Need your help. (Friend in trouble) - Page 2

OneManArmy · 2006-03-24, 03:07 PM

damnit. I don't get it. Its just like when the fired me from the suicide help call in center.....

TheRegurgitator · 2006-03-24, 03:21 PM

Stupid emos, it's all their fault this whole wrist-cutting thing got started. They should die, but then again they might like it too much.

Giovanni · 2006-03-24, 06:45 PM

Originally Posted by OneManArmy

damnit. I don't get it. Its just like when the fired me from the suicide help call in center.....

I can see it in my mind:
"Hi... my name's bob... I wanna kill myself... I got a gun to my head"
Oma: "Do it! Come on you pussy! DO IT!"
*BLAM*

As for "TheRegurgitator", you're an idiot. Seriously what's with the stereotypes and categorising? If someone dresses all in black I guess you call them goth? Get a clue you idiot.

Hamma · 2006-03-24, 06:47 PM

Originally Posted by Giovanni

I can see it in my mind:
"Hi... my name's bob... I wanna kill myself... I got a gun to my head"
Oma: "Do it! Come on you pussy! DO IT!"
*BLAM*

ICP.

There was an Insane Clown Posse song where the the guy was on a suicide help line and he's harassing the guy and telling him to do it. Then there is a gunshot and he's like "Hello, Hello?!" the guy responds and he's like "I KNEW YOU WOULDNT DO IT YOU FUCKING PUSSY!"

Kyonye · 2006-03-24, 07:09 PM

She may hate you for life, but atleast this possibility could help her. An intervention could help. Keep it small. Telling her parent's would be a good thing. Anyone VERY close to her. It is an idea to look into.

Giovanni · 2006-03-24, 07:16 PM

Originally Posted by Kyonye

She may hate you for life, but atleast this possibility could help her. An intervention could help. Keep it small. Telling her parent's would be a good thing. Anyone VERY close to her. It is an idea to look into.

Her mother is sort of part of the problem...

She lives at home, but she has to pay for her own food because her mom only pays for rent and her addiction.

It's a classic weird ass family.

Rbstr · 2006-03-24, 08:35 PM

her addiction?

TheRegurgitator · 2006-03-24, 08:53 PM

Originally Posted by Giovanni

As for "TheRegurgitator", you're an idiot. Seriously what's with the stereotypes and categorising? If someone dresses all in black I guess you call them goth? Get a clue you idiot.

??? I'm sorry that jocks play sports, emos are very emotional, and nerds like me play video games. It's an opinion formed on what I usually see. I don't base my opinions off what they wear, its what they do or how they act.

EDIT: Oh, I see what you mean. I wasn't calling her an emo as you may have thought. I was blaming the emo's for starting the wrist cutting trend.

Hamma · 2006-03-24, 08:56 PM

Way to stereotype.. everyone.

People who stereotype everyone suck at life.

OneManArmy · 2006-03-24, 09:41 PM

I still say leave these fucking nut jobs alone... unless you are going to get some.... "favors"

perhaps?

she does seem to be fragile....

oh yea I'll see all of you in hell! and I'll be wearing the party hat.

Giovanni · 2006-03-24, 09:42 PM

Originally Posted by Rbstr

her addiction?

Cocaine... from what she told me her mom fell into it after her father left her mom. It's a long complicated story but I wouldn't be suprised if it played a part in her tendency to mutilate herself.

Oh and I agree with Hamma for the stereotype thing.

TheRegurgitator · 2006-03-24, 09:56 PM

Anyways, just tell her that you are doing whatever you have to do because you care about her.

EDIT: Ok, just want to clear up this whole stereotypical thing, as an example I said jocks play sports, but what I also meant is that just because someone plays sports it doesn't make them a jock.

Rbstr · 2006-03-24, 10:13 PM

Originally Posted by Giovanni

Cocaine... from what she told me her mom fell into it after her father left her mom. It's a long complicated story but I wouldn't be suprised if it played a part in her tendency to mutilate herself.

Oh and I agree with Hamma for the stereotype thing.

She needs to get out of that house, now.

Giovanni · 2006-03-24, 10:21 PM

Originally Posted by Rbstr

She needs to get out of that house, now.

And go where? I can't give her shelter.

Sure I could probably find her somewhere to stay but would that make things any better? I'm going to bring her to a therapist first and then I'll worry about getting her out but as of now it's not really possible...

Her mom doesn't really do anything to worsen the entire thing but I'm sure it was the start of the whole thing... she's not supportive of her child but she gives her shelter. Wich is more then alot of people can say.

I could probably contat her dad thought... I know a couple of people who know him more then I do so I could probably get his number... good idea?

TheRegurgitator · 2006-03-24, 10:36 PM

Originally Posted by Giovanni

And go where? I can't give her shelter.

Sure I could probably find her somewhere to stay but would that make things any better? I'm going to bring her to a therapist first and then I'll worry about getting her out but as of now it's not really possible...

Her mom doesn't really do anything to worsen the entire thing but I'm sure it was the start of the whole thing... she's not supportive of her child but she gives her shelter. Wich is more then alot of people can say.

I could probably contat her dad thought... I know a couple of people who know him more then I do so I could probably get his number... good idea?

It's a good idea as long as he is cool headed and doesn't make things worse. Just give her something to look forward to so she doesn't think she has no purpose in life or whatever. The best thing to do is keep her active.