I don't get women.....

Jaged · 2003-12-09, 07:03 PM

Girls are too complicated. You probably all remember when I was so excited about Stephanie accepting my invation to the dance. Well the damn dance got cancled. I asked her if she wanted to do anything else with me on that day. She said no. Now my question is, why would someone say yes to going out with me on thrusday and no on tuesday?

firecrackerNC · 2003-12-09, 07:08 PM

dont ask us,ask her

Sputty · 2003-12-09, 07:12 PM

Originally Posted by Jaged

Girls are too complicated.

Or maybe you're too simple

Well, a dance is important to a girl, it's a social event. She doesn't want you as a friend, she wants you as a date. She may have also been sad about that. I'm not saying I understand women but girls around that age aren't really that hard to understand

Jaged · 2003-12-09, 07:13 PM

I will, but I am impatient, and looking for any kind of understanding I can get before school tomorrow.

ultraviolet · 2003-12-09, 07:14 PM

Why don't you ask her if she wants to go to dinner instead? Or to a local teen club/dance place (if you have one)? Or watch a movie?

Yes, women are too damn complicated. I'm the first to admit it, too. I don't understand myself or my feelings about half the time.

What I'd like to know is why men take me for granted.

Oh, and about what age are we talking here?

Jaged · 2003-12-09, 07:15 PM

Im 15, shes 14.

ultraviolet · 2003-12-09, 07:17 PM

Hrm... Ask her if she'd like to do something else? I'd have a couple other examples of something date-like, like what I previously mentioned.

Jaged · 2003-12-09, 07:21 PM

I said almost those exact words after I told her about the dance being cancled. I got a "no, thats ok" and we both kind of just walked away.

JetRaiden · 2003-12-09, 08:24 PM

Originally Posted by Jaged

Girls are too complicated. You probably all remember when I was so excited about Stephanie accepting my invation to the dance. Well the damn dance got cancled. I asked her if she wanted to do anything else with me on that day. She said no. Now my question is, why would someone say yes to going out with me on thrusday and no on tuesday?

well, dances are alot more easy to accept for chicks, but going out alone is a step above that, because at a dance they can ditch you any time they want, and everyone will be there anyway.

GonePostal · 2003-12-09, 08:26 PM

she doesnt really like you, she just felt bad for you cause a couple of her friends made fun of you, now she is just trying to ditch you

deal with it

Rayder · 2003-12-09, 08:36 PM

Originally Posted by GonePostal

she doesnt really like you, she just felt bad for you cause a couple of her friends made fun of you, now she is just trying to ditch you

deal with it

Most likely

GonePostal · 2003-12-09, 08:37 PM

thats why i didnt put j/k at the bottum of that

JetRaiden · 2003-12-09, 08:38 PM

Originally Posted by GonePostal

she doesnt really like you, she just felt bad for you cause a couple of her friends made fun of you, now she is just trying to ditch you

deal with it

Evertime GonePostal posts he expresses negativity. Ban him! Anyway, yea, that may be true, but most likely not. ANd even if it was you dont shove it in their face. Learn how to respect other people. If I knew where you lived I'd paint your house!

GonePostal · 2003-12-09, 08:41 PM

id kick your ass then paint your house a bright orange

its not negative im just telling the truth, lying to people can have serious emotional effects on them

Jaged · 2003-12-09, 08:46 PM

Originally Posted by GonePostal

she doesnt really like you, she just felt bad for you cause a couple of her friends made fun of you, now she is just trying to ditch you

deal with it

Please never post something like that in one of my threads again.