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2006-05-29, 10:01 PM | [Ignore Me] #48 | ||
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Meh I wish. I call her up... as was agreed... and she chickens out. Saying:
"I slept on it and it's not ok, I don't wanna be percieved as (that girl who slept with my boyfriend)." So I played up my cards saying I had doubts about going through with it as well. Since it's really not like me, but that I was glad she had brought it up I just didnt want to let her down. In short once I'm single (if ever) I already have two backup plans! Might not be fair for my girlfriend but I like to cover my bases.
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2006-05-29, 11:07 PM | [Ignore Me] #50 | |||
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2006-05-29, 11:25 PM | [Ignore Me] #51 | ||||
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2006-05-30, 01:34 AM | [Ignore Me] #54 | |||
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All jokes aside thought. It's a bit more complicated then that Squeek's... I don't wanna go into details but my current situation is quite odd. As far as the girl goes Peace, I'm gonna try to explain it as much as I can... but it's mostly on assumptions according to past experiences. See, alot of girls have a defence mechanism in place... it varies from girl to girl, but I've seen the one you seme to speak of. A good lady friend of mine has the exact same attitude... we almost dated once and at the last minute she cancelled our first date on the grounds of a malfuntioning car. Turns out she was afraid to get hurt, she was partly right because when she told me that I had came back with an ex of mine... sort of a retreat... left the ex due to boredom... didn't manage to get something better... came back to her! (I'm weird don't ask... I've changed since anyways!) Basicly she has a shell around her that's based on the fear of getting hurt in relationships, she pushes people that get too close away in order to avoid the pain of an eventual break-up. The only way to take that down is to go slowly and not pressure her... it seems stupid, but it's the best thing to do... earn her trust.. that's the only way you'll get to her unless you go about some deep conversations like I do to fix such problems (Ex: the said girl is now dating thanks to me after swearing never to date EVER again!) Now I know you folks have a low opinion of me so take it or leave it, but if my assumptions are right my course of actions would be the only way to succeed short of taking her to see a shrink about her issues. I feel as if I'm missing something in my text, but I can't put the finger on it... so I'll just click post reply now...
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2006-05-30, 09:24 AM | [Ignore Me] #55 | ||
Shes never had a relationship before, therin lies the problem. I would be her first offical boy friend. Maybe its cause what you said but I doubt it. Maybe she just hates me Your right about one thing though patience. It always wins out. Those who wait get a chance most of the time.
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2006-05-30, 11:22 AM | [Ignore Me] #56 | ||
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See it's not always about relationships either. She could have been hurt by her father's departure, a divorce, etc. etc. There's a myriad of reasons why a girl could be afraid of being with someone else...
If she hated you... I dunno... most of the time you can feel it... or atleast there's signs.
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2006-05-30, 05:19 PM | [Ignore Me] #59 | |||
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