Stupid Mom

[Doobz]

^
pretty much goes for me too

EDIT: would have worked better if this post didn't START A NEW DANG PAGE! world's out to cause me stress in any way, shape, or form, i swear

[Jaged]

Why do I feel like Doobz is my clone?

[Jaged]

Oh, and doobz, is that sig from Splinter Cell?

[Pilgrim]

Oversensitivity a sign of youth HEHEHE

(BTW I can't spell... stupid public education and I work in a career in which spelling is not essential, so I've never taught myself)

I remember hating my parents and all their stupid rules when I was young (MANY MANY Years ago) but I tell ya things that seemed earth shaking at the time were all trully petty and small.

I had to go through allot of years hating my parents and would highly encourage all you youngsters to get over it. Parents do what they think is right... rarely do their children see the same point no matter how calmly you try to explain it to them.

I've now lost one of my parrents (my father) and cherish the other...

Love'em while you got'em cause you'll miss'em when they're gone!

PAX

[Dqua]

To the one who said BHD had a bad story:

You must not have a clue that this was a real incident, in which 3000+ somalies(sp?) died and 24 american's died (state department only acknowledges 18...)

And to Jaged you should read the book this movie was based on. Might give you a better understanding. And to the watching over porn at an early age, c`est la vie, it fucks with your head, you won't realize it till you're older but you will, if I could do it all over I would've stayed away from that shit till I was much older.

Parent's aren't always right in the ways they raise their children, look at social services that has to remove children from parent's custody who beat them, or sexualy molest them, or sell them on the street for prostitution, or leave them alone for days while they are off being neglegent about their offspring.

Shame on a lot of you.

[Bighoss]

you can argue and get angry with your parents but it still doesn't mean you don't respect them.

[Squeeky]

Originally posted by Jaged
Oh, and doobz, is that sig from Splinter Cell?

yes

[Arshune]

There's nothing wrong with hating your parents, in fact, the belief that it is wrong can be harmful. Just because someone has a child and pays to raise it doesn't mean they're automatically a good person.

Doing what you think is best isn't necessarily the best choice. The more repressive the parents are, the more likely the kid is to act out in a self-destructive way. The more forbidden something is, the more likely the kid is to do it. Our friend Jaged here is a perfect example of what I'm talking about, his mom said no so what'd he do? He went out and saw the movie.

Once a kid is 14-15, there's not a whole lot parents can do to stop them from doing whatever they want, the only thing they can really do is make the kid's life harder/more annoying. This amounts to a big lot of stress for both parties, a smart (read: manipulative) parent will guide rather than try to control.

[Mtx]

This is why I refuse to have anymore children.

[Bighoss]

I just refuse to have kids. A dog is good enough and takes less money. I would rather have the money

[Tobias]

But there are allot of things that 14-15 year olds might want to do that they should not be doing and that a good parent should try to stop them from doing.

[Arshune]

That's why I'm saying that a good parent will try to stop them, but not be firmer than need dictates. My parents didn't really give me a whole lot of flak through my teenage years (which I'm on the tail end of still); about the only guideline I really have is a loose curfew...they'll nag me if I'm not in by 11, but they never get bent out of shape about it. They didn't really talk to me about sex or drugs or anything, and I'm a perfect little angel (that's not sarcasm, I don't date, drink, or dope up).

My brother on the other hand, turned out to be a deadbeat lieabout. With him, they were very, very strict. He wasn't allowed to have girls over unless they were both there, he wasn't allowed out past ten, etc. He started selling other kids acid when he was 15.

That's what I'm basing my point on.

[Jaged]

Originally posted by Arshune
Our friend Jaged here is a perfect example of what I'm talking about, his mom said no so what'd he do? He went out and saw the movie.

My mom not wanting me to see the movie had no affect whatsoever on wether or not I saw it. I would of seen it if she would of let me, and I saw it when she diddn't let me. All this shows, is that I diddn't like the rule she made so I chose not to follow it.

[mistled]

Actually, all it shows is that you are in rebellion.

[Mtx]

Enough of this boring crap. Lets talk about sex.