Woman Issues.

[EarlyDawn]

Okay, so I have been seeing my girlfriend for a little over three months. She's probably bailed on me around 7 time all together it's rarely "her fault". Tonight, after I come home from paintball, I make *specific* plans with her, specific times.

She bails on me again, this is on the heels of our biggest argument yet last night. She sounded genuinely sorry, but I'm beginning to see that she dosen't give a fuck.

Anyway, she dosen't bother to tell me this, or try and contact me so I can at least save part of my night and find something interesting to do. Call me spineless, but I got all hyped up to call her back and tell her I'm through with her, but like always, I can't do it. I just lock up. It's not that I'm subservient to her, it's just that I choke up when I think of taking all my work over the last three months and throwing it straight out the window.

Anyway, she's gonna come online and give me the standard "I love you, I don't deserve you" BS routine. How can I counteract this is a tactful way, and explain to her in gentle, unyeilding terms that she's going to see things my way or I'll be putting my foot in the face or the relationship repeatedly, and I'm not fucking around anymore?

I need the evil mind of PSU on this one. I figure in addition to the standard "kill her" and "dump her" I'll get some good advice.

[I Hate Pants]

ARGH! NO! Not another one of these threads!

Just rape her in public and then dump her...... in the ditch.

[Mango]

the lounge is turning into a relationship help forum

[Sputty]

Originally Posted by I Hate Pants

ARGH! NO! Not another one of these threads!

Just rape her in public and then dump her...... in the ditch.

I'll second that

[Smaug]

DHITB! But seriously, you should just be honest with her.

[I Hate Pants]

Originally Posted by Smaug

DHITB! But seriously, you should just be honest with her.

DHITB?

[Smaug]

Do Her In The Butt

[Indecisive]

Shes cheating on you. Ban her. From life.

[Dharkbayne]

Originally Posted by Jesus

When thine girlie friend isth cheating on ye, I decree that all good christians shalt killeth her, do her in thine butt, and then dump thine body into ye holy ditch.

[Triggar]

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

[Fragmatic]

Originally Posted by Triggar

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

Quoted for ultimate truth

[EarlyDawn]

Originally Posted by Triggar

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

It will be done.

[Jennyboo]

Originally Posted by Triggar

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

I would have to agree , I invested 2 years into my last boyfriend who did what your gf is doing but worst x10 . Now i dont give it a second thought how i might have invested my time and heart in it .. I think you'v made it clear to her many times how you feel...and she uses what most women use when their men are mad at them "I'm really, sorry I love you" -bs if she loved you she would respect you and not leave you hanging ..if theres something she must do at least she can at least respect you enough to call you up explain and set up plans to make it up...Think about it 3 months or do you want to do this 2 years down the line believe me it gets harder the deeper your in.. A relationship is a 2 way street and on both side of the road there must be *respect* hope this helps

[AztecWarrior]

Originally Posted by Triggar

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

What she said.

[I Hate Pants]

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Originally Posted by Jesus
When thine girlie friend isth cheating on ye, I decree that all good christians shalt killeth her, do her in thine butt, and then dump thine body into ye holy ditch.
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