Grief system

[niplan]

Ok, This is really pissing me off, i have over 500 grief due to the idocy of others. Firstly why do i get grief when someone hits me with there tank? why do i get 25 grief for being hit with the wing of a gal.? And one time, some how i got grief for hiting my self with the spalsh of my own tank.. and so on and so forth.

And those idiots who stab you with the fucking knife, and get all pissy when you spread their brain matter across the walls, i think that if someone injurs you first you can shoot them without getting grief. Or set the knife so if you knife a friendly you get double normal grief.