Alright. Normally I'm not one to post on here about my private life issues and such, much less start a thread about it, but since this forum's been rather dead recently I figure I might as well throw up a little situation I've been forced into.
Anyhow, I've been IM friends with my ex-girlfriend Trisha for quite a while now. She's been stationed at Offut Air Force Base in Nebraska for a while now. She's quite an attractive little lady, and I was a little bit dissapointed to hear a month or so back that she got engaged to a guy who lived on base with her.
Through our IM exchanges, she seemed happy about the engagement, happy with her fiancee, and invited me to the wedding which was scheduled for September. She also seemed to be becoming more and more sick of military life however, and kept telling me that she wanted out of the Air Force, it just wasn't working for her anymore.
So a couple weeks ago, when she told me that she'd been discharged from the Air Force for minor misconduct, I wasn't terribly surprised. When I asked how she was going to live with her fiancee, she told me she wasn't sure... and she wasn't sure if the wedding was going to even happen anymore. She did let me know she was coming back to town this week and told me to give her a call, maybe we could hang out and catch up on things.
Then, on July 4th afternoon, she IMs me saying that her fiancee has just dumped her. She tells me that I HAVE to call her (makes me promise) later that night, after I get back from going to War of the Worlds with my family and she gets back from the fireworks show.
So, I give her a call later that night, and she's TOTALLY trashed, and tells me she'll call me back in a few minutes, never does.
So the next day, she calls back, and tells me that my old buddy Brad from the Army (he's also a friend of hers as well) is back from his 2 years of being stationed in Korea! So, I meet up with Brad and Trish, we go out and eat at Hooters, head back to her place, and watch Eurotrip, and then each head back to our homes.
Basically what it comes down to is, after seeing Trish, I REALLY want to get back into a relationship with her. I dated her like 4 years ago in high school, she was a cheerleader back then and ended up dumping me after 2 months for a jock. So yeah... she's not exactly the most reliable girlfriend.
ALSO, she seems pretty tore up about her breakup with her fiancee. So I don't want to move in on her too quick... but at the same time, I know about a half dozen other guys who probably still have the hots for her and will try to snag her as soon as possible.
So, I figure I'll just try to hang out with her a lot, subtly let her know that I'm interested in her, and leave it at that until she lets on that she's ready for a relationship I guess. I'm just worried that some other dude is gonna try to snatch her up I guess...
Anyhow, pix. I know that at least half of you could care less what I type here and just wanna see what this girl looks like, so here:
So, that's about it for Electro's little "OMG HAWT GIRL I WANT" thread... leave your "advice" (prolly DHITB) and move along...
2005-07-09, 06:20 AM
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