Woman Issues. - Page 4

DeepStrikeck · 2004-04-25, 02:30 PM

Originally Posted by Rayder

Wow.... I myself would have set up a really big dinner someplace nice, say, a five-star restaurant near you. You would tell her that this is a very important meeting that really can't be missed. Tell her to come at say, 8:00 (come to the restaurant that is, and make sure to make reservations for two), and say that you'll be there a few minutes after because you had to pick up something "special." Now, because you're following the evil plan that I have made, you would tell the gar�on to take this message to her at say, 8:03. In this message, in your own handwriting, you will have written something akin to the following: "My dearest <name here>, I am truely sorry I could not join you tonight, for you see, I had an encounter that just could not wait. It came as a surprise to me, and I'm sure it does to you. For you see, I couldn't give a fuck about you anymore and I just want it to end. P.S. I'm not paying."

damn that is evil. But I like it.

oddfish · 2004-04-25, 02:49 PM

Well, this is easy. She has little or no respect for you. Which is really not cool at all. She is far too immature to be in a relationship with you for as long as you've been in one. It's clear you're good to her because you make an effort to make plans with her and hang out with her and basically show her that you do care to be with her. Now, she, on the other hand, is clearly not as invested in making this relationship work as you are. Either she cheats on you which is the most disgustingly shitty thing anyone can do, or she is just way to immature to be able to show the same respect for someone that they show for her. You've been dating a little kid for three months. And, the fact that you claim that you've put a lot of work into this relationship is a clear indicator that you're doing most of the work anyways. If you're the one doing all the work to keep this relationship going then you're going to seem like you're working to hard and the girl will start to get "stressed out" by you. This is without a doubt not your fault at all. This is her fault because she's not into keeping the relationship working as much as you are. All i'm going to say is that this relationship is just emotionally taxing on you and is probably causing you more stress than its worth. A relationship should be a bit taxing, but it shouldn't be ridiculously stressful. The two people in the relationship should work about the same to keep it going. I'm sorry to say this to you, but I think it's time to call her up and say: listen, you don't respect me, you don't give a shit about our relationship, so you don't deserve to have someone as devoted as i am catering to you whenever you can't get a hold of your friends and are bored.

Don't be with someone who only makes you their option when they're your priority.

HunterKiller · 2004-04-25, 03:18 PM

fuck her and then after-sex break up with her.

JakeLogan · 2004-04-25, 05:09 PM

Originally Posted by oddfish

You've been dating a little kid for three months

I don't think he is a priest.

ZING!!!!!!

Rayder · 2004-04-25, 05:14 PM

Originally Posted by JakeLogan

I don't think he is a priest.

ZING!!!!!!

Zing of the Day!

EarlyDawn · 2004-04-25, 05:36 PM

Originally Posted by oddfish

Well, this is easy. She has little or no respect for you. Which is really not cool at all. She is far too immature to be in a relationship with you for as long as you've been in one. It's clear you're good to her because you make an effort to make plans with her and hang out with her and basically show her that you do care to be with her. Now, she, on the other hand, is clearly not as invested in making this relationship work as you are. Either she cheats on you which is the most disgustingly shitty thing anyone can do, or she is just way to immature to be able to show the same respect for someone that they show for her. You've been dating a little kid for three months. And, the fact that you claim that you've put a lot of work into this relationship is a clear indicator that you're doing most of the work anyways. If you're the one doing all the work to keep this relationship going then you're going to seem like you're working to hard and the girl will start to get "stressed out" by you. This is without a doubt not your fault at all. This is her fault because she's not into keeping the relationship working as much as you are. All i'm going to say is that this relationship is just emotionally taxing on you and is probably causing you more stress than its worth. A relationship should be a bit taxing, but it shouldn't be ridiculously stressful. The two people in the relationship should work about the same to keep it going. I'm sorry to say this to you, but I think it's time to call her up and say: listen, you don't respect me, you don't give a shit about our relationship, so you don't deserve to have someone as devoted as i am catering to you whenever you can't get a hold of your friends and are bored.

Don't be with someone who only makes you their option when they're your priority.

Yeh that makes sense.

For the record; I decided to be a nice guy (victim?) one last time and give her a final chance. However, I did flat out tell her if she fucks it up again, it's done.

Jennyboo · 2004-04-25, 06:16 PM

Originally Posted by EarlyDawn

Yeh that makes sense.

For the record; I decided to be a nice guy (victim?) one last time and give her a final chance. However, I did flat out tell her if she fucks it up again, it's done.

Well the main thing is you told her what for just dont let her walk all over you .. remember Respect is a 2 way street

if she cant respect that she dosent deserve you

AztecWarrior · 2004-04-25, 06:38 PM

Originally Posted by Triggar

The girl is a wench.

Say, "I really don't have the patience to have someone in my life who can't even respect me enough to keep the plans we've made. I'm sorry, but try it out on some other guy. Enough is enough."

Don't even worry about the three months you've "invested" with this girl. She's going to keep doing it no matter what you say, and then she'll end up breaking up with you for some stupid reason anyway. Let her go. There are three trillion people on Earth, you can find someone else who treats you well. You have no excuse.

What she said.

Jennyboo · 2004-04-25, 06:42 PM

Mag-Mower · 2004-04-25, 06:49 PM

Start talking like BTW, OMW, AMS AT NME GEN, w00t, n00b, teh l337 skeeter driv3r is teh l3373s7 n00b eva, and always talk like that, she will get pissed off and leave... take it from me

Derfud · 2004-04-25, 07:19 PM

hahahah

EarlyDawn · 2004-04-25, 07:39 PM

JetRaiden · 2004-04-25, 07:40 PM

Originally Posted by Mag-Mower

Start talking like BTW, OMW, AMS AT NME GEN, w00t, n00b, teh l337 skeeter driv3r is teh l3373s7 n00b eva, and always talk like that, she will get pissed off and leave... take it from me

you actually DID that?

Jennyboo · 2004-04-25, 07:58 PM

Kyonye · 2004-04-25, 09:10 PM

Thats um....um....