it's hard to expect any better on the internet. the average internet user's mental age is 14, just enough to hate 12 yr olds.
seriously though, I'm guessing she knows you're not interested if she's avoiding you instead of dating you. I suggest you talk to her and tell her that you didn't think of her that way, and that you're sorry if you made her feel bad. ask her to be friends FOR NOW and try NOT to mention the future. then just change the subject with a joke or something and try to do whatever you use to do together until now. make sure she understands you do think she's hot but you just never looked at her like that, and she caught you by surprise.
I hope I managed to get inside your head cause it helps if you're honest when you say this.
if you can pull this off, she won't think you think she's ugly, you'll still be friends, and because something like this is bound to make you think about asking her out, if you do decide to do something in the future you can still do it.
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protected animal my ass!
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