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Old 2003-05-07, 07:54 PM   [Ignore Me] #1
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My grandma had a stroke this morning


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My paternal grandma, it can be argued, died a year ago.

She fell on her left arm, requring surgery to fix the shoulder joint. Nothing major.

She had a little Alzheimer's disease (deterioration of memory and rational thought), but the anesthetic used in the operation made it go wild. Her mind is gone. For all your Home Star Runner fans, she sort of sounded like Homsar.

Just an example: A few weeks ago I was at the nursing home. I picked up the remote control to change the TV channel. She said "No tiras eso, mi papa tuvo eso por mucho tiempo..." Don't throw that, my dad has had that for a long time.

After school, I walked over to the front of the school after school to get picked up. The other lady in our carpool told me "Your mom is picking you up." I was a bit astounded, and called my mom. She was less than 2 blocks away.

She picked me up, and told me, my younger brother, and my even younger brother (9th, 7th, and 3rd grades, respectively) that my paternal grandma had a stroke.

After a serious discussion, we picked up my Uncle Gilberto and Aunt Minerva, who are newlyweds and spending time with us. My mom and I walked into the Intensive Care Unit.

She was in bed 14, surrounded by about three family members: cousin my age, his mom, and another of my aunts (I think).

I looked at my grandma. She was lying in bed, only her face visible. She was pale, even more than usual. Her eyes were mostly closed, just a bit open when viewed from the right angle. Her mouth was stuck open. She was unable to move the left half of her body. There was a tube coming out of her nose, and 2 IVs of Sodium Chloride, .9% and .45%, going into her.

I think that any remaining childhood in me has been blasted away.

Eventually, another of my aunts got off of the ICU telephone and my mom went for it. My dad was on the line (he was about to perform a surgery). She talked, and I began to shed some tears. For me, any hope of her recovering is gone. All the good times I had back then, when she lived in Orlando, are gone. It's all gone.

DNR stands for Do Not Recusitate, commonly known as 'Letting him/her go'. Basically, you let the patient die because the quality of life is bad and outweighs life itself. This is not to be mixed up with euthanasia, which is the killing of a terminally ill patient. DNR/Letting it go, under correct circumstances, is OK with the Catholic Church (my family's denomination).

DNR requires 2 or 3 doctors to recommend it. My uncle(cardiologist) has recommended DNR.

I've got a bad feeling in my stomach right now. It was shocking to me to see her like that. I feel horrible.
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:01 PM   [Ignore Me] #2
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not much more i can say than, Sorry dude.

You ahve our support and prayrs. and more man lub than you know what to do wit.
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:13 PM   [Ignore Me] #3
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that sucks man hope you get better if you were anywhere near me I could take you out for a beer or tequila but I doubt your anywhere near my hell hole
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:13 PM   [Ignore Me] #4
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sorry dude.........

but my question is y would u post this if u didnt want anybody to really say anything?

now im not sayin this to like piss you off or anything but it jsut seemed kinda weird to post and then not want anybody to say anything about it.
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:14 PM   [Ignore Me] #5
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Spider: I'm 14. Can't touch alcohol.

Magneto: I never said not to post.
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:16 PM   [Ignore Me] #6
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so your 14?? why does that matter not like my club minds underage drinking I have been there since I was 15..

but still good luck mate take care of yourself and your family
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:17 PM   [Ignore Me] #7
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Im sorry man, I hope youre okay
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:24 PM   [Ignore Me] #8
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Sworry to hear that.


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Old 2003-05-07, 08:50 PM   [Ignore Me] #9
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Old 2003-05-07, 08:54 PM   [Ignore Me] #10
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you need a hug



and some love



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Old 2003-05-07, 09:07 PM   [Ignore Me] #11
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Aztec, I'm really sorry man, Im gonna send you a PM
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Old 2003-05-07, 09:15 PM   [Ignore Me] #12
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that fuckin sucks man-

-good luck-
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Old 2003-05-07, 09:20 PM   [Ignore Me] #13
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dam man , that sucks :'(
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Old 2003-05-07, 10:10 PM   [Ignore Me] #14
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Old 2003-05-07, 10:24 PM   [Ignore Me] #15
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Hey dude, im really sorry. I know how you feel, my grandma past away last year im 15 so we are close in age, and it was really hard at the holidays last year. Well I just wanted to let you know that your not the only one, I know what your going through. Well good luck and god bless.
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