My girlfriends Christian fanatic parents

[I Hate Pants]

Jaged, I did the exact same thing. This girl I knew went to a christian youth group as well (im an atheists). It was runned by the salvation army. I went to a few of them figuring there'd be no harm. But once we started talking about the bible and they started asking me to go to church I realised I really didn't fit in.

You probably like her now. But once you start going to the youth groups and church. You'll soon realise how you don't fit in with the people. If anything it encouraged me to go find a girl I could relate too more.

I especially knew I made a mistake going to these things because the woman incharge of the youth group started calling me and asking me to come sing with the choir and hand the donation bowl around the church.

I just stopped going and completely ignored her.

Now when I run into her she glares at me (the woman) probably thinking im a sinner or something .

I dunno about the girl. Her house was destroyed to make room for a road and her dad died. I think she's snorting crack somewhere on the streets of Toronto. Whatever

[Electrofreak]

Originally Posted by I Hate Pants

I dunno about the girl. Her house was destroyed to make room for a road and her dad died. I think she's snorting crack somewhere on the streets of Toronto. Whatever

lmao I'm sure thats REALLY comforting to Jaged

[Mr1337Duck]

Originally Posted by JetRaiden

tell them your an islamic extremeist.

with any luck they'll disown their daughter for dating you, and she'll be all yours.

NOTE:

ALAHU ACKBAR!!!

[Apocolypse55]

Originally Posted by BeRtiNe469

I must say you do post very fast considering we were just talking about this. Well I dont really have any advice at this point in time. sorry

If that was inded your girlfriend. And she does play PlanetSide, hold onto her!

Oh and btw, you just admitted to wanting to stab her parents in front of her...

May wanna edit that post...

[Angel_of_Death]

Originally Posted by Apocolypse55

If that was inded your girlfriend. And she does play PlanetSide, hold onto her!

Oh and btw, you just admitted to wanting to stab her parents in front of her...

May wanna edit that post...

[starbum]

My question to you is; do you think you can make your own decisions based on your feelings? No matter what you post or what your situation is... there is a good chance you wont like what we're telling you. I�m not discouraging you from coming to us... I'm just saying that sometimes going out on your own, taking risks, and making mistakes is the best way to learn and to grow.

IMHO, I totally agree with jennyboo, the decision to be with you is hers alone. If she wanted to she could stomp her feet and take a stand for her own feelings. Who are you dating; her or her parents? If her parents wont let her see you...it isn�t your fight. It�s between her and her parents. If she lets them win and won�t do everything in her power to pursue what she wants... then I'd say you should reevaluate things or try to stick with it. Things might fail, but at least you can say you tried. If she takes a stand for herself and her interests... then she truly wants to be with you and wont accept no for an answer. Happy times are ahead for you both.

Either way; take a stand for your feelings. If you want to be with her, by all means, do what you have to do to be with her. Things can go either way with that. If you don�t want to risk yourself to the pain, agony, and disappointment with continuing to be with her... take a stand for yourself and put the decision in HER shoes. If she wants to keep you... she'll have to fight for you. If she isn�t up for it, she might not be ready to be with you.

Trust me, there are other women out there if this doesn�t go so well. I know you're probably saying to yourself "that�s a big clich�"... but it�s absolutely true. I had a relationship with a gal for a year and a half and it ended badly. I was stunned because I was completely unprepared for the change... but a month after the breakup, I met a new girl at a concert and things hit off pretty sudden. That ended as well a couple months later due to college work stresses... and another month later after that breakup I had a couple of non-committed flings and have now found a new girl that I am working to be with. So at least take it by my example... there are other girls out there, and it will only get better from there. You wont get together with a girl that was worse than the one before, right? So look ahead! There's probably a perfectly wonderful girl out there available to you with better parents! It might be a month or so before you meet her... but nature takes its course once you do.

In the meantime... make some decisions on your own. (I don�t mean this in an offensive way at all) You know the best decisions for yourself already. If you still want to come to us, great, have at it. Just remember the best advice to live by are the mistakes and successes of yourself.

[Kyonye]

My father has problems with me dating out of the jewish community, but i do. I am content on marrying a jewish woman (hopefully), but things may change. it may be impossible to change these parents' mind. honestly, i doubt their mind will change, you just have to make it so that they can cope with this idea of dating their daughter as much as they hate it...it may take time but you can get lucky, they could wear down...

a great leader is one who has endurance, who never backs down. outlast them, and it may work...

[Giovanni]

Originally Posted by Jaged

Woh, hey brittany. I diddn't expect you to sign up to these forums.

You sir, have been owned!

Quite frankly, changing will never help didly squat. Plus you do realise that you won't be able to tap that ass until marriage uh? Either tell her parents to suck it up and accept that at 16 years old morally and legaly their daughter can make her own decisions.

Shit in canada at 14 you can approve sleeping with a 56 years old and it's legal because you made that choice. So legaly you could go out with her and they don't have shit to say, in fact she could just tell them to fuck off.

[JetRaiden]

pick a random verse from the bible (preferably a semi-well known one) and recite it to them next time you see them. if you present it in a clever manner, Im sure they'll bend over backwards to suck your dick.

sorry I'm just brainstorming.

[Jaged]

Originally Posted by Apocolypse55

Oh and btw, you just admitted to wanting to stab her parents in front of her...

May wanna edit that post...

no she hates her parents as much as I do. They are indeed nazis

Originally Posted by Giovanni

You sir, have been owned!

Lol I diddn't get owned, I was just supprised to see her post here. I diddn't say anything in any of my posts that I wouldnt of said to her face. I just diddn't think she would sign up and post on the forums.

I just got off the phone with her. We talked for about 3 hours. I love her.

[Indecisive]

I scan the intiall post and see

"because im not a christian"
"hate them"
"flame"
and of course
" brutaly stab them to death"

Hehe. that makes me giggle.

[Breed]

Originally Posted by Triggar

I say get rid of her...At your age, I say it's not even worth the trouble.

I have to agree with the Trigmeister on this one mate, never ever ever change your beliefs for a girl, no matter how much you like her.
Even if you managed to bend and break your back for her parents, they would end up hating you for not having the courage to stand up for what you believe in.

Try dating her behind their back if she's so important to you, bend the rules.

[Gigabein]

Originally Posted by Jaged

Planning ahead for marriage is not really something that matters.

If you're asking her to defy her parents and risk alienating them, you'd better be planning for marriage. Over-protective or not, they are HER parents and they love her more than either of you can imagine. Don't damage her family just so you can have a romantic fling with this girl. Do this honestly or leave them alone. Hamma and Jen are a good example of this. They proved to her parents that they were 100% committed.

[Jennyboo]

Originally Posted by Kyonye

My father has problems with me dating out of the jewish community, but i do. I am content on marrying a jewish woman (hopefully), but things may change. it may be impossible to change these parents' mind. honestly, i doubt their mind will change, you just have to make it so that they can cope with this idea of dating their daughter as much as they hate it...it may take time but you can get lucky, they could wear down...

a great leader is one who has endurance, who never backs down. outlast them, and it may work...

Agreed Also always remember this Your dating their daughter not them ... Your feelings for her really shouldent have noting to do with them. Keeping her happy is the key and if enduring and never backing down wins their arroval you'll feel alot better in the long run. If you want to be in it for the long run. Only time will tell

[Jennyboo]

Ops where is Hamma when you need him to remove a post