Asexuality? Or something else? (response requested) - Page 4

Happy lil Elf · 2003-12-19, 01:52 PM

For the most part I'm the same way. Most of the girls I know are about as intertesting to me as a brick. Sure some of them are gorgeous and I'd love to get in their pants but trying to have a conversation with them is much akin to torture. Can I please listen to you talk about your "friends" behind their back some more? Or tell me about how your sister's boyfriend is a looser because he only got your sister 1/2k diamond earrings instead of 1k? Or could you tell me about another funny story about what happened when you were in The Buckle the other day?

Ugh.

That said there are undoubtedly people of the other sex that do in fact interest you and who you can even enjoy holding a conversation with. The trick is finding them, which can be difficult to do.

The sad thing is about the whole thing may just be that there are a decent number of girls who act like totally other people except to those who know them best because they think they have to in order to fit in.

Girls rarley like computers and games. Its way up there on their "avoid" list. So if compters and games is your only hoby you wont have nothing to talk to them about. So you arent gay, you're just a boring fuck.

Tera you should definately try and be the second person to go over Niagra falls without any flotation device. Don't worry about that whole dieing thing, I mean that other guy lived, right?

Neon Apocalypse · 2003-12-19, 03:48 PM

yeah my school's girls are boring as fuck, some arent but the rest have no personality, and like what happened to spider, he thought he knew her, but he didnt, you may eventually find someone u like, but when you actually get to know them you start to dislike them, that is why becoming friends first is better than just jumping into a full relationship, unless its for only sex, but what the hell do i know i havent gotten that far and this is all just a theory

Spee · 2003-12-19, 03:49 PM

Originally Posted by TheRagingGerbil

Your all ghey! Especially Spee. <3 Spee, but not in that sort of way that guys would love a...ahh forget it.

And WTF is up with that site, I damn near had an epileptic seizure as soon as it opened. Oh, and did it cause anyone else cd drives to open?

ph33r t3h ub4r-]-[0/\/\053><u41I7y 0F 5p33.

And SA rocks the shit out. I love that place

BUGGER · 2003-12-19, 05:35 PM

bleh......i have barely any comments.

If u like a girl. Dont tell her, just be nice to her. If she plays lika ho, be a pimp.

Thats all.

Derfud · 2003-12-19, 05:44 PM

Girls sux0r, I spent 2 and a half years working out the courage to ask someone out, and they shot me down. Talk about a bummer.

Vick · 2003-12-19, 05:48 PM

Originally Posted by Happy lil' Elf

For the most part I'm the same way. Most of the girls I know are about as intertesting to me as a brick. Sure some of them are gorgeous and I'd love to get in their pants but trying to have a conversation with them is much akin to torture.

Yeah, I think that is where these problems come from...

Neon Apocalypse · 2003-12-19, 07:03 PM

Originally Posted by Derfud

Girls sux0r, I spent 2 and a half years working out the courage to ask someone out, and they shot me down. Talk about a bummer.

umm well if she doesnt know you and u spend 2 and a half years fantasizing about her and 2 and a half years later when you have the courage and she still doesnt know you then theres no way she will say yes, unless she was fantasizing about you, but that never happens, the way to get a girl is to talk alot, dont be a dick, play it cool, make her laugh, be nice, then maybe she will like you, it takes more effort then just asking her out, so if she doesnt seem to give a damn about you you'll prolly get rejected

Fragmatic · 2003-12-19, 07:21 PM

If you're that desperate, just go for the sympathy vote...

Chop off a leg or something, you'll have girls swarming round you like flies!

(just dont cut off that "third leg")

Ait'al · 2003-12-19, 07:24 PM

Just make sure its not the third one. 8)

AztecWarrior · 2003-12-19, 11:24 PM

Misconception clearing:
1: I'm not necessarily looking for a gamer girl.
2: I think that waiting would be best. I don't feel an urgent need to have a g/f, and I don't feel like a loser for not having one.

Bighoss · 2003-12-20, 12:42 AM

um, a gaming forums usually isn't the best place for this kind of advice. Ask your friends about it. My advice though is shop around until you find what you like.

Ed the MAD · 2003-12-20, 02:42 AM

Originally Posted by AztecWarrior

I've got a bit of a problem.

I know a few girls, granted, less than most, but still. I don't feel the need to know many. This I can understand.

But the next perplexes me.

Before I begin, I'd like to say that I am male and heterosexual. This is not a problem of sexual orientation. I am also teenage, so I'm not in a serious relationship and won't be for a while.

I don't feel attracted to them. Not one. On a social level, at least. Show me a pic of a hot girl and I'll get aroused just like any other straight male. However, how can I put this...I can't imagine myself dating any of them. No curiosity, no care beyond the safety level, basically I don't have whatever starts love.

What irks me about girls is that they almost seem like copies of each other. They all have the same tops and low jeans. ThEy TyPe LiEk ThIs On AoL!!1 Their 'websites' are all the same. ( http://www.somethingawful.com/angelgurl/index.htm ) THEY ARE ALL THE FUCKING SAME! I WANT A PERSON, NOT A COPY!

Is this a phase?

nah, it's just that none of those girls turn your crank. you said it yourself.

I WANT A PERSON, NOT A COPY!

and i couldn't agree more.