hoping she realizes, as I did, that staying in a relationship for the sake of being in a relationship is a really dumb thing to do.

Rayder · 2004-02-15, 02:39 AM

Elf, you think too much.