I need you guys to cheer me up. - Page 2

321 · 2004-02-08, 11:30 PM

Sorry to hear that man.

l3lizz4rd · 2004-02-08, 11:41 PM

Sorry to say it man, but the more you say the more I think I'm right.

But like the other guys have said, no matter how much you can't imagine it, the sun will come up again tomorrow. I guarantee it. You'll find someone else.

Fragmatic · 2004-02-09, 12:14 AM

I know how ya feel man, my girl dumped me...
...for another girl

That's the silver bullet

Plus the fact that I've been vomiting my arse off all week, and people are hungry for ep3, when It's an impossible struggle for me to do it

(not technical wise, just the fact that I've been sick as shit, and really down, I don't have the motivation to do it

)

I'm really sorry guys

NoSurrender · 2004-02-09, 12:19 AM

tis ok frag. Just aslong you provide someone to yell at.

j/k i hope you feel better, that was me last week but, i was in school becuz of gay drivers ed range !!!

worldvengence · 2004-02-09, 12:36 AM

Originally Posted by arctik

Thanks guys, I asked her before if she was cheating on me but she says she wasnt and she doesn't seem to be the type of person who would do that. Her friend is one of her x-boyfriends and she also tells me now that another reason she broke things off is because it hurts him to know shes with me. Me and him used to be friends before all of this and I threw alot away for this girl. I've been trying to tell myself she was a stepping stone but I cant imagine myself with anyone else because she's perfect. Or atleast I thought so.

Thanks for the pictures, the pope one I actually laughed at. I'm gunna go to the store and buy some ice-cream to fatten up on.

I've told her everything i felt while she was breaking up with me. Thats why she thinks I make her feel like shit. I hate how she tries to make me seem like the bad guy in this situation. Girls...

sorry dude, but it seems like she is totally playing you, if she holds her Ex's feelings above yours, then she still has something for him, so by the way it looks she is either, cheating, wants him back, or is totally bullshitting you, to look for an easy way out.

OneManArmy · 2004-02-09, 01:00 AM

wish I could say something classy and inspirational to ya but thats jsut not me. I'd say go with SDM's idea, because life goes on, and there will be others. we've all been there, some worse than others but it all hurts the same. what you should try is to find a new hobby to get your mind off of it. hell I didnt know jack shit about cars untill one of my ex-gf broke up with me years ago. now I'm a friggen gear head.

SilverLord · 2004-02-09, 11:36 AM

Originally Posted by worldvengence

sorry dude, but it seems like she is totally playing you, if she holds her Ex's feelings above yours, then she still has something for him, so by the way it looks she is either, cheating, wants him back, or is totally bullshitting you, to look for an easy way out.

I agree with worldvengence on this problem here. I say we all stop talking about what happen and cheer him up because we keep talking like this is not making anything better at all. IMO of course.

Veteran · 2004-02-09, 11:45 AM

Time moves but she don't fade.

Looking for my lost shaker of salt.

Love bites.

Sorry kid, but it sounds like she's spit out everything but the old "it's not you, it's me".

You'll find love again, I know.

Nothing really matters, anyone can see.

Don't worry, you'll be back in the saddle before you know it.

Firefly · 2004-02-09, 11:49 AM

Let's put this all together. I'll remove the extraneous stuff and cut to the meat.

Originally Posted by arctik

My girlfriend and I were together for a long time up until a few hours ago, she broke things off because she says I deserve better. I told her she was spending too much time with her guy friend and not enough time with me and she felt bad. She says it's better this way and now she wont even talk to me because she says I make her feel like shit because she still loves me.

Originally Posted by arctik

I asked her before if she was cheating on me but she says she wasnt and she doesn't seem to be the type of person who would do that. Her friend is one of her x-boyfriends and she also tells me now that another reason she broke things off is because it hurts him to know shes with me. I hate how she tries to make me seem like the bad guy in this situation.

Dude. I'm not gonna give you any flowery fairy stuff. This chick is making you feel guilty to throw the blame off herself. She's nailing her ex, it's plain as day. You're blinded by emotion and you want to see the best in her because you think she's perfect in every way. Except...

Except that she was spending WAY too much time with a "guy friend". Dude, unless this guy is gay, there's no way he sees it as "just friends". And since he was her ex, he ain't gay. And if they were dating, there's no way it was "just friends".

Except that she's diverting the attention from the real issue by making you look out to be the real ass. You're being suckered, man.

Except that she says "it's better this way" but she loves you. Bullfuckingshit. If she loved you, then the BETTER THIS WAY would be for her to tell old boy to take a hike, and start working on a real relationship.

Except that if she gave a rat's ass about your feelings, an EX'S feelings wouldn't matter one fucking iota compared to yours. If it were truly better this way, and she loved you like she says she did, then the better thing to do would be to go with love over "like" for a friend.

You got owned, man. Don't take this shit from a byrd. Go kick his ass, and then dime her out for being a tramp.

Squeeky · 2004-02-09, 03:15 PM

I just got own3d by teh wimmenz yet again. It sucks dude, worse than losing a match on TWL for Rung #1 in Desert Combat. Sucks bad.

Pilgrim · 2004-02-09, 04:00 PM

Women suck

And your girl can have guy friends... like someone at work or school who they say hi to. But if they think that going out to lunch, or hanging out at night is kewl then it's time to BBG her (Bitch Be GONE!)

If I learned anything from When Harry Met Sally its that men and women cannot be friends. it just doesn't work

FireWolf22 · 2004-02-09, 04:58 PM

True, True. I have to agree with the last few. I know you don't want to hear it. But dizog she is playing the game. You the piece that she happens to be pushing around the bizoard. It truely sucks, but there will be others. Even betters. Don't worry man. I was engaged and find out that my fiance was cheating at college. Man and Woman can't be just friends it don't work. They can be talking peeps, but if they start going off places together or spending time together some place they are not just friend.

Firefly · 2004-02-09, 05:25 PM

Originally Posted by FireWolf22

True, True.

Originally Posted by FireWolf22

dizog

Originally Posted by FireWolf22

bizoard.

Is "FireWolf" a rap-gamer version of doggy-dogg? Fo shizzle my rizzle dizzle nizzle.

Setari · 2004-02-09, 05:29 PM

Originally Posted by Pilgrim

Women suck

No shit.

Madcow · 2004-02-09, 05:32 PM

Now is the perfect time to find out how good your guy friends are. When I broke up with my college fiance my buds came through with flying colors, although it took little more than angry music, beer and chicken wings for me.

I highly recommend "Goodbye" by the Sand Rubies, if you can find it. Just the perfect amount of bile and anger for the situation.