What is with women?! [WTF!?]

oddfish · 2004-09-20, 11:06 PM

So Brittany just broke up with me.

She says that i'm too nice and that she doesn't deserve me. She says that she's still really attracted to me, and that she still wants to see me but that she's affraid of getting too close to me because she's affraid she'll just hurt me.

so, basically, she still wants a physical relationship whenever it's convenient for HER but she doesn't want to feel any obligation to me other than that. that's some selfish fucking shit if i ever heard it.

I hate this shit. I knew i shouldn't have slowed down for anyone. Now look at this shit. This is what you get for being fucking nice to people. This is what you get for being different. This is what you get! You get this happy horseshit.

Too nice. what in the flying fuck is THAT? You know how many times i've heard that? I CAN'T EVEN COUNT 'EM ALL!! girls are so fucking stupid. well, good. i hope the next selfish asshole prick she ends up with she marries. that's great. because all the selfish asshole pricks in the world who don't give a shit about the girls there with other than to fuck 'em and who gives a shit about the rest of their lives well they're just the best this world has to offer. ME? yeah, this is what i get.

My advice: don't be nice, because that's an invitation for people to just walk all over you. Especially girls, because girls are selfish. Very selfish.

Unbelievable. i don't know what's worse: the fact that she's breaking up with me or the fact that she still wants to use me to get off. fucking unbelievable. just like every other girl i've ever met. All they want from me is sex. I'm so fucking sick of this shit. THERE'S OTHER STUFF TO ME THAN JUST MY FUCKING DICK!! HELLLLLOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO?????

well, she still wants sex, though.. isn't life grand? fucking bullshit.

wonderful. hooray for relationships. btw, Aztec, i blame this all on your God.

Derfud · 2004-09-20, 11:11 PM

Oh boohoo mr. Im getting laid.

Rbstr · 2004-09-20, 11:11 PM

Hmm...Another instalment of Rob's observations on life:
Not having the guts to ask chicks out or get to that point has the bonus of not having to deal with break-ups.

But is it better that way?

oddfish · 2004-09-20, 11:12 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Oh boohoo mr. Im getting laid.

fuck you, asshole. i'm sick of being used. it's not as wonderful happy flowers as it sounds. there's other things about me that this sex shit overshadows and it's starting to drive me up a wall because the minute i try to be with someone this stupid shit happens. it's why i got so bad in the first place.

Hydralisk · 2004-09-20, 11:14 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Oh boohoo mr. Im getting laid.

That made me lol!

oddfish · 2004-09-20, 11:15 PM

Originally Posted by Hydralisk

That made me lol!

yeah, you and everyone else.. he he ho ho ha ha.

Derfud · 2004-09-20, 11:16 PM

Lay off, I was being sarcastic. Take a moment and put yourself in perspective. I wont offer my sympathy to you, but I will tell you that you are more fortunate than alot of people on these boards.

EineBeBoP · 2004-09-20, 11:18 PM

Originally Posted by Rbstr

Hmm...Another instalment of Rob's observations on life:
Not having the guts to ask chicks out or get to that point has the bonus of not having to deal with break-ups.

But is it better that way?

*sigh* I feel your pain.

Im fuckign shy IRL, but online i'm somehow "free" of that.
I've had 2 internet relationships (all of the relationship, not of the physical stuff) and neither ended well.

Sorry to hear about this OF. Im the same way tho, so at least i wont be suprised the first time it happend.

oddfish · 2004-09-20, 11:23 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Lay off, I was being sarcastic. Take a moment and put yourself in perspective. I wont offer my sympathy to you, but I will tell you that you are more fortunate than alot of people on these boards.

why am i more fortunate? because i allow people to use me? because i'm terrified of getting hurt like i have in the past so i try not to get close to people? because emotionally i'm so fucking confused that i'm not even sure if i'm capable of caring this much about Brittany? am i fortunate because i'm too nice to be able to brush off feelings i have for people no matter how long i've been seeing them for? am i fortunate because as soon as i grow some balls and forget about being affraid of getting hurt and get involved CLOSELY with someone that it's easy for them to just throw it away because they're satisfied with the fact that we can just be friends (with benefits, of course, because she doesn't want to give THAT part up)
OH YEAH, and how about having to deal with exes who call and bitch when i do hook up with someone else because NOW they want to get back with ME because ASSHOLE MIKE OR ASSHOLE JOHN treats them like shit and blah blah blah..

whatever.

AztecWarrior · 2004-09-20, 11:24 PM

Originally Posted by oddfish

wonderful. hooray for relationships. btw, Aztec, i blame this all on your God.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Just kidding. Hope she does a 180 and turns around, you seem to be a nice guy. And the girl seems to be a fool.

Derfud · 2004-09-20, 11:25 PM

Because people are attracted to you, many others lack that.

JetRaiden · 2004-09-20, 11:26 PM

that sux odd. Ive been through more then my fair share of these kinda relationships.

oddfish · 2004-09-20, 11:28 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Because people are attracted to you, many others lack that.

it's not all it's cracked up to be. it can be very hurtful. more than anything it causes people to jump into things with me that they're not ready for. they think: OOOH! he's cute AND nice! I WON DUH LOTTO!

but then they realize that they'd rather have the asshole. hooray.

BUGGER · 2004-09-20, 11:29 PM

Wow, theres more swear words in there than you'd ever hear a black person say. Haha, sry for my racism right there, but yea dont swear for every adverb.

As for the girl, well boohoo. Its 1 chick out of sum billion otherones. I would have seen that coming, what were you doing, thinking of the future, or looking at her ass.

Get over it, if u dont want to see her, than say screw you. Don't deal with her.

Derfud · 2004-09-20, 11:31 PM

Ok, i understand you have some serious pain, but the way you posted that, in a forum like this, it sounded like it was a cry for attention. I'm not saying everyone here is ugly, I'm saying most arent "getting any", regarding your post most would see it as telling them how much better you are. Just be aware. I apologize if I have caused you more stress.