I need some more girl help.

[Jaged]

I know I said I was gone from PSU, but I have reached a roadblock in the path to getting a girlfriend, and I remembered where I always used to go for advice, PSU! Anyway, to the point. There is a girl at school named Stephanie. We are good friends, but unfortunately that is all. I was going to ask her out tomorrow, but after talking to her friend, I realized that Steph only thought of me as a friend. How do I get her to think of me as more than just a friend?




p.s. I am still gone, just temporally back for advice.

[GonePostal]

you and me both pal

stupid ass holes flirtin with my g/f, been doing it for weeks now, its really startin to piss me off (they take it to an extreme when they start touchin her)

[Jaged]

Huh, thats not my problem, I don't have a gf yet. Did you read my post?

[GonePostal]

ye, i cant give much advice though im sort of a fuck up when it comes to girls, im just an asshole sometimes

if she wants to be just friends then there isnt much you can do, but you could tell her how you feel( if ya got the balls) and it might put you closer, or it could backfire

ask tek though

[Jaged]

Postal, you just told me exactly what I needed to hear. I think I will tell her how I feel. Any suggestions on how to do this? Remember she dosent know that I know that she wants to be friends.

[Squeeky]

Jaged,
Though you flamed me young padawan, i will give you some advice.

Tell her how you feel. Don't feel emberassed or corny, tell her how you really feel and be sincere. Don't giggle, don't smirk, just be up front with her. Girls love that, i'm talking from experience. I was in a similar situation, and girls love it when an honest guy doesn't beat around the bush. But steps up to the plate and tells her whats up. Goodluck

[GonePostal]

hahaha he just called you a young padawan!

girls are the ones that beat around the bush all they do is play games.

but really squeekys got the right idea, just tell her you need to talk to her sometime that day, and just be cool about it.

[JetRaiden]

Originally Posted by Squeeky

Tell her how you feel.

Nope. If shes sensitive she'll feel bad for you, and your relationship will be fucked forever. if shes a bitch, she'll turn you down like a soggy tuna sandwich.


the line between good friends and bf/gf is like that big preplexing black wall from Planet of the Apes.

[Squeeky]

Shit Jet. I'm not afraid of being turned down. That's the last thing you need to worry about. Rejection is part of the process of dating. And if you can't take risks or chances you will never succeed.

As for her being a softy, ask her how she feels about YOU honestly. Tell her you won't be mad, you just wanna know if there is some basis for a relationship or if she'd be willing to develop one.

[Jaged]

Thanks Squeeky. I know this is kinda derailing my own thread, but I want to leave PSU on good terms with you. Im sorry I don't feel good about giving you such a hard time. Can you forgive me? Anything you said to me is forgiven.

[Squeeky]

All is well on my end Jaged. I never hold grudges and forgot hating you after a week, it's all good in the neighborhood .

Now back to discussing my Hobby, girls

[GonePostal]

alright, ignore everything raiden just said, even that important part about that black wall and planet of the apes.

let her know you dont want her to do the whole pitty routine for a week, and if she is your friend she most likely wont be a bitch unless you harass her about it. ask her if it is at all possible and to be completely honest.

and if all else fails, ill sell you some roofies

edit: lol somebody needs to videotape squeeky laying the moves on a chick, i would pay to see squeeky mackin on some girl

[Black]

Originally Posted by GonePostal

ye, i cant give much advice though im sort of a fuck up when it comes to girls, im just an asshole sometimes

SOMETIMES thats such horse shit

[Jaged]

Glad thats over, lol.

Anyway, thanks for the advice everyone, it is really helping. I think she is the kind of girl that will find it cute. I think that telling her I like her could only have a positive effect on our relationship.

[JetRaiden]

ehh....it depends on the girl....ok, I'll be honest, if you can take rejection, tell her how you feel...otherwise, seek her friends for advice, if they're up for it. good luck.


p.s.
Dont take that planet of the apes stuff so literally.