Spee's got a Sit'uashin

Spee · 2004-08-20, 01:01 AM

I broke up with my girlfriend at around the beginning of summer. Havnt seen her since, aside from fluke crossings at large areas/biking.

Recently went to a party with a group of friend she introduced me to, and is still a part of. Only, this time, she came with German Foreign Exchange student in tow. Cute, and speaks English well, despite having a heavy accent, which is to be expected.

Now, normally, I'd attempt to pursue a relationship with her, and she seems interested in me, but therein lies the problem: She lives with my ex. Considering I have made great pains to get back on "neutral" terms with her, Im at a loss as to how to proceed.

1: Go for it, possibly alienate Ex, who, with her close proximity, becomes a superbitch and tries to get her disinterested in me
2: Dont do anything, and shrug it off.

Opinions plz.

eXoSloth · 2004-08-20, 01:05 AM

Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?

Spee · 2004-08-20, 01:06 AM

Originally Posted by eXoSloth

Hrm, on a scale of 1-super, how hotT is she?

2, or 3.

eXoSloth · 2004-08-20, 01:08 AM

Originally Posted by Spee

2, or 3.

Hmmmmmm

I'd still go for option 1

_-Gunslinger-_ · 2004-08-20, 01:27 AM

Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!

1024 · 2004-08-20, 01:31 AM

thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man

Spider · 2004-08-20, 01:32 AM

As I see it your ex is well... an ex, unless she's going to bring you great wealth or she's really hot and you plan to get back with her, do the german chick.

SDM · 2004-08-20, 01:45 AM

DHITB then 2.

Spee · 2004-08-20, 01:45 AM

Originally Posted by _-Gunslinger-_

Is there any other reason to keep the relationship with your ex "neutral" as you put it? If yes then weigh that with the german chick, if no then go for it!

Not really. I just like to have friends wherever I can. Enemies are a sucky thing to have.

Originally Posted by 1024

thing is, are you even gonna care about your ex in a year or two or three? if not, just fuckin go for it man

10$ no.

Theres a lot of complications with the matter. Such as Me only seeing the girl at social events, my ex hogging all lines of communication into her house, etc. Basically, I only know the girls face, and the fact that I amuse her.

Apocolypse55 · 2004-08-20, 01:47 AM

Propose a three-way. /nod

Derfud · 2004-08-20, 01:53 AM

Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.

Triggar · 2004-08-20, 07:21 AM

Don't you dare mac it to the German girl. You do know that your ex will make your life a living hell if you do, right?

JetRaiden · 2004-08-20, 08:30 AM

GonePostal · 2004-08-20, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by Spider

As I see it your ex is well... an ex, unless she's going to bring you great wealth or she's really hot and you plan to get back with her, do the german chick.

dude, spider makes a lot of sense right here

DeepStrikeck · 2004-08-20, 10:42 AM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Tell your ex you like the german girl, but try to be on good terms with her. See if she is alright with it, and could help you out. If she is against it. Do whatever you can to get in touch, because god damn, you will never have another chance to get another girl who probably makes excellent wurst.

I agree with the first part of this, if you are really interested in keeping on good terms with your ex, then you should tell her you're interested in the german girl, and ask her if she would be fine with you dating her. If so, you're in the clear, if not, then you should probably steer clear.