I wont post much.. anymore..

[WildEagle]

You have my condolences. That's really terrible tthey might need a social worker for this one.(atleast that's what happened to my ex).

[HunterKiller]

good luck sir.

[Rayder]

Originally Posted by EarlyDawn

And obviously, don't take advantage of the weakened emotional state, but if she wants comfort, give it. Care and love her.

Listen to this guy, he knows what he's talking about from past experience (the stuff about the taking advantage of a weakened emotional state, not the lovey dovey stuff).

[JetRaiden]

Originally Posted by Mango

If you can't go in to see her, write her a letter. She needs all the support she can get for you right now.

Id go to the hospital anyway, and if anyone asks you, just say youre a cousin or something, or just to fuck off. if I was in that kind of position Id rather take the chance to see her and spend a fuckin hour or so in a holding cell then to just hope everything goes ok.

[UncleDynamite]

And offer to help her in any way. Whenever one of my friends are having troubles, it always amazes me how grateful they are when I offer them a hand. The most important thing, however, is to listen to her. Sometimes, when you're having problems, you just have to spew out everything that's on your mind, everything that's troubling you and everything that you're afraid will trouble you. Then you'll feel compelled to say everything that's in between, and then everything that doesn't have to deal with anything at all. And when you have someone who can geniunely listen to all that and understand you without thinking that you must be a looney, that can mean everything in the world.

Having the feeling that someone now knows what you know can be the most comforting thing in the world.